Roommate Differences?

[messid]

Wondering if anyone else has lived with a guy with a vastly different size? Did it affect the friendship/roommate relationship?

I had a roommate back in college (I'm 30 now) who was much bigger but we never saw each other at the same time (I have another post about that). And now years later, I have a guy that started renting out a room in my house last month and we both learned this past weekend that he's way bigger (my 1 inch flaccid to his probably 4 or 5 inches flaccid). Anyone else had to deal with this situation?

 

[hzs3fg]

Since flaccid size is not an indicator of erect size, why do you care?

When erect, you could actually be bigger then either of these other guys.

 

[Mike hung]

I shared a flat for around 6 months with another guy my age back in my college days, we were both straight guys and open as far as nudity was concerned myself especially as I was brought up by naturist parents. The flat was typical private student accommodation, basic, small and in need of attention. The flat was right above a busy laundrette and always sweltering hot. Because of the heat when we were there we'd mostly just be in our underwear even with the window open it really was that hot from the laundry below and often walked around the flat naked, my flatmate had a below average penis size while I'm a fair amount bigger than average penis wise. He was a jovial guy, always the joker and big into practical jokes, great fun to share the flat with and go out drinking with. He was never embarrassed or ashamed by our dramatic differences in penis size and and to be honest neither of us really noticed being both straight and comfortable with each other, the only time he ever mentioned my larger size was if he cracked a joke about it.

 

[josh20hung]

Oh yea .. like quite a bit bigger. I cared at first, especially during mmf. But he never did

 

[messid]

Since flaccid size is not an indicator of erect size, why do you care?

When erect, you could actually be bigger then either of these other guys.

You're right...I shouldn't care but I guess I do...it's just kind of embarrassing this time because he's so much bigger than me and he knows it. And his soft size is bigger than my hard size so no chance that I beat him either way LOL. It just happened recently though so I don't know how much it's gonna affect the roommate dynamic

 

[HOU_HEADHUNTER]

I had one roommate that was significantly more girthy. I caught a glimpse on accident. He used to wear these ratty pajama pants around the house and there was a hole in the crotch and he didn't wear underwear when he wore them. He fell asleep one night on the couch in the den and I just so happen to get up for something. I saw the tv still on and him sprawled across the couch with one of his legs resting over the back. I went over to turn the tv off and looked over at my roommate. His cock was completely outside of the hole. I first took in the nice sized balls which had a birthmark on them, as my eyes moved along his leg I was able to see the the underside of his thick uncut cock which hung across his thigh. Let me tell you, I started to get an erection because I'd never looked at my roommate in such a way and seeing his flaccid penis which looked like a work of art changed how I felt about my roommate but I never crossed that line. There is nothing like seeing it the first time but needless to say I made sure to get up at various times throughout the night when I knew he was asleep so that I could see that hog of a cock in it's erect state. Sure enough I eventually caught him at the right time of his sleep when it was at attention and while it may not have grown much more than when it was when it was flaccid it was nice to see it extended to the point where I was able to see the mushroom shaped head come out of the foreskin sheath that usually kept it concealed.

 

[S_Dick]

My college roommate had a beer can for a cock, (I’ve written about him on other posts) We were both very comfortable with nudity and jerking off in the room so I saw it hard several times. We were about the same length, but he is crazy thick, like couldn’t get your hand around thick. I think I was jealous of him at the time. I was young and maybe a bit insecure. But now that I’m a bit older I don’t give a shit about anyone else’s size

 

[chrisjason]

My college room mate and I had nearly matching dicks. We were comfortable with nudity and jerking off together. Never did each other. A running joke when one of us left was "you sure you didn't get mine?"

 

[soccerplayer05]

My freshman year college roommate was on the small side of average. It never came up, but I did try to avoid him seeing mine as much as possible. Which is quite difficult in a dorm room and a communal bathroom with open showers.

 

[HorseHung40's]

I cannot believe that you care about a roommate's penis size; instead, focus on a real measure of suitability of the person. Does the person:
1.) Pay his share of the rent?
2.) Respect your privacy?
3.) At least civil to your friends?

If you answered yes to the aforementioned questions, count yourself lucky.

As for penis size, shut up and deal with it.

 

[lttle1]

My freshman year college roommate was on the small side of average. It never came up, but I did try to avoid him seeing mine as much as possible. Which is quite difficult in a dorm room and a communal bathroom with open showers.

Why did you try to avoid his seeing your cock?

 

[soccerplayer05]

Why did you try to avoid his seeing your cock?

I didn’t want it to be weird. The whole size difference thing can really change a dynamic.

 

[Triasco]

I didn’t want it to be weird. The whole size difference thing can really change a dynamic.

This is true, contrary to popular belief. I had a roommate do a complete 180 after seeing my cock.

 

[d3ofol_griffin]

'...a complete 180'? Did 'it' improve or get worse?

 

[Triasco]

'...a complete 180'? Did 'it' improve or get worse?

Very much worse. From "decently cool" guy to " complete asshat."

 

[d3ofol_griffin]

Very much worse. From "decently cool" guy to " complete asshat."

very believable

 

[freeballininnyc]

I cannot believe that you care about a roommate's penis size; instead, focus on a real measure of suitability of the person. Does the person:
1.) Pay his share of the rent?
2.) Respect your privacy?
3.) At least civil to your friends?

If you answered yes to the aforementioned questions, count yourself lucky.

As for penis size, shut up and deal with it.

I totally agree with all you said. Why you feel the need to be a dick about it is beyond me. Respect and civility are two things you clearly seem to value but then you'll tell some stranger to shut up. Really? Grow up man.

 

[lbagain]

I didn’t want it to be weird. The whole size difference thing can really change a dynamic.

I had sports teammates become more distant and/or patronizing when they learned my unusually small size.

 

[lbagain]

Since flaccid size is not an indicator of erect size, why do you care?

When erect, you could actually be bigger then either of these other guys.

Because people make assumptions based on flaccid anyway. A really small retracting flaccid make many people assume you are too small for any kind of sex.

 

[lbagain]

Very much worse. From "decently cool" guy to " complete asshat."

You mean because he felt inferior and tried to compensate verbally, etc?