I went ahead and bought a pump and tried it out. I love it. I fucked my wife the second night I used it and she loved that full feeling. It turned me on so much feeling my dick stretch her out. After just 30 minutes or so after pumping, it starts to get a little bit of that donut head under the glands and loses girth at the base. I want to keep it thick throughout the entire shaft. Any suggestions? Also, I thought I hear that wearing a condom helps to do something when pumping. Any insight? What do you think?