Lordpendragon
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No disrespect - but there is no such thing as the perfect size.
5 x 10 might be perfect for one woman and 10 x 5 for another. Then on another day time or place they might reverse their view of perfection and back again the next day.
A little exaggerated perhaps, but I am sure you get the point.
Women aren't all built the same way and their desires change for many different reasons at different times - well that's my experience.
How many women who enjoy vibes or dildos, have just one size?
5 x 10 might be perfect for one woman and 10 x 5 for another. Then on another day time or place they might reverse their view of perfection and back again the next day.
A little exaggerated perhaps, but I am sure you get the point.
Women aren't all built the same way and their desires change for many different reasons at different times - well that's my experience.
How many women who enjoy vibes or dildos, have just one size?
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This web site and its 'stats' have been discussed many times before and it is generally agreed that it is full of shit.
According to the chart on the page you linked the average male is in the 'not unsatisfying' category.
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Umm, some might say there is no ideal penis size - and yes, I guess there's a lot of individual desires influencing such matters.
Over the years I have found out that I really am a girl for the large ones. My ideal dick is 9, 10 inches long maybe, and he shouldn't be thin, while not exactly overly fat either. If it's just a bit too girthy to get my hand to encompass it fully, it's perfecto for me.
It's mainly an optical thing. In fact, 8 inches can be good for me (those really big ones are rare, and I have to be lucky to find one). I also am a girl for showers, I love the sight of a biggie swinging and swaying, slapping his thighs as he walks from my bedroom to my bathroom... I get horny at that sight right away! You know, a girl I was in Flight Training with used to say: "The best thing about a big dick that even soft, it still looks so damn sexy..."
Over the years I have found out that I really am a girl for the large ones. My ideal dick is 9, 10 inches long maybe, and he shouldn't be thin, while not exactly overly fat either. If it's just a bit too girthy to get my hand to encompass it fully, it's perfecto for me.
It's mainly an optical thing. In fact, 8 inches can be good for me (those really big ones are rare, and I have to be lucky to find one). I also am a girl for showers, I love the sight of a biggie swinging and swaying, slapping his thighs as he walks from my bedroom to my bathroom... I get horny at that sight right away! You know, a girl I was in Flight Training with used to say: "The best thing about a big dick that even soft, it still looks so damn sexy..."
I have to agree with Claire! 9 1/2 -10 would be the PERFECT cock. And just enough girth so that I can barely get my hand around it. Which would make it around 7 at least for girth would be my guess. A guy like that can take me anywhere! I could get really wet and aroused just from the sight of him.
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shocked said:
When it comes to real cocks, I've only had sex (vaginal) with four guys in my life. The first three guys were average in size and were short term relationships. The last guy (my hubby) I've had lots of experience with it over the last 22 years. I would have to say that for me, his penis size feels best...but that may be just what I'm used to. He is 10.5" long and about 8" thick. My only other references at this point are the three dildos I have. All are longer than him with the major differences being in girth. One is his thickness, the other is slightly thicker (my limit) and the third is around 6" thick. We really don't use the last one that much since at this point it just feels too thin. In terms of length, I can take a little more than 10.5" although I really haven't measured. At this point in my life being filled to my limit when I'm being fucked seems totally normal. There is a thread somewhere else regarding erotic dreams, and in every one of those circumstances for me, the guy/guys have been built like my husband. That is dreams though, if I had met another man that I was in love with like my dh, is cock size would not be an issue.
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The story is, if a woman says your dick is "nice", she means it's tiny.
If she says it's "perfect", it's really small.
If she says it's "average", it's small.
If she says it's "big", it's average.
If she says it's "really big", it's somewhat above average.
If she says it's "huge", it's big.
If she says it's "humongous", it's huge.
If she says it's "OMG your not gonna put that in me!", it's OMG!
If she says it's "perfect", it's really small.
If she says it's "average", it's small.
If she says it's "big", it's average.
If she says it's "really big", it's somewhat above average.
If she says it's "huge", it's big.
If she says it's "humongous", it's huge.
If she says it's "OMG your not gonna put that in me!", it's OMG!
Katiecav_34D
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9 to 10 might be a little big I've never even seen one for real nearky that big. I'd say 7 to 8 and kind of thik maybe 6 inch girth
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PS I've never seen on that big either. Where are all you guys?
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PS I've never seen on that big either. Where are all you guys?
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Ha, I was thinking the same thing Katie.
You know it's funny though, guys have the same reaction at some level that women do when they see someone really big. I'm thinking "jesus christ, that's fucking crazy" !! I just don't think about it in a sexual sense, although I've often wondered what it would be like to walk around with a ten inch dick, haha. I'm guessing that every day life would be different. Plus I would save money on all those fly swatters I've bought over the years !!
"Big" has a different connotation depending on the person you're with. Not that I've been with a lot of women, but the comments about my size have all been good in my opinion......and I'm seven inches when I have one of my "I could cut a stale loaf of bread with this thing" hard-ons!! Even being this size, which isn't anything at all out of the ordinary, I've had to really try to be gentle with two of the girls I've been with. I can't honestly say that I would change anything about my size, so it's the "perfect" size for me. Even though that might be a little selfish sounding, I'm the one that has to live with it, haha.
On a side note, I caught myself singing that new Madonna song "Hung Up" or whatever in the car the other day. Only problem was that the window was down and the two girls in the car next to mine were laughing hysterically. I wanted scream, "come on, it's too damn catchy" !!!! but it was too late.
You know it's funny though, guys have the same reaction at some level that women do when they see someone really big. I'm thinking "jesus christ, that's fucking crazy" !! I just don't think about it in a sexual sense, although I've often wondered what it would be like to walk around with a ten inch dick, haha. I'm guessing that every day life would be different. Plus I would save money on all those fly swatters I've bought over the years !!
"Big" has a different connotation depending on the person you're with. Not that I've been with a lot of women, but the comments about my size have all been good in my opinion......and I'm seven inches when I have one of my "I could cut a stale loaf of bread with this thing" hard-ons!! Even being this size, which isn't anything at all out of the ordinary, I've had to really try to be gentle with two of the girls I've been with. I can't honestly say that I would change anything about my size, so it's the "perfect" size for me. Even though that might be a little selfish sounding, I'm the one that has to live with it, haha.
On a side note, I caught myself singing that new Madonna song "Hung Up" or whatever in the car the other day. Only problem was that the window was down and the two girls in the car next to mine were laughing hysterically. I wanted scream, "come on, it's too damn catchy" !!!! but it was too late.
8x6 is the perfect size. My girlfriend will know the perfect size soon too
But yeah it is individual but I'd rather have a large(ish?) penis that I can hopefully have hassle-free sex with yet still have girls tell me its big etc
Most girls might even prefer average, since I hear 8x6 could have problems but I have only had very limited experience. My girlfriend is a virgin too so I spose I may run into problems but let's hope not
But yeah it is individual but I'd rather have a large(ish?) penis that I can hopefully have hassle-free sex with yet still have girls tell me its big etc
Most girls might even prefer average, since I hear 8x6 could have problems but I have only had very limited experience. My girlfriend is a virgin too so I spose I may run into problems but let's hope not
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Please don't take this the wrong way Kat, but I think that your customarily frank response sums a lot up for us guys.
We can have eight inch girth and our partner gets a thicker dildo - now that is being a man.
We can have eight inch girth and our partner gets a thicker dildo - now that is being a man.
- Kat,
O.K., I know this sounds kind of weird. But my husband was actually the one who got the really thick dildo. It actually turns him on to see how much I can take. And, as with most things sexual, it actually turns me on knowing that I'm turning him on. I also was curious at some level to see how much I could take without feeling really uncomfortable. You are right though, funny to think that a man who is already at the upper extremes of thickness would do that!
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If you really want to go into a men's locker room, you should just wander into one. I can't imagine any guy would want to stop you. Then just take a good look around before you apologize for the "mistake". I doubt you will get to see too many 10-inchers though.
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