He just mirrors our fellow Nigerian queer men, majority of them don't care as a hole is a hole and will date or screw any man although it's somewhat rooted in internalized homophobia as they may not even think they are gay since the man has a pussy and sometimes transphobia because they still view these transmen as women. It's also kinda ironic as most accepting Nigerian parents with gay kids will rather them date transmen because they think they have a shot at having kids than cis men,Bolu's father once hinted to the press that he may fully accept his son if he marries a transman
As someone who've never been with a cis man before and have only dated one man who happened to be trans, genital preferences are not transphobic, it's only transphobic when said preference becomes an exclusivity. I understand if it's just a quick cum and dump or one night stand as you've imagined what you want at that time but if it's for something serious and romantic, something much more than sex and you are excluding transmen from that, now that's transphobic.
In conclusion, why aren't we talking about transmen who refuse to date or sleep with other transmen? This is real because my ex bf is on the table and he also admitted it's not just him