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Ok, I need some objective advice.
Guys, after three years of infertility treatments and numerous trips to doctors. Being operated on and poked and prodded like a lab rat. My wife and I is expecting our first child.
How did the new dads deal with the rejection during and after pregnancy? Did you take it like a man, accepted that your sex life died with the birth of the baby? Or did you beg like a dog? Or did you take matters in your own hands? Jacked off every now and then?
I do not now how to deal with this?
I asked my best friend about this, and he threated his wife 6 months after the birth of his first born, that if their sex life didn't improve he will go out and find sex somewhere else. He says it worked for him.
But my wife isn't as submissive to me, as his is to him, so I suppose it will not work for me. If I pull this stunt I will be kicked to the curb in 15 minutes flat. New baby or not.
Opinions appreciated.
Thanx
Guys, after three years of infertility treatments and numerous trips to doctors. Being operated on and poked and prodded like a lab rat. My wife and I is expecting our first child.
How did the new dads deal with the rejection during and after pregnancy? Did you take it like a man, accepted that your sex life died with the birth of the baby? Or did you beg like a dog? Or did you take matters in your own hands? Jacked off every now and then?
I do not now how to deal with this?
I asked my best friend about this, and he threated his wife 6 months after the birth of his first born, that if their sex life didn't improve he will go out and find sex somewhere else. He says it worked for him.
But my wife isn't as submissive to me, as his is to him, so I suppose it will not work for me. If I pull this stunt I will be kicked to the curb in 15 minutes flat. New baby or not.
Opinions appreciated.
Thanx