Seeking Advice: Convincing My 19-Year-Old Best Friend to Experiment Sexually

[Dontask321]

Ask for a pic of his d (and then share with us )

Agreed, we’re on the journey with you now lol

 

[Inputpower1]

Thanks for sharing this journey with us. Very hot! Sounds like you are being honest and having fun. It’s okay for friends to experiment… with all kinds of things… hobbies, trips, music, sex, food, etc. Showing each other your dicks and jerking together doesn’t label you as gay for life. You are 19. Obviously both of you are horny and have a trusting relationship. Have fun and keep telling us what’s up. And yes, feel free to send me pics in a private message!

 

[Lucius2s1]

Thanks for sharing this journey with us. Very hot! Sounds like you are being honest and having fun. It’s okay for friends to experiment… with all kinds of things… hobbies, trips, music, sex, food, etc. Showing each other your dicks and jerking together doesn’t label you as gay for life. You are 19. Obviously both of you are horny and have a trusting relationship. Have fun and keep telling us what’s up. And yes, feel free to send me pics in a private message!

Hehe me too lol

 

[thefatcow200]

You’re right—being direct and respectful is key. Ask about his feelings and preferences without pressure. Trying to convince someone can be disrespectful and counterproductive. Clear communication ensures both parties are on the same page and maintains respect for each other’s boundaries and desires.

Although I have my doubts based on the original post, I'm going to assume the question is a genuine one and not an excuse to show photos of, or discuss the physical attributes of, a stranger.

First, you characterize "broaching the subject" of "convincing" him to experiment sexually with you as a delicate one. If you are gay and attracted to him -- which is evident -- and he is gay and attracted to you -- which is yet unknown -- then you have nothing to lose by simply saying words to the effect, "I am attracted to you and want a sexual relationship. How do you feel about that?" If he is attracted to you and homosexual, then the answer will be "yes" and you can get on with it. If he is not attracted to you and homosexual, then the answer will be "no" and you can get on with it. If he is not homosexual, then the answer will be "no" and you can get on with it.

Second, there is something desperate and disrespectful about "convincing him" to have sex with you. A better approach, which respects his sexual orientation, whatever it is, would be to ask him his sexual preference, as I suggest above. Surely, you must know that attempting to convince someone to have sex with you is bound to be unsatisfying at best and an utter failure at worst.

In the meantime, spare us the photos. You want to have sex with him, not us.

You’re right—being direct and respectful is key. Ask about his feelings and preferences without pressure. Trying to convince someone can be disrespectful and counterproductive. Clear communication ensures both parties are on the same page and maintains respect for each other’s boundaries and desires.

 

[Lucius2s1]

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You’re right—being direct and respectful is key. Ask about his feelings and preferences without pressure. Trying to convince someone can be disrespectful and counterproductive. Clear communication ensures both parties are on the same page and maintains respect for each other’s boundaries and desires.


You’re right—being direct and respectful is key. Ask about his feelings and preferences without pressure. Trying to convince someone can be disrespectful and counterproductive. Clear communication ensures both parties are on the same page and maintains respect for each other’s boundaries and desires.

Good luck

 

[Gingerales]

There us no convincing in any relationship! That s not how it s supposed to be! If he is interested that s ok but other than that! I don’t think it s a ok move

 

[kasturi]

There us no convincing in any relationship! That s not how it s supposed to be! If he is interested that s ok but other than that! I don’t think it s a ok move

Absolutely! Thats why i think this is a time pass post or a fake one

 

[Kendra Summers]

I can’t wait to know how all of this unravels.

 

[mhigz0606]

I guess this did not end well then?