How often have you (or your partner) pulled back the clitoral hood in order to gain better access to the clitoris itself? Is this pleasurable to you, or is it just so sensitive that doing it is just too intense and not pleasurable at all? Would you much rather the stimulation be on top of the hood? Does it depend on the implement being used (vibe vs. finger vs. tongue vs. cock)? My wife's "girly wood" makes it possible to pull it back and licking it makes her cum almost automatically, but it's hands off after that. Some women I've gone down on don't get enough wood to pull back, some don't even want direct stimulation on the hood at all. My ex preferred the base of her clit licked so the hood itself acted like a jerk off sleeve, for lack of better terms. One thing we did, which provided absolutely no stimulation at all to my wife, but was visually and mentally awesome to us, was me pulling her hood back, exposing her bare erect clit and inserting it into my urethra. It was less than a quarter of an inch, but she was penetrating me for a change.