Orgasm

[nhguy78]

Since we know that much of sex is psychological is it possible for someone who has absolutely no sexual attraction to someone they may want to experiment with experience the same types of orgasms as an allosexual? I'm interested in experiencing anal orgasm but it's elusive.

 

[AllieHeidi]

If you wait until you're physically in the mood and running off of pure libido/physical urges, fully "fired up" and ready for sexual stimulation of any kind before engaging then...

No. Probably no. Based upon my own personal experience (with vaginal) that's a definite no. An absolute 'no.' The brain shuts down because of the presence of the other person "killing the mood."

In my experience, this is as possible as being able to successfully cuddle a polar bear cub with its mother sitting idly by and living to tell the tale. YMMV.

 

[playklax01]

I don't know...if you had some awesome fantasy playing in your mind, it may override that the person you're with doesn't quite suit you.

 

[nhguy78]

That's kinda what I need to do usually with any sexual intimacy. So, as far as the elusive anal orgasm, would thst be enough?

I don't know...if you had some awesome fantasy playing in your mind, it may override that the person you're with doesn't quite suit you.

 

[playklax01]

That's kinda what I need to do usually with any sexual intimacy. So, as far as the elusive anal orgasm, would thst be enough?

Never had an anal orgasm either...so can't comment on that.

 

[mmmniple]

You can try using a prostate massager as the aneros (ignore the vibrator one).
The prostate as other areas as the nipples work on a different way than the cock.
In fact most people who fail using this kind of toy is because they repeat what they already know about sex, but it is totally different : the keys are be relaxed, no expectations and enjoy whatever your body gives.
It is more related to meditation than to sex.