Sharing / swinging

Was it a positive experience ?

  • Yes

    Votes: 33 94.3%
  • No

    Votes: 2 5.7%

  • Total voters
    35
Yes. Have been to a number of swing clubs. Honestly the nicest people ever. The first time we ever went everyone was naked (of course) at the pool. My girlfriend started riding my face as I was lying down in a lounge chair. I couldn't see but another woman came up out of the pool and told my girl that I had a really nice dick and asked if she could suck it. She got the nod and started going to town on it. Then another woman dropped down and started helping her. Then the first woman and her husband and us all fucked trading off. The cool thing was she was the one we had our eye on and obviously she felt the same way about us. It was fucking amazing. We were back every weekend after that. Everybody was so nice.
 
I haven't "shared" as she doesn't "belong" to me. But, we have an open marriage with boundaries. We define it as polyamorous. Whether it is a true one or just sugarcoating is yet to be seen.
I have not been in the same room with "them" as she doesn't like that. At least not in person.
But I have seen some of the boyfriends from a distance as if by coincidence. I do like the story afterwards and some media if it was possible.
I am working on being there or maybe joining them but that is a long road which needs patience.
I have the time.
 
my wife and I had the opportunity to mate swap twice with other couples. surprisingly, she actually considered it both times. after she turned the first one down, she told me "no other guy is gonna have a dick bigger than yours. I need that ". the second time, my wife said "no" because " she has wanted to fuck you for years." truth is I wanted to fuck the other gal also for years. turns out, she had her husband and 2 other guys fucking her during the course of a week.
after the second time, we decided swinging wasn't for us. more possible trouble than what is was worth, and our sex life was great. we fucked all the time. and the more we fucked the better it was and our desire increased.
 
I haven't "shared" as she doesn't "belong" to me. But, we have an open marriage with boundaries. We define it as polyamorous. Whether it is a true one or just sugarcoating is yet to be seen.
I have not been in the same room with "them" as she doesn't like that. At least not in person.
But I have seen some of the boyfriends from a distance as if by coincidence. I do like the story afterwards and some media if it was possible.
I am working on being there or maybe joining them but that is a long road which needs patience.
I have the time.

Do u know whether the other guys are bigger than u?
 
Don’t know, his cock is his, mine is mine, I know mine feels amazing inside my wife, and the visual stimulation of just watching her get fucked by another man is almost too much to handle, I’m usually fighting to not cum, but that’s pretty much every time I fuck her. And I hope she enjoyed his big cock, if not, then why are we doing this, we hotwife because I want her to have every sexual fantasy she has realized, and some of mine as well, for her. DP , sex with a BBC or 2, and blindfolded with several men, all in discussion and on the table, we can discuss these things because of our 20 years together and our trust in each other, it’s a beautiful, kinky, amazing place to be in life. Wouldn’t trade that girl for the world.
 
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My question is what it feel like if when you are ready to swap you realize the other husband has a dick much larger than yours?

Dunno, never had that problem. We did it a few times and I think we just got lucky with the right crowd. I've heard some horror stories, though, and it's only for the strongest relationships.
 
there is no option for a no, we haven't shared but the wife wants me to watch her get fucked. i definitely dont want to, she would disgust me after, i dont think it has nothing to do with trust or love. i dont know how other guys can handle it and even get pleasure out of that
 
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How do you find a couple to be the third? Never done anything like this but wouldn’t mind fucking a woman with someone watching.