Premature ejaculation experiences

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I have a fixation on fast cumming. I think it stems from my first early experiences when i was a teenager.
Like most inexperienced guys my first couple of times with a girl was over quite fast. Like...30 seconds. Sometimes not even managing to get my penis inside before it was all over. For some reason i get a massive kick, still, out of watching and hearing about guys cumming prematurely. Could be the humiliation but mainly its the thought/sight of a massively-horned up guy going for what comes naturally....and fast! It would be great to trade stories/ experiences of prem ejac...i'm not here to judge or humiliate (unless thats what you want) I just like hearing about it and trading conversations. Hit me up in messages or lets start a thread here.
 
Yup, happened to me too. Most recently when I was videochatting with a guy and I showed him my hard on. Suddenly I felt something was happening there and without even touching my dick it started shooting cum, and I just couldnt stop it. At least my penis is not camera shy haha
 
a mate of mine has a similar thing: we're both in our 30s now and known each other for years. he confided in me about it and i knew it was a big deal for him to even speak about it. but i could confide in him too and we sort of helped each other feel better. hes a good buddy. we watch porn together very occasionally, just keep our dicks in our pants and enjoy watching the show and chatting. turns out he was cumming in his shorts like two minutes into whatever horny vid we had on but never told me. it was happening to me too but i never told HIM lol. its all better when guys actually speak to each other about these things and realise its not a big deal...
 
When I was young, you could have described me as an instant cummer. I always find it difficult to believe it when I see young guys in videos who are the opposite -- take forever to get hard (if they can), then a very long time to cum. Is that common?
 
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I've always been a fast guy. From the first time to now it's always been an issue with me.
A couple of times I've had girls stroking me in my jeans and POP, I couldn't hold back. On at least 6 occasions, with 2 different women, I've cum from them rolling a condom on me. And about 70% of the time I last less than 60 seconds, and never more than 2 minutes.
 
We’ve all been there. In my younger days, it was more likely to happen with a new partner. I lost my virginity to a younger, experienced girl. My first time, I was barely all the way in when I came. Fortunately, I didn’t lose my erection and was able to continue pumping and came again in a few minutes. I don’t think the girl ever knew, but the condom was certainly filled.
 
I've always been just the opposite. I've never experienced premature ejaculation, even in my early teens. It's not like I have any problem getting or maintaining an erection, or that pretty much any sort of physical contact with my cock doesn't feel incredible to me, but I can probably count on one hand the number of times that I've come in less than ten minutes. It's not uncommon for me to go well over an hour, sometimes two, before finally exploding--and it's not like I'm holding back, in fact its the contrary. Perhaps it's because I'm circumcised, though I'm not complaining because the intensity of sensation on my cock is about all that I can take anyhow.
 
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I have a fixation on fast cumming. I think it stems from my first early experiences when i was a teenager.
Like most inexperienced guys my first couple of times with a girl was over quite fast. Like...30 seconds. Sometimes not even managing to get my penis inside before it was all over. For some reason i get a massive kick, still, out of watching and hearing about guys cumming prematurely. Could be the humiliation but mainly its the thought/sight of a massively-horned up guy going for what comes naturally....and fast! It would be great to trade stories/ experiences of prem ejac...i'm not here to judge or humiliate (unless thats what you want) I just like hearing about it and trading conversations. Hit me up in messages or lets start a thread here.
I can have powerful orgasm fairly quick with in about 30 seconds But Don't ejaculate (aka dry orgasm) I don't lose my sexual powers heh like a normal one does. meaning I stay hard and turned on still. etc..

Honestly true dry orgasm is the best..
 
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I've always been just the opposite. I've never experienced premature ejaculation, even in my early teens. It's not like I have any problem getting or maintaining an erection, or that pretty much any sort of physical contact with my cock doesn't feel incredible to me, but I can probably count on one hand the number of times that I've come in less than ten minutes. It's not uncommon for me to go well over an hour, sometimes two, before finally exploding--and it's not like I'm holding back, in fact its the contrary. Perhaps it's because I'm circumcised, though I'm not complaining because the intensity of sensation on my cock is about all that I can take anyhow.
Guess you don't jerk out a quick one?
 
One time on a beach I was sun bathing naked and a bit horny. Hadn't had a wank or sex for a few days so really ripe for a bit. This young lad walks along, sits down with me and before long I'm sucking his cock, he's moaning and wanting me to stop which I do at which point he put his hand round my semi hard cock and it shot right away, a bit thick gooey cum mess - end of hot passion and end of short romance!
 
Whenever I have sex without a condom or with a condom on, the first pop is always quick. Sometimes I hold off from jerking a couple days but even then most times its just the actual penetration of the pussy and the movement that puts me over. I think it may be just something thats natural to me or developed from years of jerking off to porn as quick as I can to have that orgasm when I was younger.

After the first pop, I can go for much longer though. It is a bit embarassing but I just say theyre so hot and her pussy felt too god & to give me a few minutes before we go again. Thank you nina hartley.
 
After the first pop, I can go for much longer though. It is a bit embarassing but I just say theyre so hot and her pussy felt too god & to give me a few minutes before we go again. Thank you nina hartley.
I'm just the opposite: it usually takes me a long time to have my first orgasm, and then each one after that comes quicker and quicker. Don't ask me why.
 
When I was younger I had trouble coming.. wanks or sex.. think it was purely in my head issue.

I can still edge for ages but can get caught out - hadn't cum for a week and edge loads, chatted to a guy on a chat room ad was pretty horny so moved to a mic... chatting to him and rubbin slowly I lost it - he was pretty disappointed so was I.
 
Hi,
I've came to this thread by searching in the forum.
As visorkols said, i've always been a bit fast with our without condom... only the entrance of the pussy makes my cock wanting to cum.
Only had one woman, my wife. She is a petite woman with a tight pussy, so i always thought that was contributing for my PE.
However i guess i'm becomming more fast with age. I'm 40 now, and when i was 30 i could handle a bit more. Now, it's like get in, pound about 4 or 5 times and cum. Luckilly, my erection stays on and i can give a second one, but it's just not the same for my wife. That "magic moment" vanishes a bit.
I'm concerned that my wife isn't taking as pleasure as she deserved and wanted, besides the fact that my head is going in random thought's...
"...i love her and want her to have pleasure... should we find her a guy to do it right? "
"...should i go to the doctor? is that so bad?"
"...or it's just a phase i'm going thru and it will get better one day?"

Searched on internet and i got to conclusion that the best was talk to her about it and knowing how she feels like.
She said it was ok, that maybe it's because we don't do it many times, etc... i believe in her, but at same time is she ashame of telling me she wanted more?

Answering the topic, i don't think this is hot, well i speak as the "actor" of the movie... perhaps seen by another one that's a nice scene to see... me with a 18 cms cock, good girthed cock, getting in and cumming less than a minute after :)
 
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