Sexless with partner // advice?

[deleted21917541]

I got together with my husband 18 years ago, 10 years ago…we got hitched.

I had an accident late last year while I was in SF for a bit, up from LA.

5 surgeries, and counting.

Out sex like is completely non-existent. Nothing. Just totally void. I know the stress of this; taking care of the household, me, the dogs, worries, etc. can shine a little different of a light … but the libido is completely gone from him.

does anybody have experience or advice…in how to get things goin again. I feel like I’m just seen as a “patient” …and that’s not an RP he’s down to try (I. Have. Asked.)

I’m a horny perv … but miss not only his cock, but the intimacy our regular sec life brought.

xx

 

[youralteraccount]

Mind if we ask what accident/surgery you had? Did it cause mobility issues? In your relationship, who's the top and the bottom? I assume you've initiated being intimate with him at some point - if so, how and what was his reaction?