sudas: What I suspect of the demographics of this site remind me of a book titled something like "Gay men's fellatio secrets for women" or a fictional one, "Men who have big dicks and the women who love them." I don't see many posts from female swingers or sex workers, nor is this a forum for proctologists, urologists and the like to swap stories. There's also few threads regarding drugs, which is good.
If this site was an ice cream parlor, there would be gallons of vanilla (i.e. vanilla sex) enough Rocky Road (gay and anal sex?) but not too much of double fudge chocalate brownie sundae topped with hot fudge, whip cream and peanuts (whatever that analogy means).
Also gays are almost by definition phallo-centric. Sure they can also talk about butt, pecs, hair, women's clothes etc., but the penis is where the focus is.
I learned a new term here "size queens" that doesn't refer to gays. Many posts are against such women (who sleep with a man if he has a large penis), which I think is silly. Such women are then less likely to want to be a part of the forum. It's like being a rock star or athelete and saying how shallow the groupies are. Give me a break! If you want easy women who'll do it at the drop of a hat (or zipper); fine. If you don't, then you should be able to recognize such people, and avoid them. I had planned to post this last paragraph in the proper thread, but... well, here it is.