Shooting or Slow Ooze

[curiousincanada]

Hey, first real thread asking a question here.

I noticed that many people talk about squirting when they jack off, I have only, ever, managed to do this once. I'm not sure what I did differently, if anything. Most of the time, when I cum, it almost appears as nothing has happened for a second, then, it begins sort of oozing out of the tip, and just drips down.

My question to you guys is, is there any way to increase the amount of times I squirt? Any techniques that work for you to make you have a more intense orgasm and squirt? And lastly, how many of you squirt, and how many sort of ooze?

 

[trentster]

For me it depends. If I haven't jacked off in a while, for me a couple of hours, and I stroke it for twenty minutes or so, I'll shoot. Usually I just get a quick ooze. Then again, I rarely go to long without cumming so that might be the factor.

 

[curiousincanada]

Ah, yeah, I tend to finish quickly, well, somewhat, not as long as some people on here can do it for, so that might be a bit if the issue. Any tips on lasting longer? And as well, the above questions. Thanks.

 

[trentster]

When it comes to masturbation, I don't see the reason to stay, unless you want that feeling, and if that's what you want, just edge.

 

[D_Brighton Early Morningwood]

edging!!
jerk till ur close then hold off and do it again for a while and u shoot heaps

well i dont ooze but i shoot more than i do it i dont edge

 

[D_Fiona_Farvel]

Have you tried kegeling at orgasm?

I had an ex that would normally shoot two long streams and then taper off to a dribble, but I preferred it oozing particularly for handjobs and oral, so he would hold back a bit.

It seems to me he would tense, and perhaps kegel to get the fountain effect, but not much tensing at all for the bubbling out look. :shrug:

 

[trentster]

I rarely like to shoot though. Gets everywhere and hard to clean up.

 

[D_Farmoure Dickthanyew]

I don't know what causes the difference. I've always been a shooter not an oozer. Doesn't matter if I jack off 5 times in one day, the load definitely gets smaller but it still shoots. And I rarely ever edge or take a long time. I don't think oozing is a bad thing though just how it happens for some people I guess.

 

[curiousincanada]

Hmm, it does seem that for some, it is the standard, and others can attain it with practice. I don't know if it's what I would want repeatedly, but, it was good the first time, think I'd like to at least experience it again.

I guess, I'll try a few of these and see where things go. I think, also, if i can perfect it, I might have to show some thank you with a video of it in action. Haha. I have to get more on here, and need to have more time to myself so to speak.

 

[Panda Bear]

I love to edge... but dont really like shooting even though thats all I do. Every time i cum, I always shoot.... Just cant seem to stop!

 

[2322]

Have you tried kegeling at orgasm?

I had an ex that would normally shoot two long streams and then taper off to a dribble, but I preferred it oozing particularly for handjobs and oral, so he would hold back a bit.

It seems to me he would tense, and perhaps kegel to get the fountain effect, but not much tensing at all for the bubbling out look. :shrug:

The muscles used during ejaculation are the same ones that are used when kegeling. So when a man ejaculates, he's actually kegeling. There's no choice in it, you just do it. :smile:

Which is why..... if you want to shoot, kegel! Kegel in the day, kegel in the night, Kegel frequently and kegel until you can't kegel no more! You can even try weighted kegeling by hanging a towel off your erection.

Seriously though, kegeling will get you to shooting within a few weeks to a month, depending on how dedicated you are with them. Shooting adds a certain frisson to the ejaculation experience that oozing just doesn't get you.

 

[svin_renigoth]

Yeah, I think it's just some men naturally shoot off, some don't. You can try kegeling to work the right muscles. I've always shot, even if I don't masturbate for very long. Of course, the longer I do jerk it, the more distance I shoot, and the thinner my semen is. And, personally, I've always preferred to shoot with more power; I just feel more satisfied. There should be a lot of kegel guides on this forum, if you search for them. Anything about kegels or pc muscle exercises. Good luck!

 

[BlackCock85]

I find if I'm watching a really good porno that really turns me on and I jerk it with some nice lube for 1hr I shoot like a maniac. I've been shooting so crazy lately, totally miss the tissue and it goes somewhere...never can quite find it all but it's hot as hell when I squirt everywhere, but heavy spurts of cum.

 

[adam]

I am always a shooter, not depend on my mood or cum amount, however,I have no skill for shooting, inevitalbly it happens to me. Oten it is really bothersome for cleaning up. jacking-off lying on the bed usually makes the headboard get messy and the wall stained.
Pesonally, If you can have awesome orgasm, oozing is better than shooting. I think your cleaning is much easier than mine.

 

[D_Rock_ N_Hardon]

don't come for about a week then have a slow wank.

you'll shoot everywhere

 

[ohhhey]

For me it depends on how turned on I am. If something really does it for me, that's when it starts going over my shoulder. Also the position I'm in changes things, e.g. lying down or standing up.

 

[curiousincanada]

I tend to lay down on my bed, and just, sort of, I guess it's over fairly quickly, I guess, next time, I'll find something that gets me extremely hard, and just, got at it for as long as possible, hold off, do some more, and see where that goes. Who knows, maybe I'll try to shoot in my mouth and taste my own cum, as that's what I was hoping to get out of this. It sucks that every time I cum and it oozes, I back out right away.

 

[dc9]

For me it was a few factors that had changed me from a shooter to an oozer back to a shooter.

1.) I was eating quite a bit of products with soy. This I found out was effecting me.
2.) I've got a new lover and things get quite intense and I know shoot again like before.

 

[SyddyKitty]

The best aid in shooting is a mildly restrictive cock ring, seriously. The natural way would be Kegels, I suppose. I've not had any benefit from doing these regularly.

I tend to shoot when my cum is really thin and I've edged. I normally spurt a bit then dribble the rest (my favorite because it feels best to me). When my cum is thick and really white (ew, I hate when it gets that way) is oozes out.

 

[conntom]

I shoot, I ooze....it depends.

Excitement, time since last orgasm, partner(if present can make a difference)... but yea, I think it is just different for everyone