Reason to be concerned/question?

[1andonly]

Hi fellas I have a few questions some partly due to an experience I had recently! I am a guy who enjoys receive oral sex. However, I always seems to cum extremely quickly. Within minute or two. So I wonder in all seriousness how long does a blowjob usually last for you fellas.

Also when I received oral recently I noticed I didn't come fully erect. Is it cause to be concerned? Also the person said they didn't realize I came so another reason I am wondering if should be concerned! I know some say it could be diet. I have had to cut out tomomato, greezy stuff, soda ECT (acid reflex) Although they were moaning so seemed like they were enjoying it..

Just wondering if these are legit reasons to be concerned about I am 47 years old.

 

[Puffdaddy316]

Yeah man it’s because you’re super excited which is hot. Not sure what to recommend though

 

[Markyoung873]

Hi fellas I have a few questions some partly due to an experience I had recently! I am a guy who enjoys receive oral sex. However, I always seems to cum extremely quickly. Within minute or two. So I wonder in all seriousness how long does a blowjob usually last for you fellas.

Also when I received oral recently I noticed I didn't come fully erect. Is it cause to be concerned? Also the person said they didn't realize I came so another reason I am wondering if should be concerned! I know some say it could be diet. I have had to cut out tomomato, greezy stuff, soda ECT (acid reflex) Although they were moaning so seemed like they were enjoying it..

Just wondering if these are legit reasons to be concerned about I am 47 years old.

Plenty of green leafy vegetables, drink plenty of water, do some cardio to improve your circulatory system and lift some weights to boost your testosterone, for me, I think of some mundane task if I feel I’m gonna blow early but sometimes it’s nice to just, well you know…

 

[marriedasian]

unless the timing of your orgasms are affecting your sex life or your partner then it's a non-issue and nothing to worry about.

growing up, it was impressed onto me that men should be able to last "long" in bed. this stuck in my head so much that i was unable to enjoy sex in its entirety for a very long time. i looked at sex as a duty and a performance so i was always going to do a "good job" even at the cost of my own pleasure. i learned how to get hard and stay hard indefinitely. i still carry this trauma to this day however within the last decade or so, i've learned to communicate clearly and explicitly with my partners on expectations and have been able to enjoy sex with no recourse. i've been with women who absolutely LOVES it when a man cums under a minute. it gives then an ego boost. i've also been with women who loath that like the plague and expects a man to stay hard until she cums first. to each their own. pick your poison.

if your early orgasms are affecting your relationship then you need to figure out where the compromise point is and work towards that. there are lots of men and women out there who can cum really quick and then have different behavioral outcomes thereafter. it's all about handling expectations and learning to "let go" and just enjoying the pleasure and experience.

 

[1andonly]

What do recommend for cardio/lifting weights as I was reading cardio can help. However never done the exercise thing...thanks for advice

 

[1andonly]

Plenty of green leafy vegetables, drink plenty of water, do some cardio to improve your circulatory system and lift some weights to boost your testosterone, for me, I think of some mundane task if I feel I’m gonna blow early but sometimes it’s nice to just, well you know…

Thanks man what type of cardio/ exercise do you recommend as I know nothing in the area of this...thanks for advice..

 

[Markyoung873]

Thanks man what type of cardio/ exercise do you recommend as I know nothing in the area of this...thanks for advice..

If you wanna message me privately I’ll let you know.