Size Comments Vs No Comment

[Incocknito]

Has anyone ever NOT had anyone comment on their size? How common would you say it is that someone would not comment on your size.

And how do you feel about someone NOT explicitly commenting on your size?

 

[atlas23]

I think no comment= bad impression

 

[B_ILIW]

I wouldn't care, since I don't need compliments to boost my ego. I don't generally expect people to go out of their way to make me feel comfortable, everybody has their own ends in life.

Either they noticed and didn't bother to say, or didn't notice and didn't care to say lol..

 

[PerfectlySexy]

It's been pretty common for me. I've had a number of women make a comment about my size after, sometimes long after, we had been dating. I have usually asked them why they didn't comment while we were together and there has been a pretty consistent response to the tune of, "I figured you heard that stuff all the time and I didn't want you to think I was interested in you just for your dick." I've never been bothered by it, there are far more important things to be paying attention to. Though I'd say it did contribute to my thinking of myself as average for a long time.

 

[Bob Ross]

I've had pretty much the same experiences as ILIW and Perfectlysexy in that both; I don't need such comments to feel good about myself and in that the only comment I ever got about it was after-the-fact.

I wouldn't say it upsets me but it would be nice to get a compliment some day. Particularly as I always try to compliment my lady-friends' lady parts.

 

[wallyj84]

I prefer no comment.

Mind you, that's because I'm small, so when I get a comment it is something like, "Oh, you're small."

 

[Ramsey]

Part of me agrees with Atlas, it may seem like a bad impression. But I will be honest and confess that I have some insecurities and my confidence has been beaten into submission.

 

[art]

My experience has been that the drunker they are, the more likely they are to comment. Straight/sober, they just want to fuck.

 

[Incocknito]

My experience has been that the drunker they are, the more likely they are to comment. Straight/sober, they just want to fuck.

Good point.

And its not always a bad impression that makes girls not comment. Most sober girls (at least the ones I have sex with) have modesty and/or some reservations about complimenting someone's cock.

I think for some women its still a bit taboo or "bad" to tell a guy he's big.

Anyway, personally I do prefer a comment but I won't say no to a girl who doesn't compliment my cock .

Sometimes, puddles are better than words.

 

[Bob Ross]

Sometimes, puddles are better than words.

LOL. Right on

 

[PerfectlySexy]

Sometimes, puddles are better than words.

What do you mean "sometimes"? I always prefer my compliments in puddle form over words.

 

[RJREAL1]

I like getting comments whenever possible! That's probally because I've been married for a long time and anyone else's comments excite me.LOL

 

[dylz]

yes, there have been times when the other guy didnt comment on it (usually when the guy was a top who doesnt really care about dick), or they said "nice dick" without explicitly saying it was big. i actually dont care at all when they dont say anything, though if they do it is also nice.

 

[woodyq]

It's been pretty common for me. I've had a number of women make a comment about my size after, sometimes long after, we had been dating. I have usually asked them why they didn't comment while we were together and there has been a pretty consistent response to the tune of, "I figured you heard that stuff all the time and I didn't want you to think I was interested in you just for your dick." I've never been bothered by it, there are far more important things to be paying attention to. Though I'd say it did contribute to my thinking of myself as average for a long time.

same here had sex with girls who did not comment and i assumed they were unimpressed. then later in dating or in one case after we broke up she said thta was 1 thing she liked about me.

my most recent said nothing then the next am said she was a bit sore

 

[crossy]

Usually I get a comment like "Crossy is it in yet?"

 

[cutedorkwho]

I will say I do prefer the compliments or at least comments, but it seems 90% of girls just want to get down to business with it! (Which is also fine )

I think some girls I've been with were just too shy "talk dirty", that, or I have a tiny dick! lol

 

[Ramsey]

I will say I do prefer the compliments or at least comments, but it seems 90% of girls just want to get down to business with it! (Which is also fine )

I think some girls I've been with were just too shy "talk dirty", that, or I have a tiny dick! lol

That there is hardly little young'n.

 

[dlfellow]

sometimes the no comment is the comment..just the glance or the face the woman makes is enough.

 

[Stephenmass]

CDW you have a great dick! Sometimes when I get with someone, I may think to myself damn that's a big dick....he'll know by my response to him just how big it is, even if I don't say so.

I will say I do prefer the compliments or at least comments, but it seems 90% of girls just want to get down to business with it! (Which is also fine )

I think some girls I've been with were just too shy "talk dirty", that, or I have a tiny dick! lol

 

[Tasardur]

I must admit that I egotistically 'like' the comments on my size - whether it be surprise, shock or pleasure, whether it be verbal, visual or both.

Most of those previously use to 'average' don't seem to be able to stop themselves, it's usually the first thing they comment on.

Only once have I had no comment and based on my other experiences it did surprise/bother me.
She was a 32 year old widow and before me she had only been with her husband, who she eventually told me was almost exactly the same size as me - she thought all erections were around that size, so hadn't reacted to it or thought it worth mentioning.





Just once (out of approx 57) did I get no comment and it did rather surprise me