Racist Restaurants

[Tight_N_Juicy]

When I was with my ex, who happens to not be white, we would go out to eat fairly often. Once I heard a waitress say "great, we're not getting a tip from *that* table", to her hostess.

1. It's a common racist opinion that black people don't/won't ever tip.

2. He wasn't paying, *I* was. Assuming the man is going to pay for the entire meal on a dinner date is sexist.

So, I way, way overtipped to their faces. I commented sternly, but not loudly that maybe next time, if we ever come back to that restaurant (which we didn't) maybe we wouldn't get treated like shit because of some racist college fuckhead who thinks that because they come from privilege they can speak about people the way they spoke about us.

I know most people would refuse to tip, but having waited and served food myself (which I was at the time, that's how I made my money up until 3 years ago) I knew... They'd remember it a lot more significantly by catching them off guard with a tip larger than the price of both our meals combined.

They expected no tip. And it probably blew their minds that I quietly, but eloquently cussed them out as I gave them that fat-ass tip. If that asshole didn't learn something that day, it's willful ignorance.

 

[jtm011]

6. Defending from attacks only

You're not getting attacked. People are asking you questions for a deeper understanding on this thread. They are entitled to do this. You feel you are being attacked, which you are not, so you attack. You ask for posts to be deleted, you gloat with a pic of an Ajax bottle saying you have cleaned the thread, you follow the profiles of those you feel are "attacking" you - which is cringey - and then you troll them on other threads.

You're not being attacked. A lot of this is in your head. You have to realize at some point you may be the author of your own reality.

 

[jtm011]

Why haven't you filed your complaint online or contacted the management of the restaurant yet, if this thing from 2 years ago is so egregious to you that it's burning a hole in you all this time later?

 

[fireman1294]

You're not getting attacked. People are asking you questions for a deeper understanding on this thread. They are entitled to do this. You feel you are being attacked, which you are not, so you attack. You ask for posts to be deleted, you gloat with a pic of an Ajax bottle saying you have cleaned the thread, you follow the profiles of those you feel are "attacking" you - which is cringey - and then you troll them on other threads.

You're not being attacked. A lot of this is in your head. You have to realize at some point you may be the author of your own reality.

This is a good point. Usually when I have a bad restaurant experience and I tell my friends I usually say hey don’t go to the Hobart longhorn steakhouse, my steak was over cooked twice and the service was shit, had to wait too long for our drinks. So when some pops up and says, “hey I was discriminated against by a racist waitress” people are going to want those kinds of details.

 

[jtm011]

Unfortunately you are incorrect.
I haven’t spoken to you on any other platform or thread.

Not true. You have posted right after me on another thread and you have followed my profile, and have a history of doing this to other members here. You either have a very selective memory or you enjoy putting out disinformation.

 

[fireman1294]

The location has no bearing on the views of this woman.

See now there you go again. If I have bad food yet good service, I’m still giving those details. If I have great food but shitty service I’m still giving those details. You know it’s kind of a warning to my friends, “hey this is what happened to me when I went, just warning you”. But you have gone through great (and many deleted) lengths to protect the city and establishment.

 

[fireman1294]

That’s fine. But naming the establishment is not going to change your mind and has no bearing on this conversation.

Max

NO BEARING ON THIS CONVERSATION!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The whole damn thread is about a racist restaurant. So the name and city location of said racist restaurant has total relevance in this conversation. If this place existed wouldn’t you want people to be warned of the potentially bad experience they might have? Or are you ok with other people of color just finding out on their own the hard way?

 

[jtm011]

incorrect. I posted on another thread you were on. I did not quote you or mention you. I like Champ also
you can ask for that list to be deleted if you like.

You actually contacted me on that thread.

thanks
Max

Nope, again you put out disinformation. What you did is respond directly to the comment I made above in that thread. You can do that without quoting or mentioning me. Pretty slick of you. I then called you out for trolling me, which you did to me and have done to other members on this site as well.

 

[jtm011]

You are incorrect sorry.
And yes it was 2 years ago, so it isn’t relevant today.

Max

So if it's 2 years ago and it's not relevant today, why even put up this thread? This whole thread should be taken down if it's not relevant today.

 

[fireman1294]

You are incorrect sorry.
And yes it was 2 years ago, so it isn’t relevant today.

Max

Just like your 2 year old story, it isn’t relevant today either.

 

[jtm011]

I cannot help/answer your questions if you won’t be honest sorry.

Max

You are expert at projection. No one can help you if you won't be honest.

 

[jtm011]

or you could stop posting on it - your choice?

max

Why? Because you like censoring people and you only like your voice to be the one heard? You only want to hear from those that agree with you?

 

[fireman1294]

refer to #88

Now if you only did #88 then we all could move on.

 

[jtm011]

not at all. When this thread gets bogged down with name calling and goes off topic I get out the “spray and wipe”.

please feel free to add your ramblings

max

Who called you names? You seem to have a chip on your shoulder. The fact that you want to "get out the 'spray and wipe'" shows you are against free speech and want to silence anyone who questions you. Are you so weak you can't stand up to questions?