confused new bottom

[dudemetree]

Hello all, I've been a strict top my entire life but after my last relationship and starting new meds I have started to feel like bottoming might be something I'm interested in now. I've let a few partners finger me before but I was never really as into it as they seem to be when I did it to them.
I went out and bought a training kit with 3 plugs and I'm starting with the smallest size in as I type this post. I guess I'm just wondering if anyone has any advice on how long I should keep it in at a time, when I should progress up a size, when I should try the actual dildo I bought and when would be a good time to move on to the real deal. I know everyone's body is different and I should listen to my body and not push it too far or go too fast. Also, if anyone wants to share their journey it would be appreciated.

 

[wetoneboy]

It's not rocket surgery, general common sense. If it feels good: good. If it feels not good: not good. lol

Sure there are exceptions, some people like it to hurt, but that's a whole other thing. lol I think the bigger thing (pardon the pun) is getting used to there being something in there. To where you mind/body isn't telling you "there's something right there, we need to get to the toilet!!!"

I think the real learning curve is what's going on inside. Prep, cleaning and/or "now's a good time" , "now's not a good time." That's also something you're going to figure out on your own.