Open Relationship Couples

[LovinThickWomen]

I am curious how many people couples on here have an open relationship. Ours is quite different than most and have more of a hotwife situation than swingers. My wife had only been with a few people before me and I was the biggest. I wanted her to try out new things, and we have been doing that for about 6-7 months or so. Still havent found exactly what we are looking for but a good 8" plus dick isn't easy to find. Curious to see how many others here have an open relationship and how it's working for them.

I attached my wife in her It's not cheating if my husband watches t shirt... :biglaugh:

 

[sbat]

What's a hotwife situation?

 

[LovinThickWomen]

What's a hotwife situation?

Basically the wife gets to play and the husband doesn't.

 

[sbat]

Is that the same thing as cuckold?

 

[LovinThickWomen]

Is that the same thing as cuckold?

No cuckolds tend to like being humiliated and crap like that. In my eyes sex is supposed to be fun. There doesn't seem to be any fun in having someone make fun of me. I like pleasure and support my wife seeking pleasure on her own and with me.

 

[daddydick84]

Wow she has some amazing big ass breasts. Good goin on that catch!! Ur a licky man

 

[LovinThickWomen]

Wow she has some amazing big ass breasts. Good goin on that catch!! Ur a licky man

Thanks! Really quite perky considering the size of those monsters!

 

[SpacemanSpliff]

I would love to get my girlfriend into some couples play or a mff situation, but she has voiced her opinions on it and didn't sound enthusiastic at all. How can I get her to open up a little? She's super territorial over me when it comes to other ladies, so that's probably my biggest hurdle, that, and how I go about approaching her with the prospect of fucking other women....

She has said I'm the biggest and best she's ever had, but I want to have someone else with us to share that feeling, plus who doesn't want a 3sum?!

 

[LovinThickWomen]

I would love to get my girlfriend into some couples play or a mff situation, but she has voiced her opinions on it and didn't sound enthusiastic at all. How can I get her to open up a little? She's super territorial over me when it comes to other ladies, so that's probably my biggest hurdle, that, and how I go about approaching her with the prospect of fucking other women....

She has said I'm the biggest and best she's ever had, but I want to have someone else with us to share that feeling, plus who doesn't want a 3sum?!

Well if she isn't into sharing you are probably not going to talk her into it. If you aren't willing to share her with other men, to her it's going to sound a lot more like you are looking for a free pass to fuck other women without her. That's going to be a tough road to climb.

We spent 3 years talking about it and role playing before we took the plunge. Being married is a lot different than having a girlfriend, so there was patience involved there knowing that I had some time to play with.

 

[SpacemanSpliff]

Good points. I'm not really opposed at all to a mmf situation, it would be awesome to finally fulfill my dp fantasies. I don't know if I'm just giving her all the pleasure she needs, but she's never been vocal about experimenting or anything with other people.

Is there some type of dialog or segue I can introduce to her to slowly get her into it, something subtle? I really want to try, and definitely want her to know its not just about me receiving pleasure.

 

[LovinThickWomen]

Good points. I'm not really opposed at all to a mmf situation, it would be awesome to finally fulfill my dp fantasies. I don't know if I'm just giving her all the pleasure she needs, but she's never been vocal about experimenting or anything with other people.

Is there some type of dialog or segue I can introduce to her to slowly get her into it, something subtle? I really want to try, and definitely want her to know its not just about me receiving pleasure.

Without knowing her I am not sure... My wife had a crush on one of my friends and thats how we worked into it at first. I got them to text each other and he pulled out a monster cock and she was hooked after that. I used him as an entrance into things.

I think your best bet is to start with the MFM idea first so its more about her and her pleasure.

 

[daddydick84]

When we were dating my wife was very protective over me but we were brutally honest too. Wed share our fantasies.and one I told her was.to have a.3some. Shes into girls to some point so I let her take the sitiation into her hands and go at her pace. Whay I said to her was id like to have a 3some one day and to watch her and the other girl then just fuck my wife. When the time came I did what I said and it was her that asked to join in on fuckin the other girl. Thats how it played out for me. Just be veru respectful to your wife AND MAKE SURE YOU PAY PLENTY ATTENTION TO UR GF!! Thays very important to make it a good experience. Do not leave her out. And be honest with her.

 

[Daisy]

It depends on your motivation for being open. My marriage was falling apart and in a last ditch effort to keep it together we decided to be open (for breathing room). That didnt work at all. It was nice for me to finally have good sex but I felt terrible about the whole thing and ended up just getting divorced. We shouldve done that at the start.

 

[LovinThickWomen]

It depends on your motivation for being open. My marriage was falling apart and in a last ditch effort to keep it together we decided to be open (for breathing room). That didnt work at all. It was nice for me to finally have good sex but I felt terrible about the whole thing and ended up just getting divorced. We shouldve done that at the start.

Yeah I have seen that before and it's never a good idea to start on those terms...

 

[Sirramm]

My ex-wife and I were swingers for many years and while I prefer sharing her with other men, watching, and of course joining in is/was the biggest turn on. By far for me however was having her come home loaded full of cum and getting the sloppy seconds, thirds, or more. It was a huge turn on to be out and see other guys oggle her and her beautiful breasts knowing "hey buddy...you could have some if SHE wants you to but until then yeah I'm going home with her!"

My new wife is slowly getting into the swinging/open relationship scene. However, like my ex-wife, she and I prefer having another guy vs. another female join us. Just our preference.

 

[SpacemanSpliff]

Great comments, getting some helpful ideas! Time to start dropping those subtle hints! I think this weekend we'll go out drinking, and maybe i'll bring it up at some point when I feel like she's at her peak of openness, lol.

 

[sbat]

Great comments, getting some helpful ideas! Time to start dropping those subtle hints! I think this weekend we'll go out drinking, and maybe i'll bring it up at some point when I feel like she's at her peak of openness, lol.

This is better as a sober conversation than a drunk one

 

[D_Harry_Dique]

After year of trying I finally convinced my wife have sex with other men while i watch.
BTW where did you get that shirt ? Would love to get one for my wife.

 

[LovinThickWomen]

After year of trying I finally convinced my wife have sex with other men while i watch.
BTW where did you get that shirt ? Would love to get one for my wife.

We spent 3 years before anything happened. I can't remember were I got that from. Online somewhere... Just type the saying into google and you will find it.

 

[B_theman1536]

im in...wow