Paying for it

[MisterMark]

I've paid and I've been paid.

I'm with coltguy and Hung_Muscle on this. I don't relate to the negative feelings that many have for the idea of prostitution.

When I was paid, it was great for my ego (and my bank account). I enjoyed sex so much that I was able to have a good time with just about anyone. Looks didn't matter at all.

I've only paid once, but it was a great experience. I saw a really hot guy, left a note on his car offering $200 to get together with him, and 2 hours later I was in his hotel room having an awesome time. There was no desperation on my part, believe me. I got to control everything that happened, and he was happy to oblige - the little muscle-whore that he was. :bigsmile: At one point, he even moaned, "God, I love being used..." :evilgrin:

 

[B_Hung Muscle]

Mark, where do you park? I have a note and two one hundred dollar bills I need to leave under your windshield wiper.

 

[Alley Blue]

Originally posted by MisterMark@Oct 25 2005, 03:14 PM
I've paid and I've been paid.

I'm with coltguy and Hung_Muscle on this. I don't relate to the negative feelings that many have for the idea of prostitution.

When I was paid, it was great for my ego (and my bank account). I enjoyed sex so much that I was able to have a good time with just about anyone. Looks didn't matter at all.

I've only paid once, but it was a great experience. I saw a really hot guy, left a note on his car offering $200 to get together with him, and 2 hours later I was in his hotel room having an awesome time. There was no desperation on my part, believe me. I got to control everything that happened, and he was happy to oblige - the little muscle-whore that he was. :bigsmile: At one point, he even moaned, "God, I love being used..." :evilgrin:

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Hot stuff.......
You should open up a new area of the forum to post your memoirs.........you could call it "The Days and Nights or Mr.Mark".......it'll be a cross between "War and Peace" and a "Jackie Collins" novel! B-)

 

[GoneA]

Originally posted by Sorcerer@Oct 25 2005, 01:55 PM

...Legalize it already.

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I second that motion.

 

[Pene_Negro_Grande]

My guy friends and their girlfriends have gotten into many arguements about this....I personally feel that a lot of heterosexual males have paid for sex or participated in some form of that (ex. bachelor parties, massage parlors or just strippers at strip clubs)....And most guys do lie about it if they are ever asked....I have had many guy friends who will tell their girlfriend or other that they never have but in the confidence of good guy friends will tell the guys....So my theory is - if a girl doesn't want to know - don't ask because guarantee 7 out of 10 times the guy is lying....I consider it one of the males rite of passages or peer pressure (LOL)....

 

[D_Barbi_Queue]

Originally posted by GoneA+Oct 25 2005, 02:39 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(GoneA &#064; Oct 25 2005, 02:39 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-Sorcerer@Oct 25 2005, 01:55 PM

...Legalize it already.

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I second that motion.

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Move to Nevada&#33;&#33;&#33; It&#39;s legal there...just not in the city limits.

I also find the poll limited: There&#39;s no: "I haven&#39;t but I&#39;d pay a woman to have sex with me" - and I would if she was hot enough. )

 

[GoneA]

Originally posted by TexAssgirl+Oct 26 2005, 12:08 AM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(TexAssgirl &#064; Oct 26 2005, 12:08 AM)</div><div class='quotemain'>

Originally posted by GoneA@Oct 25 2005, 02:39 PM
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@Oct 25 2005, 01:55 PM

...Legalize it already.

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I second that motion.

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Move to Nevada&#33;&#33;&#33; It&#39;s legal there...just not in the city limits.

I also find the poll limited: There&#39;s no: "I haven&#39;t but I&#39;d pay a woman to have sex with me" - and I would if she was hot enough. )

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**packs up and moves to Nevada.**

 

[MisterMark]

Originally posted by Hung Muscle+Oct 25 2005, 10:06 AM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Hung Muscle &#064; Oct 25 2005, 10:06 AM)</div><div class='quotemain'>Mark, where do you park? I have a note and two one hundred dollar bills I need to leave under your windshield wiper.

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No car at the moment. But thanks. :+


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Hot stuff.......
You should open up a new area of the forum to post your memoirs.........you could call it "The Days and Nights or Mr.Mark".......it&#39;ll be a cross between "War and Peace" and a "Jackie Collins" novel&#33; B-)

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haha... You imagine that my life is much more exciting than it is in reality. -_-

 

[invisibleman]

When I was in college, I was offered a lot of money to have sex with two people on two separate occasions. One guy offered me &#036;500.00 and the other &#036;200.00. Money like that scared me. I was flattered but I felt that there was a catch to that. I didn&#39;t take the money. Even for a broke college student, I think that was the smartest decision anyway. I think about what could&#39;ve happened positively if I had taken that money--I would&#39;ve had alot of cashola but I don&#39;t trust those kind of situations. Invisibleman :yourock: :beer:

 

[invisibleman]

I think that I would pay for sex under certain situations:

1: I would have that kind of money to blow away for sexual escapades.
2: The guy would have to just permeate SEX and sexuality.
3: The guy would really have to know the scope of his job.
4: I would have to be totally jonesing for dick and ass. That is rare.
5: The guy would have to be my ideal type totally.
6: These guy would be in the best of health. No drugs. No cigs. No alcohol. 100 % sober.

 

[B_horribleperson]

i would pay to have sex with Monica Bellucci. but other then her i wouldnt pay for sex.

EDIT: i would also like to know a girl is letting me pound her in the ass because she likes me not cuz she is getting money from me

 

[B_caneadea]

Of course sex work should be legal. I actually know several friends who are in the business. Great way to make lots of extra cash and it's tax free! I have not paid for sex but can't say for sure if I ever would. I wouldn't want to be in the business myself. I can't to it on command.

 

[invisibleman]

i would pay to have sex with Monica Bellucci. but other then her i wouldnt pay for sex.

EDIT: i would also like to know a girl is letting me pound her in the ass because she likes me not cuz she is getting money from me

Would you do it with her while she was in the white rubber dress she wore in "The Matrix Reloaded"? You could see her bush through it in that movie and when you fucked her-- the dress could double as rubber.

 

[curious n str8]

We all pay for it one way or another...think about it.

 

[MsLulu]

A lady I knew was a "woman of the night." Not one of those skeezy kind that walk the street on Hollywood BLVD, but she was part of an escort service and her madame would set up the dates and yadda yadda yadda.

Most of the men she saw (90%) were married and would see her before work (or during lunch.) The married men all had the same issue: their wife was no longer interested in sex, so they sought it out elsewhere. Of those married men, she said about half had small to average penises and the first thing out of their mouth upon meeting her was "I hope you don't mind... I have a smaller penis."

Now keep in mind that my friend was a lesbian. She was only doing the prostitution thing to make money. So, she wasn't really into the penis anyway and certainly didn't want a huge one.

Finally, after having sex with these married men she realized that most of them didn't know what they hell they were doing. She told me at one point:

"one guy just got on me... put it in.. and kind of rolled from side to side until he came. Many of them didn't last for more than a few minutes."

So, being the lesbian saint she is, she took it upon herself to teach these guys how to be a good lover. She started with oral sex, since that was her area of expertise. She then taught them how to touch a woman, how to move, how to thrust, how to f*k, and she utilized cock-rings and showed them techniques to show them how to last longer.

The good news is, they really enjoyed being "shown" what to do. It's something that irks me to this day that a couple can be married and still be deathly afraid to talk about sex and what they like or don't like. The bad news is, she lost a few clients as when the men went home to their wives and used their newfound skills, they were getting some again.

I guess she was a regular ole Dr. Ruth wrapped up in a hottie lesbian body.

Why tell this long ass story? Because paying for sex should be legal. They tell a woman she has a right to get an abortion because it's "her body" yet a woman can't use "her body" for sex when money is involved (unless yer in Nevada.) Pure hooey.

Is it desperate? Sometimes, especially when a guy who is in his mid-40's is married to a woman and neither know how to say "our sex life sucks." Or, the woman just loses interest (which happens a lot, fellas, though I cannot possibly imagine such a thing myself.)

Anyway, there's my two cents. Please keep in mind that this is just one woman's set of stories. I'm sure her experiences are not the norm, but they could give us all a glimpse into what's going on out there in the world of sex and mula!

lulu

 

[madame_zora]

Great insights, MsLulu. I think your friend was doing the lord's work teaching these guys how to have sex. I know a lot of couples who lose interest in sex after a while, especially the women, and it's just not fair for a guy to have to spend his life celibate if his wife turns him away. It happened to me in the reverse. I wonder if your friend's customers ever got questioned at home about where they got their new skillz?

 

[Aplus]

I have and I would again. The fantasy part of it isn't nearly as strong for me as it used to be though.

 

[BBB2.5]

Let me put it out there, I think sex work should be legal. I'm curious about the experience of our esteemed and distinguished members. The web has taken this profession to a whole new level. There are entire websites devoted to promoting escorts and some to reviewing their services.

Have you or would you pay for sex?

Good question....First off I have NEVER done any of the above.... I do believe that is a person has what it takes to be a paid escort...he should make money with his talents in pleasing others. To me a Paid escort is somewhat different from a prostitute. Most escort from what I have seen on the web are well educated and extremely nice looking men. Most of who have really great bodies and are very attactive. Oh yeah...really big dicks. Prostitues you pick up on the street are usually from lower income areas...They really don't have the means to take care of their bodies. They do this in order to survive. So, if you have what it takes to make good money ...go for it.
Well...thats my take on the subject..........

 

[MsLulu]

Ya know I wondered that too, supa-Z. I would think some women were like "uh.... how did you learn THAT?" But, a smart man could just say "well honey, I read a book and/or watched a video."

Now, let me also state that I don't condone men who cheat on their wives. I think it's a sad commentary on our society when a man goes outside his marriage to get some elsewhere w/o trying everything under the sun first to fix what's broken. Maybe she's having hormonal problems, maybe sex is painful. I think there are ways around most problems, BUT, I understand there may not be in some cases. Maybe a wife simply says "look, I just don't like sex and if you wanna go get some elsewhere, I'm ok with that, just don't bring anything home and don't tell me about it." Ok, cool.

I just didn't want people to think I was cool with the cheating part. If my guy suddenly was uninterested in sex, THAT would be a huge problem for me and I wouldn't be too shy to say "ok, what's up. Let's fix this."

And yes, I think she did a good service in spite of her taboo occupation. =) All I could think of while she was telling me these stories was 'you go girl.'

It's funny, I have a close male friend who said that a woman literally gave him a map to the female body when he was a lad of 18. She was a stewardess who pretty much spread her legs on the bed, pointed to the clit and said "ok suck here." (followed by more explicit instructions on exactly how to please a woman.) He said he will always consider that stewardess a goddess and that she belongs at the top of the karmic food chain for her benevolence. =)

 

[sexycobra]

It's funny, I have a close male friend who said that a woman literally gave him a map to the female body when he was a lad of 18. She was a stewardess who pretty much spread her legs on the bed, pointed to the clit and said "ok suck here." (followed by more explicit instructions on exactly how to please a woman.) He said he will always consider that stewardess a goddess and that she belongs at the top of the karmic food chain for her benevolence. =)

Wow, nice story Ms Lulu! Wish I had met someone like that...