my gf back in highschool liked a good friend of mine, she admitted this to me after 2 years together. popular rumor that he was 9 inches (i didn't believe it at the time, was posative it was an exageration). she was a tiny girl with an amazing ass and he was black, making the image of them together all more exotic (and after the fact, a painful memory). i was interested, but very self conscious. and honestly, i thought i really lover her, didn't want to lose her that way. but i knew enough that saying NO would only increase her interest. she was growing more fond of the size aspect of our sex anyway. so we agreed to have some drinks to loosen up and try something. he was much larger and thicker than me, and had already slept with more girls than i had ever even shown interest in. his experience was obvious. i felt pretty shitty seeing him doing things to my girl that we only thought about, but seeing her in such comprmsng positions, her excitment and pleasure, and even the pain she expressed became a huge turn on. me and her broke up soon after, they had sex a few more times from what i heard. me and him stopped talking, we all grew apart. she had dated a string of well endowed men since.