sensitive head. problem?

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hey everyone. recently i realised that i have a problem (or not)
sex with me is always a long road cause i cant cum quickly. its not what im proud of. its so long so i start to feel tired and my dick just fell down. my dick is fine, i'm not circumcised, if you need i can send a photo. i dont know what to do. my head is normal but i have one spot on the top of the dick, like the side of head which i look if look down (you know what i mean?) this spot is kinda uncomfortable to touch by hand and tounge. is it normal? should i go to the doctor and which one: urologist or just phsycologist cause maybe its in my head and thats why i cant fully relax? let me know
 
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Well, I have this situation as well - takes me a while to reach climax and, yes, I can get tired out and deflate without reaching the goal.

I'm cut and I've been blaming this on my lack of foreskin for years - you bring a new perspective to that theory.

My glans tend to be sensitive and too much tongue action can be borderline uncomfortable. I suspect that is not all that uncommon. Most guys JO rubbing the shaft and not so much the head. Just bumping their hand up against the rim/sulcus of the glans likely cause that is giving them just the right amount of sensation - not too much.

Sometimes I think it does become a self fulfilling prophesy. The thought runs thru my that I won't cum quick enough and then it tends to happen. I do try to focus on relaxing and just enjoying it for what it is and not focus as much on the goal. I've noticed my BF will in the heat of the moment tell me to give him my load and that will sometimes mess with my mind.
 
The head of my penis gets almost too sensitive after i cum and i literally cant keep teasing it myself. When im in pussy or someone else is jerking/sucking me i have to tell them to slow down lolol
The same happens to me. A lot of people think a big cock should get the most aggressive treatment, but thats not always the case.

As soon as I start to cum, I pull my hand back to only the shaft and just gently bump the underside of my head with my hand. Makes me pump huge loads with 7-8 full ropes. If I keep pounding away on the top of my head its so sensitive thats its uncomfortable and I cum less. When I'm fucking my husband I slow almost to a stop when I start cumming and it feels so good. Just a few very slow strokes. He said he can feel the pumping of my cock pulsing more when I do that, rather than just pounding away. So its better for both of us.
 
Well, I have this situation as well - takes me a while to reach climax and, yes, I can get tired out and deflate without reaching the goal.

I'm cut and I've been blaming this on my lack of foreskin for years - you bring a new perspective to that theory.

My glans tend to be sensitive and too much tongue action can be borderline uncomfortable. I suspect that is not all that uncommon. Most guys JO rubbing the shaft and not so much the head. Just bumping their hand up against the rim/sulcus of the glans likely cause that is giving them just the right amount of sensation - not too much.

Sometimes I think it does become a self fulfilling prophesy. The thought runs thru my that I won't cum quick enough and then it tends to happen. I do try to focus on relaxing and just enjoying it for what it is and not focus as much on the goal. I've noticed my BF will in the heat of the moment tell me to give him my load and that will sometimes mess with my mind.
Bumping the hand against the rim of my head will make me cum way bigger loads and jacking off the entire length. Im cut too.