shallow or realistic?

[fldan1978]

I'm what most gays call a size Queen I don't want anything less than 6.5. is this shallow of me or just realistic?

 

[crushinonted]

Why can't it be both? I wouldn't worry about it; we're all shallow in some way. Just own it and don't let anyone give you grief for it.

I wouldn't classify a 6.5 minimum as being a size queen.

 

[AtomicMouse1950]

I'm a size queen and I try not to justify it to anyone. Everyone has a prejudices or preferences.

 

[Amaethon]

I think it's pretty shallow. There's so much more, vastly more, to a person than penis size.

 

[crushinonted]

I think it's pretty shallow. There's so much more, vastly more, to a person than penis size.

This coming from the guy who said the following in response to interracial attraction???

Not one wee little bit. I'm not even really attracted to non Northern/North Western Europeans to add on that.

 

[Amaethon]

This coming from the guy who said the following in response to interracial attraction???

What does phallus size have to do with race?

 

[crushinonted]

Absolutely nothing. You claim that it's shallow to base attraction on penis size, but basing it on race isn't? I would argue that race is the single most superficial aspect of a person.

 

[Amaethon]

Absolutely nothing. You claim that it's shallow to base attraction on penis size, but basing it on race isn't? I would argue that race is the single most superficial aspect of a person.

Race is linked to culture and identity whereas pebis size is just the length of a man's penis; nothing more.

 

[MisterSlave]

I don't know... Its what you like.. other people's judgements or whatever is their head trip. I have an issue (feeling) guys smaller than 5. I mean Yeah Ill give people a chance, if they take a shine to me. . regardless of size. but I tend not to go for guys under 7 really. . . Just depends. I have ability to take 12 Inches in circumfrence by 14 inches in depth. I (Hope) I might find a top, like that here some day. Although really really rare there are a few big-big endowed men. (someone's gotta take em).

 

[Trevor]

Who cares, people are sexually attracted to what they are sexually attracted to. Some gay men are only into guys with very large cocks, just like some straight men are only into women with very large breasts.

 

[crushinonted]

Race is linked to culture and identity whereas pebis size is just the length of a man's penis; nothing more.

Geographical location is usually linked to culture. Identity is whatever you choose it to be. Race is, more often than not, linked to appearance. Hair color, skin color, and other physical features are just that, nothing more.

 

[dong-in-khakis]

I'm glad I'm not a size queen, there is so much more enjoyment when you're not. I like big ones, but truly it's not an issue.

The guy is what makes the cock hot to me, but to each his own.

 

[Amaethon]

Geographical location is usually linked to culture. Identity is whatever you choose it to be. Race is, more often than not, linked to appearance. Hair color, skin color, and other physical features are just that, nothing more.

Race is linked to culture and identity whether you like it or not.

I agree completely with the last post. The guy really does make it hot.

 

[B_Smitten_Kitten]

I'm what most gays call a size Queen I don't want anything less than 6.5. is this shallow of me or just realistic?

if you expect someone to be above average, you better be above average too. if you're not, then you're shallow.

 

[Booty_Boy]

First of all, I assume when you say shallow you mean superficial: judging someone purely on their physical appearance. In that case, why do you think the other option is to be realistic? Is there some reason other than appearance that you've come up with the 6.5" rule?

More generally, if you're interested in the guy for who he is, as well as for his appearance, then you're not completely shallow.

Smitten Kitten's post above mine is interesting as well: does that mean if you're a very desirable person, you can't be shallow?

 

[AtomicMouse1950]

if you expect someone to be above average, you better be above average too. if you're not, then you're shallow.

I don't believe one "has to" go with the other. There are men who prefer petite women 5'2" and smaller. Some men adore tall women, but, they themselves are statistically shorter by comparison. So I disagree with you.

 

[B_gfandme]

You cant help what you prefer

 

[wantsbigger]

Personally, my view on it is that if you're just hooking up, or doing the sex-buddy thing, then it's not.

However, if you really like someone yet refuse to date this otherwise perfect person for you because they don't measure up, or find out later and break it off, maybe just a bit.

 

[ballaratboy]

I'm what most gays call a size Queen I don't want anything less than 6.5. is this shallow of me or just realistic?

Mate, you can be what you like.
Personally for me size of cock not that important.
I am into the guy as a rule attached to it.
Also like guys with hair, doesnt mean I am shallow
Enjoy what u like, i tend to also prefer thickness over length

 

[B_Smitten_Kitten]

I don't believe one "has to" go with the other. There are men who prefer petite women 5'2" and smaller. Some men adore tall women, but, they themselves are statistically shorter by comparison. So I disagree with you.

just don't be upset when someone you like rejects you because you're not their type. It's pretty much a two way street. if you're lucky enough to find such a partner then great, but respect others wishes the same way you want others to respect yours.