Probably A Common Thread (Size)

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  1. cacksas

    cacksas New Member

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    Well, I've been a long time lurker to this site--I came across it trying to find out the definitive average penis size and then just started reading around.

    I've spent a lot of time in the fictitious stories area and while being fun to read, it's also placed some doubt in my mind. While I know they are fictitious and unrealistic (some of the sizes...) I still worry about my size and if my GF will leave me for Mr. Ed, haha.

    I've never really considered myself big and being completely honest I am slightly--as in it doesn't affect my every day life, but does bother me at times--worried about my penis size. I believe myself to be merely average and nothing more, and in the long run it slightly worries me. Especially when I look at porn and don't see anyone my size (or at least what I believe to be my size) and the fact that my GF is becoming a nurse and is going to see lots of dicks throughout her career.

    These are what my sizes are and I'm keeping them exactly what I measured because I want honest opinions and feedback:

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    21 years old
    Penis is straight and points at a good angle upwards when erect and from what I've been told very attractive.

    Flaccid:

    3.5 - 4" length
    3.75" girth (it doesn't seem like its right, but that is what it shows as)


    Erect:

    6.5" length (sometimes I'm hovering at 7" other times a little less than 6.5)
    5.5" - 5.75" girth (my girlfriend has said once that it was as thick as her wrist when I was very aroused, but I don't know if I'd put a lot of faith into that)


    Unfortunately, no pictures at this time. I'm not confident about that portion...

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    Now, my slight worry about penis size does not effect my sex life. Both my GF and I fuck very often and have an excellent time. She gets off multiple times and I am not prone to pre-mature ejaculation or any other difficulty other than once in a blue moon feeling size anxiety if it slips in too easily.

    My GF frequently compliments me on the size of my penis and has told me it is the largest she's had (from what I know I'm her second sex, 5th blow job). When she dirty talks she tells me I'm huge and how much she loves it. When we have sex, I often feel myself bottoming out.

    Yet, I still worry that I am inadequate. For all I know, she may have a small vagina, or she may be telling me that I'm bigger than anyone else for my ego. When she tells me I'm huge it sometimes frustrates me because I'm not huge and I think she's padding my ego.

    I have had numerous other one night stands and have no face-to-face complaints, but I am not concerned about those. Only my current GF.

    Besides my size worry there is nothing else wrong.

    Basically, my questions are:

    1) How am I length-wise (flaccid/erect)?
    2) How am I girth-wise (flaccid/erect)?

    3) My GF seems very faithful, but how do I lower my worries about her constantly seeing bigger dicks than me at the hospital?
    4) Any other feedback?


    Sorry for the length (no pun intended).
     
  2. xrj789

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    I'll jump in. On here, you're average, just like me (7x5.5). Out in the real world, you're very big, especially with that girth. And thus to her, you probably are huge or close to it. I've had girls tell me I'm huge, and while you take it with a grain of salt, i probably was a good amount bigger than their previous lovers.

    So yeah, in her eyes, no question she thinks you're a really big boy. . .because you are. Girth rules - women can't tell much of a difference between a 6.5 and 7 inch cock, but they can sure tell a huge difference between even a 5" (which is above average) and a 5.5" girth-wise. So be happy and proud of what you're sporting! She obviously loves it!
     
  3. Draconis71

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    OK, average size... 5-6.. Usually around 5.5
    Standard deviation .75 inches... So, 4.75-6.25 is "normal" anything below/above would be small/big. Anything 1.5" above/below is abnormal

    Girth.. 4.85, standard deviation is .5

    (yah, check wikipedia The numbers seem to mesh)
     
  4. D_Rawkesbye Deadheade

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    I didn't know there was a figure on average girth. Nice find, m├Žstro! :cool:
     
  5. MarkLondon

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    While this site is great for gay and bi men, it does sometimes seem to give rise to feelings of inadequacy in straight men. Even well-hung ones! It seems some guys need to feel they're the biggest in the world. Or at least their girlfriend's world.
     
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    Don't worry Cackas, your size is very average. If your gf sees often a penis in hospital and she still tells you that your size is big; believe her. A lot of men have a smaller one than you have. Most are also smaller in girth. She loves you and you have fun together.
    On this site so many guys tell that they have a bigger penis than they can show in real. Of course this is a support group for men with a long penis, but also used by many men who think that a longer penis makes them more manly. Believe me, size doesn't matter. It's more the skills you need in the bedroom. The more you feel insecure about your size, the more you have to worry about those skills.
     
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    Thats about my size and the girls always say thats a big thick one u don't have to worry
     
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    yup I've seen those stats too. 5.5L x 4.75G

    Guys have to realize LPSG is not average general population, its collection of the largest cocks out there. in the real world most girls are overjoyed at 5.5" of girth and that's probably top 10-20% so you could easily be her biggest cacsas since you are above avg in length and girth. Are there bigger, sure but odds are to find one might be 1 in 100 or something. Don't get hung up at all, just be happy.
     
  9. cacksas

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    After reading this thread I've gained a huge boost in my confidence and self-esteem. It seems that I'm markedly above world average in both girth and length and therefore more often than not, I'll come out on top size-wise.

    If anything I've always been fairly proud of my girth and assumed that that was my saving grace, but I kinda think I assumed I was smaller because of a few things. One thing, my girth makes my penis not seem as long as it might if it were skinnier (I don't know if you get where I'm going with that), I get a foreshortened view looking down on it, as opposed to where others (especially my GF) see it from, and the internet (and most guys) tend to over-estimate the size of their package--leading me to believe that I'm small for not having an 8 incher like everyone else.

    I guess I'd add in another question to:

    My girlfriend is into photography and wants to have a night where we please each other and photography us in the nude. So, we each have pictures of each other to keep us going if we're away from each other for extended periods of time. She also wants to videotape us (score!) doing it as well.

    Picture-wise, what is the best way to really show of size and make yourself look impressive. I know with a few pictures I've taken of myself before I haven't really looked that impressive size-wise. I have a nice body so I'm not worried about that, just a few "angles" and poses that really show it off.
     
  10. cacksas

    cacksas New Member

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    Would really like an answer to my photography question. There has to be a few people here that know of some good shots.

    Also, I've been doing a lot of research and it seems this site is an anomaly. From the Wessels study (erect: length - 5.08", girth - 4.5"), to a hell of a lot of others, it seems we crush the average.
     
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