Size Queens: Explain Yourself!

My third sex partner ever was a thick 8 and a half inch cock. He commented how impressed he was at how easily I took him and told me I was a natural at being a bottom. I just saw his huge cock and wanted it in me. At no point did it occur to me I might not be able to take him. Only after did I learn that most guys have difficulty taking large cocks--especially thickness; a lesson I have long since learned about my own fat piece of meat, as it is too thick for many guys to take at all. One thing I have consistently heard from large hung guys is that people can't take them, or they can't take them for more than a few minutes if they do or they can't cut loose and really plow an ass because the bottom can't take it. And they have all enjoyed fucking me because I can take it. Aside from how great having something huge in me feels, I also get off on the rush of knowing I was taking a guy and satisfying him on a level most can't--and I have had some stallion sized humans drilling me. Getting to take guys like that while others watch in a sex club (I can hear their comments as they take in the sight) or in a porn film never gets old and always feels amazing.
I want you to plow me, please.
 
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Let me preface by saying that I all dicks are valid. That’s something I firmly believe. Whatever you’ve got going on down there, there’s someone who will be immensely turned on by it.

When it comes to dating, I don’t care in the slightest what your size is. I’m non-monogamous and I’ve only ever dated people who are the same. I have had fun with dicks of all sizes.

However, there is a specific mindset I find myself in a lot in which I crave big cock. I love it. It’s amazing. I love feeling how deep a big cock can go. I love feeling like a slut when I get filled up. I love feeling like a talented bottom.

As such, I’m kind of a size queen in that regard.
 
Mine is the only penis that Mrs. Shackleford has ever had inside her. When we first started fooling around, she dropped a few comments here & there indicating some...shall we say intrigue towards my size.

Our first few times having intercourse (or attempting to, as the case may be) we pretty miserable, to be honest. She later told me it took a couple months for her to really get used to it.

Probably about a year in, she measured me for the first time. She’d joked about it numerous times before, but I kinda had to egg her into finally doing it. She measured my length, and I thought we were done and sat down to resume watching TV. Next thing I know, she’s coming at me like she’s on a mission and wrapping the measuring tape around my cock, saying, “This is what I want to see. It’s the thickness that feels so good in my pussy!”

I realize my wife is going to be a fan of what I have simply because it’s mine, but a woman with no frame of reference unsolicitedly (and enthusiastically) stating she loves girth is a pretty strong testimonial on the matter.
Similar to me and an ex gf. Difference being my ex had other men prior to me. First time having sex I wasn't able to fit inside her so she just slide along my shaft. After a couple attempts we were able to start having sex but she would be sore for a few days after every time. Even after a year she still never adjusted, she had a medical issue, and it led to our breakup. She did keep saying how I was her biggest and admitted she needed smaller girth.

Wish I could have talked her into a poly relationship or swinging because she was my first true love
 
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I am very thick and lot of guys can't take me, but i am happy to try mounting you. My own ass can take anything.
I still want you to plow me. I haven't found one too big yet. It takes some time and lube but I love getting streeeetccchhhed open.
 
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I still want you to plow me. I haven't found one too big yet. It takes some time and lube but I love getting streeeetccchhhed open.
if that's the case, wait til you try fisting. That's a whole elevated level of ecstasy.
 
I'd never let penis size be an important factor in a relationship (maybe that doesn't make me a true "size queen") but I do love a big one ;)

I kind of look at sex as a workout: I like pushing my limits when we're having sex both mentally and physically..
Length makes more positions possible (or practical) and girth really increases the intensity :sweat::heart_eyes:
I probably said this before, but I like your viewpoint. You explain the benefits yet differences between length & girth.
 
Whether gay, bi, or hetero female....if you kind of consider yourself a size queen...why? Why does a large penis seem to be so important in either your sexual or relationship decisions? No judgment...just curious!
I've never been with a guy, but cocks as big or bigger than mine have always turned me on.

I'd love to explore that side of my sexuality, and would def be a size queen.

I can't explain why that is, I just find a huge cock incredibly sexy. Even my own big cock turns me on sometimes!
 
My wife was a virgin when we met. She admitted to me that she always had a fascination with penis size. I guess kind of the way young guys do when they see a big pair of boobs. Even if they never played with them, most young guys are still attracted to them. I think also part of it was taboo for her. With her culture and background, sex is not a often talked about subject. Me being more experienced in the bedroom knew after I penetrated her the very first time that she would probably need something at least longer. She asked me to push it in deeper when I was already all the way in. She told me it doesn’t feel like it’s in all the way. I started adding fingers when fingering her and noticed VERY positive body language and sounds coming from her. Eventually buying her toys and learning that she LOVED feeling full and being stretched. It’s just like some people hate certain flavors of food, while another person loves it. Some women love the feeling of being stretched. I actually introduced the term “size queen” to her, she had never heard it, and when I explained it to her, she said “yea, I’m DEFINITELY a size queen then!” She loves how when we get her thicker and thicker toys, that she is able to eventually take it with ease. It’s also a mental thing for her, she feels some sort of accomplishment by being able conquer something so big, something most women never will (those are my words, not hers). Also she said that she loves the visual appearance of a big cock. She said it seems so strong and masculine and it excites her to see.
I agree with this.

My GF took ages to admit she was a size queen, and once she had admitted it she now talks more openly. We sometimes look at HUGE guys online together, and she gets really horny.
 
Speaking as one, who has been desired and prized by size queens, I believe that a desire for size, like looks, height or muscles, goes back to basic anthropological need to seek out a strong partner for reproduction and survival of the human species.

Boring, yes...

Truthful, likely
 
I agree with this.

My GF took ages to admit she was a size queen, and once she had admitted it she now talks more openly. We sometimes look at HUGE guys online together, and she gets really horny.
Same with my wife. We had been married a few years when she finally admitted that a big one turned her on. I am average sized but her admission really got me excited. We also watch porn together at times and she gets turned on if the guy is well hung.
 
At the end of the day maybe we would all be better off if we just acknowledged the fact that a big penis is one of nature's marvelous gifts to enjoy either as an owner or an admirer. Which also doesn't mean that those of us with average or smaller penises have to be resentful or jealous; or diminished as an attractive and valued human being.
 
Bigger dicks are just part of the package deal of superior attributes, if you will.

An 8” is just so much fun. Sucking it, looking at it, playing with it. Also, it makes it soooo much easier to suck it from behind because it’s long enough to reach around.

I’ve never have trouble finding a big one; didn’t have to ever search far.
 
I was always afraid to bottom for a guy who was really hung. When I finally got the courage to give it a try....I was shocked to the core. It was like nothing I’d ever experienced. He went so deep that I saw colors. All the sensations were magnified.

After being boned by a truly huge cock, it ruined me for smaller guys. They just can’t match the power and intensity of a big dick.
 
I am an almost exclusive top, but have a strong attraction to thin, hung guys. Maybe the "fetish" goes back to my HS days and this one friend. Nobody really liked him except me. He was small, skinny and average looks, but he was a nice kid, at least in my opinion, but we were not really good friends until Junior year HS, when I got my first car.

He did not own a car, so I was always going to his place to give him a ride. Over time, more and more he found excuse to go back to his room to change pants, or he was getting dressed when I arrived. He flashed his package, which I enjoyed, but at this point it was not anything spectacular. This went on and, but I really don't remember realizing he was hung.

This got a little weirder because he was hung up on his sexuality, but ultimately, one day we were driving around and he asked me for BJ -- his first sexually contact with anyone, ever. No too long after that, we had a J/O session and a ruler was handy -- 7 3/4 x 5.5, and on a 5' 8" 130 pound guy, it looked really impressive.

In a crowd, he would never stand out. He was an average student. A follow, not a leader. But me knowing he was hanging a near 8 inch cock was both a turn on, and a jealousy.

Other than these few other instances with me, he did not have sex with anyone else until he was 23. I lost contact with him after College (more like a breakup), and for a while a mutual friend stayed in contact for a few years and met his future wife.

My guess is that he has not had sex with more than 5 people in his life. In some ways, its a shame that more did not see it.

Other than his cock, my memory of him would probably just be that of a good friend that I lost contact with.

So, while I am not exclusively attracted to big cocks, a skinny guy with a big dick is a huge turn-on for me.
 
From reading these posts, it is also clear that a societal double standard exists here, brought on, in part, by pervasive puritan values.

While it is considered wholly acceptable to be attracted to a man for his intelligence, physical build or looks, it is considered to be a tabu to be attracted to a man for the size of his penis.
 
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