drrionelli: With all due respect, jccs, I don't see that there exists, here, an obsession with genital size, certainly no more than one might suggest, for example, that musicians in an artistic group endeavour (e.g., symphony orchestra, jazz combo or rock group) should be considered obsessive about music.
This is not, of course, to say that obsessiveness does NOT occur here. Indeed, isolated instances (anecdotal, at best) are, de facto, manifest, as per expectation.
Rather, it seems that the "consciousness of kind" attitude prevails, and that there's comfort in those numbers, however magnitudinous they may be.
Surely, most here, as have you, have come to terms with having large penises. And, much as persons who are taller or shorter or slimmer or heavier than average, we know that we are, essentially, no different from others, however profound our phalluses may be.
But, your observations are certainly duly noted. And, as for others staring, well, I agree...who cares? After all, it's not as though it's easy to hide prominent pubic protruberances (and efforts to do so simply magnify...no pun intended...the problem)! ;D