And time and again people will deny this is a thing. I've also done similar and got the same results. (With No face pic even, a thing Grindr swears is needed lmao)
Racism in the LGBT community.
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I don't know. Technically I can understand the comfort of dating only within your ascribed "tribe" and culture but it's not an ideal direction for the species to do so. Homo sapiens are generally xenophobic and ethnocentric which has lead to two world wars and our next one will be our last. We deserve our fate. Maybe the next species to rule/destroy the planet will be better.
Well the way math works if you are 1 in 10, 10 in 100, 1000 in 10000, etc. You are still at 10% and a minority. Being you are 100% gay no matter where you go you will always be a "minority". Does that fact make you cringe?
Yeah it's easy to feel our tribes are special but what is the proof it is?
If I were to randomly drop you down anywhere on the planet there is an extremely good chance it would be an ocean or some polar ice cap and you'd be dead in hours. There is nothing special about any of us except the ability to believe we are.
- ocea,
Not really, cities cultures and countries are a culmination of the shared wants and desires of the individuals living in them, that's exactly why we have had wars like the ones you mentioned before.
For me "exotic" just stopped being exotic and I have more interest in my in-group, It was always my preference, but now I'm exclusive... at least until Rico Strong starts gay hookin.
You'd do much better in any European city than the US to be honest. It has a racial history that is too despicably political to mention here.
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Sounds like you might just be racist. Full stop.
- ocea,
Colonialism? Yeah, the Polish, Norwegians and Scottish need to atone for their vast empires.
I'm just saying, it sounds like you have an out group preference.
At bare minimum you sound identical to every dyed-in-the-wool racist who's tried to intellectualize their racism in order to make it seem like it was a lesser evil than it actually is.
He called himself "sexually racist", said he fucked two of the good ones and swears he'll never do it again and then actually has the nerve to ask if he's racist. People are a fucking trip man.
- ocea,
I'm just participating in this thread from the other side and maybe trying to give an incite as to why men in places like Europe are starting to show in-group preferences. I was contributing as someone who was once interested in all people, but now have strict preferences.He called himself "sexually racist", said he fucked two of the good ones and swears he'll never do it again and then actually has the nerve to ask if he's racist. People are a fucking trip man.
It's only special in the minds of homo sapiens. Those minds are full of the delusion that homo sapiens are special and they're not actually. Every country and/or culture thinks they are too important to die but if anything history has taught is it all dies even stars die and with it everything on Earth.
- ocea,
It's starting to read like you see yourself as some form of punishment, you may want to look into that.
Great explanation, still racist.
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Is it the problem that people have preferences, or the way they express them?
Obviously if what they say exposes their prejudiced ideas then you know what you are dealing with. But sometimes people will speak plainly and not appreciate how others take it, and give offence without intending to. It could be an honest mistake, which would be ignorance (but not deliberately malice)...
BUT - there is a thin line that a lot of white people cross where they do not care if what they say offends someone as long as they know that being offensive was not their intention... as if it was obvious to everyone. They then get to play the victim. The fault there is in the failure to see the impact their attitude has on others.
Obviously if what they say exposes their prejudiced ideas then you know what you are dealing with. But sometimes people will speak plainly and not appreciate how others take it, and give offence without intending to. It could be an honest mistake, which would be ignorance (but not deliberately malice)...
BUT - there is a thin line that a lot of white people cross where they do not care if what they say offends someone as long as they know that being offensive was not their intention... as if it was obvious to everyone. They then get to play the victim. The fault there is in the failure to see the impact their attitude has on others.
That's fine. In-group preference is part of the reason the monarchies ended in Europe. Inbreeding never ends well.
Keep up the good job. Extinction awaits on the corner.
I know you are not trolling. And that is the saddest part. I doubt you ever had any real interest in "all people", more like you had a curiosity, got the satisfaction of finding out what you wanted and now you are back to your regular self.
Good luck.
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