Sexy man at my gym

[biman]

Hello, I joined a gym a few months ago and lost a ton of weight and gained sexy muscles, as my wife tells me. There is this guy at my gym who I see occasionally who is sexy as hell. He is REALLY good looking, tall, and has an AWESOME body, but the crazy part is he’s not stuck up. He is friendly to me, one of the few people at the gym who speaks to me. Once he asked me to spot him on the bench press. I tried to make conversation by saying, I would do that if I had someone to help me out. He said to let him know when I needed a spot,
but that was it. When I see him, he asks me how am I doing, I respond and ask him the same question. And then we keep walking past each other. This man gets a lot of attention from both men and women. He talks to the ladies at the front desk and guys talk to him about lifting weights.
Ever since I lost weight and gained muscles I’ve noticed people treat me differently. Men give me respect and say hello and talk to me more, some guys I catch checking me out. And females always tell me how good I look. But this is all new to me and it feels weird given that just a year ago I was fat and didn’t take care of myself physically. Anyway I say all that because I’m nervous to talk to this guy at my gym. He looks too damn good for him to want to talk to me, but he’s sooo friendly and that makes me think he’s approachable.

How can I get things started to develop a friendship with him? What exactly should I say?

 

[223790]

The same thing had happened to me since I lost 40 pounds. You are right that both genders treat you better, and notice you more.

I have had more gym crushes on guys than I can count. Trying to talk to someone while they're working out is not a good idea. I'm a friendly guy, but I actually go to the gym to workout, not socialize. There are a few guys like this at my Y. They drive me crazy always yapping away, and taking up equipment while they socialize. They probably spend 15 minutes in total doing actual exercise even though they are there for a couple of hours. If I'm crushing on a guy, I try to strike up a conversation in the locker room, steam room, hot tub or open shower. I always find that guys are friendlier naked as all barriers come down when they're bare ass naked with another naked guy. I have made many gym friends this way. This is why I prefer gyms that have open showers and amenities such as steam rooms, hot tubs, saunas, etc.

 

[deleted875903]

It's normal biman. You and that guy you have your eye on have something in common (working out and staying fit). Question, do you know if he drinks coffee, or does he get a bite to eat after working out? Why don't you ask him and find out. You both can talk about working out and then go from there. Regarding people treating you different and checking you out. Just take it as a compliment for all the hard work you put in to get where you are.

 

[submit452]

Hello, I joined a gym a few months ago and lost a ton of weight and gained sexy muscles, as my wife tells me. There is this guy at my gym who I see occasionally who is sexy as hell. He is REALLY good looking, tall, and has an AWESOME body, but the crazy part is he’s not stuck up. He is friendly to me, one of the few people at the gym who speaks to me. Once he asked me to spot him on the bench press. I tried to make conversation by saying, I would do that if I had someone to help me out. He said to let him know when I needed a spot,
but that was it. When I see him, he asks me how am I doing, I respond and ask him the same question. And then we keep walking past each other. This man gets a lot of attention from both men and women. He talks to the ladies at the front desk and guys talk to him about lifting weights.
Ever since I lost weight and gained muscles I’ve noticed people treat me differently. Men give me respect and say hello and talk to me more, some guys I catch checking me out. And females always tell me how good I look. But this is all new to me and it feels weird given that just a year ago I was fat and didn’t take care of myself physically. Anyway I say all that because I’m nervous to talk to this guy at my gym. He looks too damn good for him to want to talk to me, but he’s sooo friendly and that makes me think he’s approachable.

How can I get things started to develop a friendship with him? What exactly should I say?

naked pic honey are desired and a pic of your crush too xx