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HiddenLacey
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I'm afraid to have sex with my wife, we lost a son two years ago when she was pregnant and I haven't been the same since.
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Awww, I'm sorry to hear that.
Why don't you two masturbate for each other maybe that will add some fun into the mix instead of you doing it alone.
Why don't you two masturbate for each other maybe that will add some fun into the mix instead of you doing it alone.
I'm sorry about your son but from my experance your missing out on some of the best sex you and your wife will have. My wife and i had great sex both times she was pregnant.
You might think about talking with a professional (DR) about this.
You might think about talking with a professional (DR) about this.
well if you can't control yourself and not be to vigorous, i can see why you're not willing to risk it.
what about, doggy style, her thighs squeezed together, lube the triangle between thighs & cunt and fuck through there? it's tight, it feels good, you're rubbing against her clit, you're slamming your bodies together, but there's no penetration.
i've used this kind of pseudo sex a few times for various reasons and it's pretty damn good IMO.
what about, doggy style, her thighs squeezed together, lube the triangle between thighs & cunt and fuck through there? it's tight, it feels good, you're rubbing against her clit, you're slamming your bodies together, but there's no penetration.
i've used this kind of pseudo sex a few times for various reasons and it's pretty damn good IMO.
Oh god, just the thought of rubbing my cock on her clit and spanking it while I rub it in drives me to want to shoot off a load......mhm! I'm so pathetic. I'm so hard right now It's not funny, what a waste.
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Are you having a boy or girl this time Lafaver?
Take Dolfette's advice or just jack that shit off in the bathroom. There are bigger fish to fry.
Take Dolfette's advice or just jack that shit off in the bathroom. There are bigger fish to fry.
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Ah, frot for straights (or to be more precise, inter-crural sex). I'm glad to hear of that.
I once had a guy between my lubed thighs cry out "it feels like pussy!" I thought, well you should know, though that's not what I was aiming for (no gender confusion here). It was good for me too - I could grip him with my thigh muscles and feel every throb and pulse of his enjoyment as I rubbed against his belly. Unfortunately they've since reformulated Brycreem and it's just not the same, but olive oil is almost as good.
But I digress... Congratulations on the nascent daughter, Lafever!
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He's said it several times in this thread- he was posting here when his wife lost their son when she was in the late second/early 3rd trimester. He's not about to rock the boat with sex and mess everything up. Have a little sympathy over that. Telling him it's completely ok to have sex because in a normal pregnancy it would be, when his wife has not had a good history, they don't want to have guilt over it if anything goes wrong.
Lafever, I know you're tired for another 'I'm sorry' but I really sincerely am. Losing a child is something painful to go through. And I'm glad to see that you are now expecting again. I really hope this time, your child will grow up to someone you will be really proud. Okay, I'm off topic here.
Anyways, as others have just said, there are a lot of sexual acts you can do to your wife without actually really fucking her. If jacking off is tiring, then, maybe she can just masturbate you, suck you, etc. without you actually getting inside her.
Anyways, as others have just said, there are a lot of sexual acts you can do to your wife without actually really fucking her. If jacking off is tiring, then, maybe she can just masturbate you, suck you, etc. without you actually getting inside her.
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- Choke it (if you get my meaning)
- Have her give you a BJ or handjob
I'm not sure about intercourse, since I'm not a doctor, and wouldn't know if it's safe in this period in her pregnancy.
However, the two points listed above wouldn't really deprive her of any more energy, especially since pregnancy can lower energy levels.
Sex is out of the question right now. It is clear from what you said about the fear of losing this child. AND after the birth you won't be having sex for awhile. SO, you have to get in touch with yourself in a lot of areas...stroke, use a fleshlight, talk about this with the wife but if it is going to cause her stress don't worry her with it. Man up, stroke your dick as often as you need and then relax about it...Enjoy being a father.
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