He’s not getting much though from what I see. He’s pretty much getting back to normal.With the premise and proof provided so far...
Holding someone accountable for their actions isn't hateful.
Telling someone they are being hypocritical isn't hateful.
Acting in response to someone behaving poorly and recklessly, only to see them ignore and deny the truth. Also not hateful.
At some point you need to accept that maybe the kid deserves everything he's getting.