I have some news for anyone interested. Found him on grindr, and think his profile has been around for at the very least a year. He seemed to want to only jerk off.
He is married with a kid so the whole thing was iffy. There is no way he's going to make an OF or more videos. He played dumb about his past when I asked, pretending to just be another "straight guy" who wanted to experiment. He even sent a picture of his wife (maybe another woman) blowing him.
Not going to lie, I was planning to risk it but he was extremely flaky and couldn't host. He'd hit me up late at night, talk a bit, but never follow through and then silence. I'm moving away so maybe it was for the best I didn't cross those lines.
My location on my profile is fake. But whoever is in the area, you might have a shot. I have photos and proof but I'm unlikely to post them. Don't care enough to dox/out him. He's still in great shape and looks mostly the same for those wondering