Second hole when bottoming?

[Brodie888]

I feel in part it's me because I've taken in a few guys MUCH bigger than he is before with little to no problems. One of them being a bit Tumblr-famous with a little over 8" whereas this guy is a solid 7 or so and we just couldn't proceed.

As for the toys how do I go about even getting myself comfortable enough for it? I know as of right now I have a very small length/width I can fit in my hole. I also usually hate the feeling of any foreign object other than a dick going back there.

More length is often much easier to take than girth. But once again maybe the bigger guy knew what he was doing so made the process easier.

In regards to toys, probably best to start with fingers. You want to gradually increase the length and girth as you go. You could then try an anal training kit of butt plugs of increasing girth. Next would be 2 or 3 dildoes of increasing girth and length. You may find a double ended dildo better as the biggest option because for some reason the longer dildoes also tend to get overly girthy. Just stick to toys under 6 inch circumference/1.9 inch diameter. Avoid heavily textured or rigid toys.

Not sure what you mean by hating foreign objects in your butt. Can you give an example?

 

[malakos]

But don't go overboard. You don't want the ability to sit on a traffic cone and not feel anything when being fucked for real either.

I thought this was a myth, for the most part? As in, the lengths one would have to go to to be so stretched out that even an average sized dick wouldn't still feel great would be quite extreme.

 

[martin60018]

, know your limits and stick with what you can handle, only take what you can finish.... go for seconds later

 

[Brodie888]

I thought this was a myth, for the most part? As in, the lengths one would have to go to to be so stretched out that even an average sized dick wouldn't still feel great would be quite extreme.

You'd still get sexual pleasure from prostate stimulation as normal. You still have nerve endings there so you will feel good. You just wouldn't get that pleasurable stretching feeling for long at smaller girths.

If you didn't play with your hole it would eventually shrink back mostly. I've never tested the upper limits so I can't say how far you can take it.

My partner is about 6 in girth. I was used to 4-5 so I had to train myself to accommodate him.

 

[malakos]

You'd still get sexual pleasure from prostate stimulation as normal. You still have nerve endings there so you will feel good. You just wouldn't get that pleasurable stretching feeling for long at smaller girths.

If you didn't play with your hole it would eventually shrink back mostly. I've never tested the upper limits so I can't say how far you can take it.

My partner is about 6 in girth. I was used to 4-5 so I had to train myself to accommodate him.

Do you have experience with a man's anus being conditioned by stretching to be more open long term (not just immediate to a session)? Pretty much all experienced testimonies I've encountered so far have said it reverts to a tight-ish state rather quickly.

 

[jpk338]

The first real big guy I had aimed it towards my left shoulder. It somehow moves the rectum to the left and lessens the bend, which makes it easier to get into the colon.
My current fb is big and I have never had a problem. It also helps that he knows what he is doing.
As for getting stretched out, everything goes back to normal after a good fuck.

 

[DaMaslin]

Not sure what you mean by hating foreign objects in your butt. Can you give an example?

It's weird but every time someone goes to finger me I clench. And it's an instant reaction I haven't been able to get rid of mostly. Fingers feel too skinny to me and yet my hole says dicks are too thick. I feel helpless with this sometimes. I will be buying a small toy soon though.

 

[Brodie888]

Do you have experience with a man's anus being conditioned by stretching to be more open long term (not just immediate to a session)? Pretty much all experienced testimonies I've encountered so far have said it reverts to a tight-ish state rather quickly.

It's not so much being stretched open long term per se. It's more that your body gets used to relaxing faster for a bigger size.

Generally speaking, you may gape for a few minutes after taking girth or vigorous long sessions but yes it does go back to normal as long as there isn't damage to the muscle.

 

[malakos]

It's not so much being stretched open long term per se. It's more that your body gets used to relaxing faster for a bigger size.

Generally speaking, you may gape for a few minutes after taking girth or vigorous long sessions but yes it does go back to normal as long as there isn't damage to the muscle.

So there shouldn't be any issues with feeling an average sized dick, even if one has been practicing for big... right?

 

[Brodie888]

So there shouldn't be any issues with feeling an average sized dick, even if one has been practicing for big... right?

You'll feel it but you won't get that feeling like you are pushing your limits because you're accustomed to more.

 

[waysg75]

I was with this couple once and they were 7.5 and 8.5 and the 7.5 had a nice curve cock so when i sat on him i could feel him get to my second hole and i push down a little bit and he was able to get into my second hole. They fucked me so good i missed them alot.

 

[coxslover]

Wow, this is all new to me. I haven't bottomed that many times, it's been many years. I wish I knew someone who is experienced and patient, I'd like to try again. Second hole, who knew?

 

[capnewt]

I had an anal fissure which required surgery, I am finally getting over the pain of getting girth up me. Its been months and months but I am slowly getting to the point I am finally able to get stuff in without pain thanks to using gallons of lube and anal numbing. I bought myself this
Doc Johnson Classic Veined Double Header Dildo 18 Inch. And a month or so ago I finally actually got the full length inside of me. the feeling is amazing. but it still shocks me how my inside does it. After I take it out I do feel weird like there is something stuck in my gut for a bit. I am assuming that is from the 2nd hole. As to put it.

 

[Andrue]

Doc Johnson Classic Veined Double Header Dildo 18 Inch

I have this one as well, but in "smooth". Haven't got it passed the "2nd sphincter" yet though. I really should give it a go again...

 

[malakos]

Wow, this is all new to me. I haven't bottomed that many times, it's been many years. I wish I knew someone who is experienced and patient, I'd like to try again. Second hole, who knew?

Sort of. There is a bend that serves as the transition from the rectum to the sigmoid colon. As far as I know, it is not a sphincter like the anus. It is somewhat shaped like a hole, but I think to call it one is stretching the reality a bit. However, there is some similarity of sensation. It would seem most men (idk about women, haven't encountered too many who cared to discuss the "second hole") who have managed to get a penetrating object through it during sexy time have enjoyed the sensation a great deal (count me as one of them).