Premature ejaculation while bottoming?

[Crex]

This may be a stupid question, but does anyone have any experience with bottoming and cumming hands free almost immediately? Like, it's kind of a good problem since I know not every bottom can have hands free orgasms, but it also feels a little unsatisfying to stop so quickly after all that prep. Should I be jacking off before hand, or is it possible to have multiples and I just need to keep going after round one? It's been a long time since I bottomed but I came last night so fast, and I'd like it to last longer. Thoughts?

 

[wolfman105]

I hadn’t been fucked in over a year…a guy that comes over every once in a while for a bj was over…he all of a sudden says I want to fuck your hole. He put his dick in my ass and I immediately came.

 

[User101823]

This may be a stupid question, but does anyone have any experience with bottoming and cumming hands free almost immediately? Like, it's kind of a good problem since I know not every bottom can have hands free orgasms, but it also feels a little unsatisfying to stop so quickly after all that prep. Should I be jacking off before hand, or is it possible to have multiples and I just need to keep going after round one? It's been a long time since I bottomed but I came last night so fast, and I'd like it to last longer. Thoughts?

For me it’s all about the specific experience and the other person. Sometimes I don’t even get hard when bottoming. Other times, I get rock hard. I have had times when the top and I just had such good energy and he was so good at what he did, that he fucked the cum right out of me without my even touching my dick. One of the most memorable times cumming while bottoming was with a young, hung Puerto Rican stud who was super attentive to his bottom’s needs. He was very passionate and we did a lot of intense kissing before and during fucking. He was doing an amazing job of giving me a handjob while fucking me and he somehow managed to figure out how to time our orgasms to make us cum together. That was unbelievable to me because he was a hookup, yet he was that intuitive. I began to date him immediately after that. We didn’t last, but I’ll never forget him!

 

[dreambridger]

This may be a stupid question, but does anyone have any experience with bottoming and cumming hands free almost immediately? Like, it's kind of a good problem since I know not every bottom can have hands free orgasms, but it also feels a little unsatisfying to stop so quickly after all that prep. Should I be jacking off before hand, or is it possible to have multiples and I just need to keep going after round one? It's been a long time since I bottomed but I came last night so fast, and I'd like it to last longer. Thoughts?

you should definitely keep going. I actually like it when the bottom cums early, because his muscles loosen up and the hole becomes more supple. I love fucking a freshly cummed bottom. and when I bottom, it is definitely possible to have multiple orgasms.

 

[chrisrobin]

I hadn’t been fucked in over a year…a guy that comes over every once in a while for a bj was over…he all of a sudden says I want to fuck your hole. He put his dick in my ass and I immediately came.

Its the unexpected occasion that flummoxes me and I can see expecting a blow job, and giving me to suddenly turn into a fuck would make you shoot. It does happen once in a while I cum as soon as a cock is over my sphincter if I haven't had anything up for a while but it doesn't mean I don't enjoy the fucking or that my erection goes down and while it might not be a hands-free I do cum again.

 

[dadandsontales]

If you’re going to bottom, your job is to take it and make the top feel good. Even if it hurts so bad you can’t get an erection.

In all seriousness, you may have a very sensitive prostate that when stimulated, results in fast ejaculation. It happens.

I would say, try mind over matter by not focusing on yourself. Let yourself go and submit your rectum and beyond to the tops desires

 

[deleted2780451]

I can cum pretty fast if I'm being fucked right, but I always let my tops finish.

 

[Brodie888]

Usually I pause or change things up to prevent that from happening.

But there was one occasion where I came on insertion. It just happened before I could react.

Not sure exactly why. Whether it was his girth, the angle he went in or just because I wanted him so bad.

 

[grapette]

I hadn’t been fucked in over a year…a guy that comes over every once in a while for a bj was over…he all of a sudden says I want to fuck your hole. He put his dick in my ass and I immediately came.

When I am fucked I drip sperm without orgasm.

 

[colddrink]

I cum so easily through bottoming or even receiving a rim job.

 

[Robert Dole]

It happened often when I first started and he would keep going. In time I found the sensation that built up after the first shot lead to an incredible climax, then got a bit more confident and learned to relax.

 

[trojbi]

I’m frustratingly the total opposite, I’m new to bottoming after being a total top my whole life. I can never cum when getting fucked, even though I am very much enjoying

Any advice from seasoned bottoms on how to get out of my head so I can cum would be great.

Now to the question at hand, can you recover and still bottom after cumming or are you closed for business after you nut?

If you can recover then honestly it’s no big deal, even if you need to take a break. Bottoms would always get embarrassed when I made them cum quickly but thats nothing to be ashamed of and its quite the compliment to your top lol.

My suggestion if you do feel it’s an issue is to both work on lasting longer and being able to keep going after you do inevitably cum. When you jerk off edge as long as you possibly can and once you fail and cum don’t stop, ramp yourself back up and cum again.

 

[Joey_Europe]

There are, in my opinion, very easy exercises you can do if you cum too fast or when it takes very long to cum.

 

[CraigS41]

I cum very easy, but it's not an end of the fucking. Keep going and make me cum again and again. No such thing as too long for me

 

[Tomtom10]

It's not something I've personally experienced, but everyone is different. I cum too fast when I top, so I tend to mostly bottom. It takes me a good while to achieve a prostate orgasm, so it might be worth you persevering with it and see if the prolonged stimulation after you cum then leads to an anal orgasm. Or...you could try and ensure you cum before you start anal, then when you're able to get hard again, start anal and you shouldn't be so sensitive.

 

[Nawty_Man65]

This may be a stupid question, but does anyone have any experience with bottoming and cumming hands free almost immediately? Like, it's kind of a good problem since I know not every bottom can have hands free orgasms, but it also feels a little unsatisfying to stop so quickly after all that prep. Should I be jacking off before hand, or is it possible to have multiples and I just need to keep going after round one? It's been a long time since I bottomed but I came last night so fast, and I'd like it to last longer. Thoughts?

Hello Crex!

I’m a little late to this thread.

Is it possible to have multiples? Yes!!

I learned that ejaculation and orgasm are not inclusive. What do I mean?

For me…I’m absolutely a premature ejaculation if my cock is played with. I can rarely last longer than 2 minutes with continuous stimulation. When I bottom of say I last anywhere from 10-20 minutes on average before I cum and orgasm (the first time). I have a small/avg size erection at 5.5 inches but totally flaccid I range from 1.5-2”, and when fucked I stay totally flaccid.

A previous bf (total top) taught me that cumming or ejaculation is independent of the ability to orgasm. He had amazing stamina and could fuck as long as he wanted, and keep going even after he cummed so I would never be able to last as long as he could.

When we first started having sex I would play with myself (semi) as he fucked me and I would get off in about 3-4 minutes. Then want him to pull out and let me finish him orally. This frustrated him and he told me he was going to teach me how to orgasm from anal only, and said I may even have multiple orgasms. I was skeptical but agreed to flow his lead and rules.

I was not allowed to masturbate at all, or touch myself while he was fucking me. Anal orgasms were to be my only release.

Well…it took a little training, or I should say retraining, of my brain. But…he was absolutely correct and I not only reached orgasm from anal only, but they were better orgasms and I was eventually able to have multiple anal only orgasms.

As of this writing I’m still a “prejac” if I jerk off or use my cock to fuck or get sucked. But…I’m also still able have multiple anal orgasms if my ass is fucked or played with.

Should you jack off before hand? That’s up to you but I’m telling you that it doesn’t matter. You can orgasm anally without ejaculation if you put in the effort and are patient.

 

[Oneofmany2]

Hello Crex!

I’m a little late to this thread.

Is it possible to have multiples? Yes!!

I learned that ejaculation and orgasm are not inclusive. What do I mean?

For me…I’m absolutely a premature ejaculation if my cock is played with. I can rarely last longer than 2 minutes with continuous stimulation. When I bottom of say I last anywhere from 10-20 minutes on average before I cum and orgasm (the first time). I have a small/avg size erection at 5.5 inches but totally flaccid I range from 1.5-2”, and when fucked I stay totally flaccid.

A previous bf (total top) taught me that cumming or ejaculation is independent of the ability to orgasm. He had amazing stamina and could fuck as long as he wanted, and keep going even after he cummed so I would never be able to last as long as he could.

When we first started having sex I would play with myself (semi) as he fucked me and I would get off in about 3-4 minutes. Then want him to pull out and let me finish him orally. This frustrated him and he told me he was going to teach me how to orgasm from anal only, and said I may even have multiple orgasms. I was skeptical but agreed to flow his lead and rules.

I was not allowed to masturbate at all, or touch myself while he was fucking me. Anal orgasms were to be my only release.

Well…it took a little training, or I should say retraining, of my brain. But…he was absolutely correct and I not only reached orgasm from anal only, but they were better orgasms and I was eventually able to have multiple anal only orgasms.

As of this writing I’m still a “prejac” if I jerk off or use my cock to fuck or get sucked. But…I’m also still able have multiple anal orgasms if my ass is fucked or played with.

Should you jack off before hand? That’s up to you but I’m telling you that it doesn’t matter. You can orgasm anally without ejaculation if you put in the effort and are patient.

could you describe how did you manage to reach anal orgasm? how did ge fuck you and did you do or feel anything specific?

thanks a lot

 

[Nawty_Man65]

could you describe how did you manage to reach anal orgasm? how did ge fuck you and did you do or feel anything specific?

thanks a lot

Sure.

It was/is as much psychological as it is physical.

I obviously felt it in my prostate, but my abstinence and not touching myself made me extra horny. So much so that I wanted him to keep going after I cummed and orgasmed the first time.

His technique of stretching my anus and thrusting as well as talking to me, and kissing me as he fucked me made me feel closer to him emotionally. The second and subsequent orgasms sometimes started as a warmth and pressure in my abdomen or at the base of my neck. They radiated to my body and made me turn flushed red and sometimes lightheaded.

 

[Jlatinochub]

That's having an orgasm gurl. Enjoy it.

 

[John-Z23]

I wish I could ejaculate while bottoming. Something about my anatomy requires my hole to contract when I cum, so with my hole jammed wide open with a cock or large toy, that is inhibited and I physically can’t cum. And on the rare occasion that I do have a penile orgasm while being bottomed, I have no contractions, so nothing cumms out. As such I usually try to focus on having my Top hit my prostate just right so I can have a proper prostate orgasm while being bottomed instead. Then finally few hours later once our encounter is over, I’ll finish the job and jerk off to penile orgasm to clear the pipes and prevent blue balls.

As for you, Congratulations! But if you want it to last longer, I suggest jerking off a few hours prior to your fun.