Anybody know how to reduce your refractory period? i would like to be able to get hard again faster with more regularity. sometimes i can very soon, sometimes it takes up to 20 minutes. any advice?
I try to get in & out of the refractory in 20 minutes & then spend the remaining 40 minutes of my refractory period going for a nice walk in the park. It's lovely at the moment as the cherry trees are heavy with blossom. I have no intention of making it any shorter. I'm hard at it from 9am - 6pm & that's my time to have a break & relax.
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Thanks for the concern, Monel. That's my break, though - no hard at it during that. Sauntering, enjoying the joys of spring is the name of the game.
ConanTheBarber
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Is the refectory refractory?
Or do they let you do as you wish, Zyz?
If he's making such a spectacle of himself, I hope my spectacles have an up to date refraction.
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Why do you want it any shorter? Use the time to talk or snuggle or pee or check on whatever's in the oven...
And why are you named after a jumbo jet combined with a bird that becomes a fireball? People might consider that a little gauche.
Perhaps i could get an aswer from somebody that wants to help? I was under the impression that posting threads such as this one was to get help. so, anyone who wants to help, please respond.
ConanTheBarber
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Okay, okay.
One website suggests foods that will reduce your level of prolactin, a brain chemical that slows down recovery time.
So: eat foods high in vitamin B6 and zinc, and an herb that's (oddly) called chasteberry.
It also suggests doing a lot of interval training, but I imagine someone who's looking for pleasure would get a little, um, refractory at the prospect of doing so much work.
One website suggests foods that will reduce your level of prolactin, a brain chemical that slows down recovery time.
So: eat foods high in vitamin B6 and zinc, and an herb that's (oddly) called chasteberry.
It also suggests doing a lot of interval training, but I imagine someone who's looking for pleasure would get a little, um, refractory at the prospect of doing so much work.
Oh, you rotter! Pandering to incendiary jumbo guy... I want to know why he thinks being normal is a problem.
ConanTheBarber
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Depends how young you are, I guess? Used to be immediate for me when I was in me teens - now I can't actually be bothered wanking again after I cum.
I guess fitness/exercise would help reduce it - but also testosterone levels, and no meds with sexual side effects?
I should be so lucky. Sigh!
To the OP: Why would you need faster than 20 minutes? In my experience the recovery time depends on the moment. Sometimes if I'm really horny I can bounce back within a few minutes. Other times, I'm tired, the day's been a bitch and I need to sleep after the first go around before I can even contemplate another. Enjoy each moment. Do your best to help your partner to enjoy the moment and how fast you're ready for seconds will be less important.
By the way, as a point of reference, how old are you?
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when I was younger, the time period between the first and second was zero. as I got older it got a longer. I used to smoke a little pot in between, and be hard in seconds. I had enthusiatic female partners, gently fondle and then suck my cock til hard.
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This may help:
http://www.lpsg.org/297189-fun-trick-i-learned-with.html
...it's a take off from an idea I read about here. Try masturbating until you cum, but completely let go of your cock when you start ejaculating. Something about the head getting overstimulated leads to a long refractory period. Starve the cockhead of any attention when you climax and he'll be even needier next time around.
http://www.lpsg.org/297189-fun-trick-i-learned-with.html
...it's a take off from an idea I read about here. Try masturbating until you cum, but completely let go of your cock when you start ejaculating. Something about the head getting overstimulated leads to a long refractory period. Starve the cockhead of any attention when you climax and he'll be even needier next time around.
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