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Does anyone have any info on Bruno Paz, I have a video of him with Mari Lee. He only sucks her clit and gets blowjob. I don't want to post it until I get some info about him.
He seems pretty bi on his Twitter ! He kinda like MMF according to him.
 
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He just mirrors our fellow Nigerian queer men, majority of them don't care as a hole is a hole and will date or screw any man although it's somewhat rooted in internalized homophobia as they may not even think they are gay since the man has a pussy and sometimes transphobia because they still view these transmen as women. It's also kinda ironic as most accepting Nigerian parents with gay kids will rather them date transmen because they think they have a shot at having kids than cis men,Bolu's father once hinted to the press that he may fully accept his son if he marries a transman

As someone who've never been with a cis man before and have only dated one man who happened to be trans, genital preferences are not transphobic, it's only transphobic when said preference becomes an exclusivity. I understand if it's just a quick cum and dump or one night stand as you've imagined what you want at that time but if it's for something serious and romantic, something much more than sex and you are excluding transmen from that, now that's transphobic.

In conclusion, why aren't we talking about transmen who refuse to date or sleep with other transmen? This is real because my ex bf is on the table and he also admitted it's not just him
 
He just mirrors our fellow Nigerian queer men, majority of them don't care as a hole is a hole and will date or screw any man although it's somewhat rooted in internalized homophobia as they may not even think they are gay since the man has a pussy and sometimes transphobia because they still view these transmen as women. It's also kinda ironic as most accepting Nigerian parents with gay kids will rather them date transmen because they think they have a shot at having kids than cis men,Bolu's father once hinted to the press that he may fully accept his son if he marries a transman

As someone who've never been with a cis man before and have only dated one man who happened to be trans, genital preferences are not transphobic, it's only transphobic when said preference becomes an exclusivity. I understand if it's just a quick cum and dump or one night stand as you've imagined what you want at that time but if it's for something serious and romantic, something much more than sex and you are excluding transmen from that, now that's transphobic.

In conclusion, why aren't we talking about transmen who refuse to date or sleep with other transmen? This is real because my ex bf is on the table and he also admitted it's not just him

I’m not liberal so I’ll be honest. Most people, conventional heterosexuals, view trans people as their birth sex. Hence, why some heterosexual women are suspicious of men who have been with trans women . Even some trans ppl have this view. Which explains some trans people like your ex-bf only date cis people.


This is one of the reasons why Nigerian parents are probably more accepting of their self identified gay male offspring dating a transman. They can get grandchildren. The number one reason why homosexuality isn’t accepted is because it’s doesn’t bear offspring.

Again, I don’t care if I’m being transphobic.
 
I’m not liberal so I’ll be honest. Most people, conventional heterosexuals, view trans people as their birth sex. Hence, why some heterosexual women are suspicious of men who have been with trans women . Even some trans ppl have this view. Which explains some trans people like your ex-bf only date cis people.


This is one of the reasons why Nigerian parents are probably more accepting of their self identified gay male offspring dating a transman. They can get grandchildren. The number one reason why homosexuality isn’t accepted is because it’s doesn’t bear offspring.

Again, I don’t care if I’m being transphobic.
But look at this scenario,you go out on a date with an handsome man and you both make a genuine connection that makes you not just attracted to him physically but you are attracted to his personality as a whole, you are kinda head over heels over this guy and then bam!!! He shoots at you that he's a transman,do you throw away that genuine love over his genitals even when it's evident you feel something for this man? Please be honest because I don't like people trying to be politically correct thereby making cardboard actions especially in matters of the heart
 
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But look at this scenario,you go out on a date with an handsome man and you both make a genuine connection that makes you not just attracted to him physically but you are attracted to his personality as a whole, you are kinda head over heels over this guy and then bam!!! He shoots at you that he's a transman,do you throw away that genuine love over his genitals even when it's evident you feel something for this man? Please be honest because I don't like people trying to be politically correct thereby making cardboard actions especially in matters of the heart
This questions goes to heart of the matter. What defines a man? What is desire? The whole genital preference thing is a moot point. While genital perference are a components, the heart of matter is what makes someone their sex or gender.

Personally, I would view the man as a trans men or female. Due to my background and experience, my attraction to the person would dampen. I’m not bisexual or pansexual. The attraction would dampen not because of genital preference. It’s based on my belief that people can’t change sex and that a gender is embodied experience based on one’s sex. A biological man’s experience is vastly different from that of a trans man.

Genitals don’t exist in a vacuum. Genitals (and the bodies that we are born with) shape our life and experiences. Just like how the color of out skin or the country we were raised in shapes so much of our lives.

So yes, I would leave that man.
 
This is one of the reasons why Nigerian parents are probably more accepting of their self identified gay male offspring dating a transman. They can get grandchildren. The number one reason why homosexuality isn’t accepted is because it’s doesn’t bear offspring.

Again, I don’t care if I’m being transphobic.

Please learn how hormone therapy works.
 
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But look at this scenario,you go out on a date with an handsome man and you both make a genuine connection that makes you not just attracted to him physically but you are attracted to his personality as a whole, you are kinda head over heels over this guy and then bam!!! He shoots at you that he's a transman,do you throw away that genuine love over his genitals even when it's evident you feel something for this man? Please be honest because I don't like people trying to be politically correct thereby making cardboard actions especially in matters of the heart
Hi, so I know this question was meant for someone else, but I hope you won't mind if I express my opinion on this subject because I find those questions very interesting and I wonder if anyone shares my point of view here, even if it's a bit controversial.

Basically, your scenario of going on a date or planning a hook up with someone and then finding out they are transgendered is already a bit unrealistic to me and at least some people. That's because (and I hope it doesn't sound offensive in any way) generally I can tell if someone is trans immediately. I assume there are cases where people are surprised but from my experience it's obvious. I don't know why exactly, but there are some features that make me instinctively recognise them from the cis people. So that would already preclude me from being interested in going out with them, unless in a friendly, platonic way. Another thing I'd like to mention is this: if that scenario actually ever occured for me and those who share my tastes and we would really be clueless until the person informs us or just reveals they're transgendered by undressing then yes, we would mostly stop the encounter from going anywhere further. That is beacuse, up until that point we are not really attracted to them even if we thought so at first, but we are attracted to the idea and fantasy of what we think they would look like naked etc. And that fantasy would crumble then. I think that genital preference does exist and there is nothing wrong with that, as like any sexual desire it exists beyond our concious control. So I would say that there is nothing transphobic in not wanting to sleep with a trans person, there is nothing misogynistic in not wanting to sleep with women and there is nothing racist in not wanting to sleep with the person of another race IF the reason for that is our body does not get aroused by those people. Now if we were attracted to them and refuse to give in to this attraction for some psychological and ideological reasons then yes, in that case it would be problematic. Of course I can't guarantee that I would never ever be attracted to a transgendered person, as I'm speaking about a hypothetical situation here, but if I were it may be surprising to me, but it certainly wouldn't prevent me from going through with it, yet knowing myself and my own sexual preferences I find it unlikely. Anyway, I do hope I was able to express my stance on this issue in an understandable, respectful way.