So a slight oddity I have noticed sometimes. If I stop just before orgasming I can cum without orgasming and then choose whether to have an orgasm after. Mind this difference is not normally noticeable unless I intentionally slow at the end. However it made me curious if anyone else can do this? When I do it just leaks out instead of shooting out as it normally would and then just squeezes out the last bit with the contractions when finishing.
Orgasm slightly after ejaculation
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Yes. orgasm and ejaculation are separate things, and you can have one without the other. With practice you can pick which or both.
Well I knew that some people can separate them with training to orgasm without ejaculating, I have just never heard of the other way around
Finally a thread for me lol 
Like this?
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Like this?
mine can be separate, but not quite voluntary. I had back surgery and think that there is some nerve damage that has separated the two a bit. i have to focus when I'm on the edge or i'll ejaculate before i orgasm and lose my momentum.
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As a practiced edger of many years, I can often separate ejaculation from orgasm. Just like @nate9696 's excellent video, I can get the cum flowing without an orgasm.
That's quite a load there nate.
That's quite a load there nate.
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How do you do that? Once I feel the orgasm, it’s not possible for me to stop
I learned the technique over time I guess. Its mind over matter I guess. Here is another.
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I've also mastered this, by try as much not to throb when cumming you just let it flow freely... Avoiding pulsations
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I do when having sex or jerking the nut would come first without contraction,I pump then I have the contraction don't know it cum comes out though .
Not sure why you’d want to?
I prefer to orgasm e/o ejaculating.
Have the pleasure—-and still desire and capability.
Going a step beyond, I have a lady friend who is one-and-done—-and is fantastic getting there!
But—-can’t seem to come till I do—-or won’t—-think she worked at it to make sure partner was happy before she quit—-
Anyway, I can have orgasm with her, not come, she totally powerfucks me then is asleep in 5 minutes.
I hold her for awhile then often entertain another—-very nice having the capability
I prefer to orgasm e/o ejaculating.
Have the pleasure—-and still desire and capability.
Going a step beyond, I have a lady friend who is one-and-done—-and is fantastic getting there!
But—-can’t seem to come till I do—-or won’t—-think she worked at it to make sure partner was happy before she quit—-
Anyway, I can have orgasm with her, not come, she totally powerfucks me then is asleep in 5 minutes.
I hold her for awhile then often entertain another—-very nice having the capability
