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I can like vanilla but he’s levels of vanilla I can’t seem to get behind. He’s TOO vanilla.
Just because he doesn’t get fisted on OF doesn’t mean he’s too vanilla.
 
I can like vanilla but he’s levels of vanilla I can’t seem to get behind. He’s TOO vanilla.
DAMNNNN that sounds like something I would say lol. "Levels of Vanilla..." DAMN that's cold. I'd like to say he's "personality challenged." Alot of pretty people fall into the category.
 
You must be delusional or blind if you can’t see how vanilla he is.

vanilla isn’t a sexual thing.
And yet... you're still here following him to remind us how you're over him. I'm just guessing, but I bet he couldn't care less if he's your notion of 'vanilla'. But it seems to bother you, like it's under your skin. WTF's up with that?
 
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And yet... you're still here following him to remind us how you're over him. I'm just guessing, but I bet he couldn't care less if he's your notion of 'vanilla'. But it seems to bother you, like it's under your skin. WTF's up with that?
He seems to only know whites...
 
Because it’s a forum to discuss people. I think he’s handsome. But I’ll call out bullshit when I smell it. All because I think someone’s handsome and I’m up for a perv doesn’t mean I’m blinded and can’t call out a a load of bull when I see it.
He must not of seen the video about him talking about how he used to be so insecure about his chest. I eyerolled so hard. I know guys that are muscular and have a dip in their chest and it’s still noticeable sams isn’t at all. So he probably had surgery not just working out his chest.
 
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I'm not a hater at all, I wish most people success in whatever they pursue in life, including Sam. But how many times has a pretty gay with a large social media following had the bright idea of 'hey! I'll make a Youtube channel and try to derive my income from that'. And how many times did those crash and burn because the person just ran out of stuff to talk about and people got bored? A person can only go so far if they have nothing interesting to talk about. I can't think of many gay Youtubers who have succeeded over a handful of years and are still around (Tyler Oakley, any others?), but the ones who did were at least funny or interviewed other people or something that made them worth watching. You can only get so far doing vlogs and a small subset of 'lifestyle' topics. By that point, you are essentially reduced to taking your shirt off to get views, which is obviously where Sam is now if you watch his latest videos. It also takes a strong personality to have not let those random few comments talking shit get to you, and you can tell that Sam is too nice of a person to handle them well.
 
He seems to only know whites...
Your point? Again, that's been brought up plenty on this thread. It still doesn't answer why you (and others) stick around (here, and on other threads) just to throw around the same monotonous criticisms over and over again. And about the fact that his friends aren't diverse enough to satisfy you, most people gravitate to others that have some commonality in life experience. Someone that hasn't had a very cosmopolitan upbringing won't likely suddenly develop a circle of friends that looks like the United Nation General Assembly. That's not inherently racist; it's merely being human.
 
Your point? Again, that's been brought up plenty on this thread. It still doesn't answer why you (and others) stick around (here, and on other threads) just to throw around the same monotonous criticisms over and over again. And about the fact that his friends aren't diverse enough to satisfy you, most people gravitate to others that have some commonality in life experience. Someone that hasn't had a very cosmopolitan upbringing won't likely suddenly develop a circle of friends that looks like the United Nation General Assembly. That's not inherently racist; it's merely being human.
True, however the fact that he seems obsessed with the Spanish language and culture would make you think he'd have a brown friend lingering around...just saying.
 
Your point? Again, that's been brought up plenty on this thread. It still doesn't answer why you (and others) stick around (here, and on other threads) just to throw around the same monotonous criticisms over and over again. And about the fact that his friends aren't diverse enough to satisfy you, most people gravitate to others that have some commonality in life experience. Someone that hasn't had a very cosmopolitan upbringing won't likely suddenly develop a circle of friends that looks like the United Nation General Assembly. That's not inherently racist; it's merely being human.
I don’t like racist apologists...
 
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I don't necessarily believe Sam is racist in any way whatsoever, but I think that there are many white people who view themselves as politically liberal, whether in the gay or straight community, who support people of color, support political policies that benefit marginalized racial groups outside their own, yet fail to have any significant relationships with people of color. I know many people like this personally. Not to pick on Sam specifically, but obviously if you check his social media, aside from his one token Asian friend Jonah, there is no other person of color on there. And you have to ask yourself, why is that so? Is a person simply failing to meet anyone from any other community? Or do they just have an intrinsic, subconscious bias to seek out meaningful relationships around only people who look like themselves? And I really do believe the answer is the second option. In certain cities where there really is a lack of diversity, it's at least understandable why it is so prevalent, taking D.C. as an example. I think the human brain is simply biologically wired to where many people subconsciously form meaningful connections more often with people who look similar to them, and many liberal people, despite having broadly empathetic beliefs with people of color, perhaps don't attempt to integrate themselves in a proactive way with them. At the end of the day, we all evolved biologically as humans with similar biases. If a person doesn't care about forming relationships with people of color, then it is what it is, and obviously they won't care. I personally find it hypocritical when many other liberal gays have social media and post black squares in response to the protests, for example, but there's no evidence that they've even attempted to form close relationships with other people who don't look like them. I don't believe it makes anyone racist in the gay or straight community necessarily if that describes them, but I do think that they have not made enough effort and it is hypocritical that they are pushing ideas about change while not living it themselves.
 
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