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[Black_Shinobii]

Hi, I've been having sex with this girl for a while now and I already know that I have a tendency to push against her cervix (which she says she has gotten used to feeling) but recently we tried doggy-style. While in doggy, she tend stop ask for it fast and deep but afterwards she starts to feel nauseous and once she almost vomited afterwards. We've decided to take a break from doggy until we figure out a way to stop her from feeling that way afterwards. Anyone care to offer some advice as to what we can do so she feels good after sex?

Another question, I love to go down on my girl and she likes to give me oral as well, but two things tend to happen during our oral sessions. One, my tongue tends to hurt for a few days afterwards and therefore I can't go down on her. Two, she's scared about me ejaculating in her mouth and the taste of it so she never gets me to ejaculate from oral while I tend to give me multiple orgasms and sometimes she will squirt. So, overall is there anyway I can increase the strength of my tongue so that little strip of muscle under it doesn't hurt for days and is there anyway I can convince my girl to not be afraid of my ejaculating in her mouth so she can at least try is once before she makes a decision about it?

One last thing, I've always wanted to try breast sex at least once and my girlfriend has a pretty large pair. But I can't seem to convince her to let me try it once cause she just says that she doesn't want me between her breasts. Anyway I can persuade her to let me try it once?

Thanks to anyone who answers.

 

[Black_Shinobii]

Come on LPSG please help me out.

 

[IrishWank]

Cant you try to give her shorter strokes while doing doggy. I understand the urge to pound her, its a great position, but for both your sakes, try giving her shorter strokes.

As for the oral stuff. Practice will make ur tongue stronger and better at licking her out. Its only fair she tries ur cum before she rejects it, but it most likely that she has made it out in her head that it is totally disgusting and therefore will not give it a fair chance if you ever do cum in her mouth.

Thats a strange one about the titty fuck. I dont see why she wouldnt want ur cock between her tits. She will take ur cock in her mouth but not between her tits? Thats a bit weird. Iv only done it once myself. It was more to try it and say that I have done it, not a great way to cum, but interesting.

 

[hud01]

In doggie is it the motion, or are you hitting places that make her uncomfortable?

As for the oral, you just need to exercise your tongue and learn how to take breaks, not going at it so hard, possibly letting your fingers take over to give your tongue a rest.

For her, there are a couple of things, first, why is it such an issue to taste your cum. Did she have a bad experience with you or someone else? If it is a deal breaker then you will have to have trust where you tell her right as you are about to cum so she can pull off and jerk you to completion.

Finally the between the breasts again ask her what the problem is. This is a very standard part of sex. It really sounds like she is young, inexperieinced and repressed sexually.

 

[Black_Shinobii]

Thank you both for your replies.

In doggie it tends to be her who will ask for me to give it to her fast and then it's afterwards that she will complain of nausea.

To answer your question regarding oral, hud01, we are both eachother's first (we were both virgins) so I know that she hasn't had any bad experiance with anyone else and she hasn't told me that she's had any bad experiances with me.

As for the having my penis between her breasts, she simply states that she doesn't want to have my penis there for two reasons, one she doesn't want me to be poking her under the chin and two she doesn't want me to ejaculate in her face.

 

[Black_Shinobii]

Anyone else want to offer some advice?

 

[Jovial]

About the oral and ejaculating in her mouth, you could try cumming in your hand and showing her that you are willing to put it in your mouth and swallow it. Then you could get her to at least tough the cum with her tongue or something. Just ease her into it. If you're not willing to put you cum in your own mouth then you shouldn't expect someone else to.

About your tongue getting tired, I'd say just try to stick your mouth really close to her pussy so that you don't have to stick your tongue out too far. It's hard to stick it out and lick. You can also try going up-and-down then switch to left-to-right. That way you give different tongue muscles a rest. You can also get your fingers nice and wet and use them if you are gentle and know what you're doing.

 

[dolfette]

breast sex?

dude, if she doesn't want it then she doesn't want it.
getting random strangers on a dick site to help you think up ways of getting her to do things she doesn't want to do? don't make me get out the rolled up newspaper!

 

[Principessa]

Hi, I've been having sex with this girl for a while now and I already know that I have a tendency to push against her cervix (which she says she has gotten used to feeling) but recently we tried doggy-style. While in doggy, she tend stop ask for it fast and deep but afterwards she starts to feel nauseous and once she almost vomited afterwards. We've decided to take a break from doggy until we figure out a way to stop her from feeling that way afterwards. Anyone care to offer some advice as to what we can do so she feels good after sex?

Stop pounding her like you are playing Whack-A-Mole at the county fair! :duh:

Another question, I love to go down on my girl and she likes to give me oral as well, but two things tend to happen during our oral sessions. One, my tongue tends to hurt for a few days afterwards and therefore I can't go down on her. Two, she's scared about me ejaculating in her mouth and the taste of it so she never gets me to ejaculate from oral while I tend to give me multiple orgasms and sometimes she will squirt. So, overall is there anyway I can increase the strength of my tongue so that little strip of muscle under it doesn't hurt for days and is there anyway I can convince my girl to not be afraid of my ejaculating in her mouth so she can at least try is once before she makes a decision about it?

No clue about your tongue issue. Some girls just don't like the taste of cum and nothing you say or do will change that.

One last thing, I've always wanted to try breast sex at least once and my girlfriend has a pretty large pair. But I can't seem to convince her to let me try it once cause she just says that she doesn't want me between her breasts. Anyway I can persuade her to let me try it once?

Jesus Christ! You pound her pussy till she almost pukes and now you want to titty fuck her as well!?! :261: Why are you men never happy with good enough? :irked: I know it looks like the be all and end all in porn but there aren't a whole lot of women that would choose a titty fuck over regular sex. She is probably afraid you will be as rough with her breasts as you are with her pussy. Quite often big breasts are ultra sensitive, having a guy use his cock between them like a jack hammer, not so much desirable. :frown1:

About the oral and ejaculating in her mouth, you could try cumming in your hand and showing her that you are willing to put it in your mouth and swallow it. Then you could get her to at least tough the cum with her tongue or something. Just ease her into it. If you're not willing to put you cum in your own mouth then you shouldn't expect someone else to.

:rofl: Sounds like the way we tried to get my infant cousin to eat pureed carrots. :lmao: He didn't like them then and 8 years later he still won't eat cooked carrots in any form.:tongue:

 

[dolfette]

cumming in her mouth?

if she doesn't like it then she doesn't like it.
personally, i hate it.
and no about of coercing, whining or emotional blackmail will change that.

if you're not matched sexually then either compromise or bail.

 

[crossy]

Be very very gentle and tender with those boobs.Some ladies just don't like cum in their mouth or anywhere else. I would improve the communication and slow down. You are both very young.

 

[Black_Shinobii]

Thanks for all the responses but like I said in an earlier response; I don't just start ramming her during doggie it's that she asks for me to go harder so I oblige and then she feels sick afterwards. So what I'm really asking is for advice as to how to go harder as she asks me but without her getting the nauseous feeling afterwards.

As for the other things, it's that I'd like for her to consider trying once prior to making a decision off of no experience. Like when it comes to ejaculating during oral sex, she feels that it's unfair for her not to bring me to completion since I do that for her but she just freaks at the thought of it. So it's like an infinite loop cause she wants to do it but freaks out when the moment arises. So I'm asking for advice in calming her down about that.

When it comes to breast sex, I've told her that she's in control of what happens, it's just that I'm curious as to the feeling of it so I would like to try it once and only once.

The reason I'm asking on here is that I figure people on this site have far greater experience than me since this is th first girl I've ever been in a sexual relationship with.

 

[dolfette]

why should she have to try something if the thought of it upsets her?
do you have to try gay sex to be sure you don't like it?
or do you have enough mental blocks to put you off trying?

if you keep pushing, she'll either go even further off the idea, or she'll do it and feel used & resentful.

you have to stop acting your age. if you're lucky, she'll find the breathing space liberating enough to feel more experimental.

 

[jdoe86]

Tongue exercises... Practice practice practice. Also, you can improve your jaw muscles along with your tongue muscles by chewing gum (bubble gum works best for me). I find the practice of pushing my tongue through the gum after it's been chewed for awhile and is on the stiff side really gives my mouth a work out. You can also just do simple mouth and jaw exercises. Go here for some exercises.

 

[Black_Shinobii]

why should she have to try something if the thought of it upsets her?
do you have to try gay sex to be sure you don't like it?
or do you have enough mental blocks to put you off trying?

if you keep pushing, she'll either go even further off the idea, or she'll do it and feel used & resentful.

you have to stop acting your age. if you're lucky, she'll find the breathing space liberating enough to feel more experimental.

I never said that I am constantly pushing the idea of these things. Having her apologize me for not finishing me off during oral even though she says that she wants to is kind of awkward to me so I want to figure out ways for her to do what she says she wants to do.

And with regards to breast sex, if I can try things I wouldn't normally do to please her I don't think it's bad to figure she might do that with me. So I want to know a way to open her up to it rather than her dismissing me the moment I start to even mention it.

And what do you mean for me to not act my age? Am I supposed to try and act like I'm 30 years old and that would suddenly make me more mature and handle the situation differently because that is not necessarily the case.

 

[dolfette]

you choose to try things.
she's chosen not to.
if it's a deal breaker then break it.
if not, you can't force a mind to open!
all you can do is step away and allow it to open in it's own time.
and while there are guys who never grow out of the 'how can i change what she likes into what i like?' thing, it's an immaturity.

now i'm very sorry that this isn't the answer you wanted from this thread, but it's the truth.

 

[Black_Shinobii]

I mean it's not like I haven't taken the things that she's worried about into consideration in regards to breast sex.

She says that she doesn't want me poking her under the chin, I offer her control of the act.

She says that she doesn't want me to blow a load in her face, well then I'm going to give her the courtesy I give her when she's giving me a blowjob, I will warn her when I'm close to ejaculation.

She knows all this but still has something that makes her uncomfortable, is it so bad that I want help in figuring out how to make her more comfortable? I don't see anything wrong with trying to make her comfortable with a situation.

 

[dolfette]

if you only want to figure it out because you wat a tit-wank? well...yeah.

if she doesn't like being pushed and feeling out of control, be more passive.
if she hates spunk, wear a flavoured rubber.
pull back. right back.
because the more pressure she feels, the bigger those walls become.

 

[Black_Shinobii]

It's not like the only thing I want is to put my penis between her breasts, it's that I want her to feel comfortable with things.

I want her to feel comfortable when we have sex doggie-style because she likes it but not the stomachache afterwards.

I want her to be comfortable with me ejaculating during oral because she wants to do it but something seems to freak her out.

I've made accommodations to all her issues when it comes to breast sex but something is still making her uncomfortable.

So it's not like she's completely put off by the idea of these actions, it's just that something makes her uncomfortable and should it happen I want her to be comfortable with it.
So that's why I'm asking these questions. Not simply for the sexual gratification of the actions but for her to be comfortable with said actions. That's all I want, her to be comfortable with things that we do now and things that we may do at some point.

 

[dolfette]

meh. i'll take you're word for it, because i'm feeling less bitch this morning.

and doggy...
what are her abs like?
try doing it with some support under her tummy...hanging over a table or with pillows under her tummy. it's worth a try. might stop her insides feeling so jostled.