refractory period

This may help:

Fun trick I learned with my semen

...it's a take off from an idea I read about here. Try masturbating until you cum, but completely let go of your cock when you start ejaculating. Something about the head getting overstimulated leads to a long refractory period. Starve the cockhead of any attention when you climax and he'll be even needier next time around.

Has worked for me, many many times.