oldest virgin

[Prak]

33, wish I could blame it on waiting for marriage, but it would be lying to myself. Led a pretty sheltered life till 18, parents didn't allow me to go out (Traditional Indian Upbringing FTL) So getting that early experience with social queues never really developed. Doesn't help that I tend to go blank and lock up around the ladies, especially the ones I find attractive. Makes things VERY awkward being a clam.

Around where I live in Atlanta, its unheard of to be a virgin past 18. Only one of my friends know but I'm sure the others can probably guess. (The person that knows is a good friendgirl of mine, but she's very loyal to her longterm BF of 3 years, so I couldn't and shouldn't go down that road) Sucks being horny all the time too

Haven't given up yet though

 

[LurkJerk]

Had confidence issues for my teen years, now those are fading but I don't have a real social life... So still a virgin, but I have a feeling that will only last a few more years.

Also, yeah, want it to be with someone I like and who likes me. Preferably. Even with more confidence, I'm still shy around ladies, and reserved/conservative in my sexual approach. But women have not been attracted much to me until recently--and now it's been mostly married or taken women!

 

[tinydick_sweden78]

I'm 34 still a virgin

 

[mexdude]

I was 27 , i just didnt had much luck in younger years, i was too shy, and too antisocial

 

[Almost40]

The global virgin gathering....

 

[BIGBULL29]

Boys, sticking your dick in a pussy isn't going to be a life-changing experience. You're not going to get eternal peace and happiness from it. And for crying out loud, why do we care if others care if we've already fucked a puss. Do you tell others the last time you jacked your peter off? Seriously...

Older male virgins can be quite an erotic thought for some. :smile:

 

[someperson]

That said, there are virgins who should lose their virginity at some point, but I am afraid that for some, losing their virginity will do little to change their lack of desire with actual sex with others. So there's no real point in losing it.

yeah losing it would do absolutely nothing..

 

[bigmatt1983]

Boys, sticking your dick in a pussy isn't going to be a life-changing experience. You're not going to get eternal peace and happiness from it.

thats what ive always figured

 

[wishingfor10]

I lost mine at the age of 18.

Between the ages of 18 to my present age of 53 have not managed get laid since!

I sure do miss it! Back then it was a daily occurrence for several hours for 9 months long except on those monthly occasions. I think God must have it for me as I have make passes talk to every girl i can. I am also on 3 dating sites.

Guess I am a born again virgin. I am also not ugly nor fat.

 

[wishingfor10]

I should have said between the ages of 19 to 53.

 

[docilej]

I lost my virginity when I was 22. Dating-wise things were so bad I had to pay to lose it.

 

[mexdude]

Why wait so long? Is it religious/moral? You want to find "the one," to be really meaningful and special?
When I was in high school I was very desperate to get laid and lose my virginity...so I want to understand where you guys are coming from.

From my personal experience, what was the real issue to stay virgin for so long (until i was 27) , was that i didnt had the courage to talk with more women.

I've had chances but I find it so awkward to actually go though with it. Don't have a lot of confidence down "there". That being said still would love to just need to get over that mindset.

I have a quite close friend that was the most succesful guy with women i know, and from a girl that what with him, he was on the small side, and not quite good in bed, worry more to get hard and move nice, than anything

 

[luvguyz]

I was either 24 or 34 depending on how u define it. I didn't start fooling around until I was 24 (kissing, oral, etc.) But I didn't start having anal sex until 4 years ago when I was 34.

 

[PlainMatt]

I'm still a total virgin. I'll be 21 soon. Always will be a V with girls and probably will be with guys depending on what you count. I'm gay but have no interest in anal, and I wear a chastity device so there's no action with that anymore. I just like to fool around with a guy, touch, kiss, and I'm into bondage play and some kinky stuff. I really never feel the need to orgasm with someone to have a good time.

 

[jayman1818]

I'm 26 and still a virgin. I've never done anything with anyone.

 

[jay-c]

Just recently lost mine in my mid 30's. Like some others, I had some confidence issues and really didn't get out much. I focused way too much time on education and career and it was tough to break out of it. I actually was beginning to lose hope of ever partnering up with someone. But don't lose hope guys! I found a wonderful and beautiful (and horny) lady online and we're actually getting married this summer. So, it can happen to you too!

As for the first time sex, it was expectedly awkward and not exactly the stuff of dreams. I was so nervous I couldn't even cum. Took a few times before I could relax and get used to the very different kind of stimulation than masturbating alone with your hand and porn. It's very good now. The warmth and wetness of a woman's vagina are things you read about often but can never quite understand until you've experienced it.

 

[horneyoldguy]

25 wedding night

 

[horneyoldguy]

Is there any way to have a real and only STRAIGHT section somewhere in this site? Where no gays show up talking about gay stuff?
Really. Stop with gay material in the straight section. Everyone in here seems to be gay.

I don't care of sexual orientation of people, I just don't want to surf on so many gay stuff in here to find something straight.

This thread? It's just different from gay and straight. It's obvious that many gay people need more time to accept themselves, to find their sexuality. But this is different from the usual explanation of a late virgin straight guy (or girl?)...

Damn...

Whether you like it or not everyone who classifies themselves as straight has a little gay in them. Why else would a guy admire another guys physique, want to see the money shot in a porno flick, or sneak a peek at some guys cock to see if he is bigger than you.

 

[BIGBULL29]

Why else would a guy admire another guys physique, want to see the money shot in a porno flick, or sneak a peek at some guys cock to see if he is bigger than you.

Because he's attracted to the penis...I mean he has one himself...common sense....

 

[B_SeattleYo]

Whether you like it or not everyone who classifies themselves as straight has a little gay in them. Why else would a guy admire another guys physique, want to see the money shot in a porno flick, or sneak a peek at some guys cock to see if he is bigger than you.

Not this shit again. Not in this thread. jesus.