Size vs. Aesthetic

[Bigaf]

Hey guys and girls. I'd like to start a discussion here. Is size really all that matters for you or do you also take the aesthetic of the cock in consideration when you're with someone?
I mean, would you still be into it if the cock was big but not so aesthetic pleasing? Do you not take the "beautifulness" in consideration just because the cock is big? Or would you turn down a hung guy simply because you didn't like the cock?

As a mostly gay guy I do take the aesthetic of the cock in consideration, even if it's not big. I really have to be attracted to a dick to suck it, regardless of the size...

I wanna hear your opinions!

 

[michael_3165]

Oh god a cock has to be pretty and uncut otherwise I've little interest. I don't want a cock that looks horrific and much prefer average and hot than big and not.

 

[Bigaf]

Oh god a cock has to be pretty and uncut otherwise I've little interest. I don't want a cock that looks horrific and much prefer average and hot than big and not.

I feel like you just described how I feel about giant but ugly penises... good for nothing

 

[JiaFei_Dai]

Genitals are pretty low on my list of things to consider.
But I totally agree that looks are more important than size.
Personality is the most important, but not a priority.
Face is the highest priority, followed by figure, then personality, but if the personality is terrible, I won't consider the first two even if they score high.
If all three of the above pass my criteria, then that means I should like the guy quite a bit, and if he likes me enough too, then his dick size will no longer matter, and I can accompany him in exploring ways of having sex that are appropriate for his size and comfortable for each other.
But if the cock looks too weird ...... I might actually back off. But there would be very few people whose dick appearance could get to the point of weirdness. So it's okay.
(all of the above will be completely null and void if the hygiene is too poor or if there are STDs)

 

[Aphradight]

Aesthetics are very big important part of why I like a cock. Size is really nice and it’s definitely an attention getter. But it’s the person the cock is attached to that is the most important

 

[gavlenils]

What if you think that big is sexy. For me, the bigger the more aesthetic.
Sorry for being so shallow

 

[adoniscubano]

For a while I had troubles getting hard with some guys. At first I thought it was about the lack of chemistry and I used to really try hard to please the other guy, trying to “look good and perform so I wouldn’t hurt the other guy’s feeling by rejecting him” Then I realized that 99% of the times it was because even through I was physically attracted to the guy persona, sexually I was turned off by circumcised men. The view of a cut dick to me it’s not appealing at all. I always look at a cut dick as a sloppy butcher job that left unwanted and unnecessary scars.
So yeah the look is important. Also I find it not appealing guys who pump their cock and then it looks like an amorphous thing.
In other words, uncut natural cocks with natural pubic hairs I find them the most attractive.

 

[thebedwizard93]

Aesthetics are a big consideration when it comes to which cocks I like. They have to look good, even if it’s just average size. I will look past some of the looks of a cock if it’s larger but I’d prefer it to be pretty.

 

[thebedwizard93]

Aesthetics are very big important part of why I like a cock. Size is really nice and it’s definitely an attention getter. But it’s the person the cock is attached to that is the most important

Same here. Haha I just said this but I should have scrolled up first!

 

[Natennnnate]

Big is beautiful in many senses, but big ugly cocks do exist too as the OP said. So I think that means aesthetics are obviously important. To have a big cock in front of you but be displeased - that’s aesthetics talking. Or perhaps it’s performance / cock personality issues.
This is the third factor involved! Needed when falling for a nice cock for sure - cock personality is what a cock does and how it reacts to worship sessions. Sure, a big size might immediately score big points in cock personality - but here is always where foreskin comes in, vascularity traits, growing/showing, how moist it gets (too much, too little, just right?) and how the performance of the cock connects to the human up there. Very many things really!
So big is beautiful, but looks matter (and that appreciation can certainly change with time - growing to love it… maybe because you realize it feels so good, so when you look at it, it looks handsome to you haha). And let’s not forget cock personality/performance too!

 

[Belowthebelt92]

Depends on what is ugly I suppose I would happily drop some aesthetics to have a much bigger cock I have a big dock already and it looks pretty good but I’d drop all that in a second to be bigger size trumps all to me

 

[Big_a_20]

Aesthetics all the way but glad I have both haha

 

[Lilbetauselessclit]

Hey guys and girls. I'd like to start a discussion here. Is size really all that matters for you or do you also take the aesthetic of the cock in consideration when you're with someone?
I mean, would you still be into it if the cock was big but not so aesthetic pleasing? Do you not take the "beautifulness" in consideration just because the cock is big? Or would you turn down a hung guy simply because you didn't like the cock?

As a mostly gay guy I do take the aesthetic of the cock in consideration, even if it's not big. I really have to be attracted to a dick to suck it, regardless of the size...

I wanna hear your opinions!

Oh yeah I can't suck a dick I think is ugly

 

[Bddlover]

I have a thing for big ugly cocks

 

[Scott8361]

I appreciate an attractive cock, but size is something that I find VERY attractive!

That said, I have found that beautiful smaller cocks make ne so hungry to orally pleasure them. I prefer well groomed, shaved balls, and clean.

 

[kahlua123]

My wife thinks my pumped cock is ugly, but she prefers to fuck it over my unpumped cock, so I guess size trumps aesthetics to her. By a lot, it seems.

 

[boycut92]

In my opinion, aesthetic matters a lot. I tend to pay much attention to how a cock looks, maybe to an extent that it is more important than size. I love big cocks, but a big and beautiful cock is simply amazing. Little dicks sometimes are even more beautiful, and they look so adorable.
Another visual factor to take into account is the appearance of size. Some average or slightly above average dicks look big, while some actually big cocks look smaller than they are. Length to girth ratio can also cause that (thick cocks look shorter, thin cocks look longer), and foreskin too (uncut cocks with short foreskin usually look bigger to me than cut cocks).

 

[nebulousreversalcontrol]

Hey guys and girls. I'd like to start a discussion here. Is size really all that matters for you or do you also take the aesthetic of the cock in consideration when you're with someone?
I mean, would you still be into it if the cock was big but not so aesthetic pleasing? Do you not take the "beautifulness" in consideration just because the cock is big? Or would you turn down a hung guy simply because you didn't like the cock?

As a mostly gay guy I do take the aesthetic of the cock in consideration, even if it's not big. I really have to be attracted to a dick to suck it, regardless of the size...

I wanna hear your opinions!

Here's my take: size matters, but size does not matter most. At least when we're talking about prostate orgasms. But of course if the penis is too large then it won't fit. I have yet to find a penis that is too large for either my mouth or ass, but one must assume there's a limit beyond a certain size but that seems extremely rare. The challenge of being stretched open in one's throat or ass is part of the thrill in my case.

After this digression I want to underline the most important aspect of a penis, which is the shape. If a penis is pyramidal in shape, it will stretch you out the deeper it goes, without it feeling like it's reaching your prostate. I consider this not the best shape. If the penis is wider at the top than at the base, it will feel like it's filling the whole of your anal cavity and produce an incredible prostate orgasm. A long, thin penis can penetrate you very deeply and has its own charm. A small-to-average penis will often cause the most discomfort because it penetrates you without fully stretching your ass, which is like a tug of war between giver and recipient. A penis that curves downward is best for oral sex.

I have no idea what an aesthetic penis is to be honest, my judgement is based entirely on experience and the sensation of a penis rather than visual cues. Penises that remind me of these sensations are interpreted subconsciously as aesthetic, in other words. Scar tissue from infections, circumcision or other damage to the penis is not ideal, but does not disqualify a penis from giving pleasure. If anything it limits the amount of pleasure the top can experience. In general though more foreskin is better because it acts as a natural lubricant or buffer between the ass and tip of the penis, allowing the penis to slide in and out without discomfort. This is all based on my personal experience with bottoming and is not a universal rule so take it with a grain of salt.

 

[lapdog2001]

As a straight man who is only interested in women, the best way I can answer your questions is to relate what women have told me about my own penis, and others that they have encountered.

First, my own experience: All of the women who have 'interacted' with my erect penis have complimented me on its size, as at 7" by 6" it is larger and definitely thicker than average. Most of those same women have mentioned it as being 'perfect' sized, as it was among the largest that they had experienced but not too large to cause any issues or pain (lube helps!) My erect penis is almost totally straight and has a uniform thickness for most of the length of the shaft, with a larger taper at the base, and a smaller taper to the head. So, aesthetically, it is a good looking penis, per the women who have seen it.

None of the women I've been with knew ahead of time what they were going to encounter until they had already decided to be sexual with me, and none of them backed away or jumped up and down with glee once they had their hands (literally) on my erect penis. Also, while they certainly have expressed that they enjoyed being 'filled up' by my penis, I've gotten more compliments on how I make love and utilize what I have than comments on the size alone.

In discussions with women I've had in person and on forums like this (yes, there are actual real women here on LPSG) the first thing they will tell you is that their decision to have sex with a man occurs before they they really know the size, shape, or aesthetic appeal of the man's erect penis. By far, the vast majority of women don't care about the size of the penis of them man they are with, unless it falls into the extremes of size, or is curved in a way that makes intercourse difficult.

 

[Murphys]

As a straight man who is only interested in women, the best way I can answer your questions is to relate what women have told me about my own penis, and others that they have encountered.

First, my own experience: All of the women who have 'interacted' with my erect penis have complimented me on its size, as at 7" by 6" it is larger and definitely thicker than average. Most of those same women have mentioned it as being 'perfect' sized, as it was among the largest that they had experienced but not too large to cause any issues or pain (lube helps!) My erect penis is almost totally straight and has a uniform thickness for most of the length of the shaft, with a larger taper at the base, and a smaller taper to the head. So, aesthetically, it is a good looking penis, per the women who have seen it.

None of the women I've been with knew ahead of time what they were going to encounter until they had already decided to be sexual with me, and none of them backed away or jumped up and down with glee once they had their hands (literally) on my erect penis. Also, while they certainly have expressed that they enjoyed being 'filled up' by my penis, I've gotten more compliments on how I make love and utilize what I have than comments on the size alone.

In discussions with women I've had in person and on forums like this (yes, there are actual real women here on LPSG) the first thing they will tell you is that their decision to have sex with a man occurs before they they really know the size, shape, or aesthetic appeal of the man's erect penis. By far, the vast majority of women don't care about the size of the penis of them man they are with, unless it falls into the extremes of size, or is curved in a way that makes intercourse difficult.

^^This^^ As per usual, another great post by @lapdog2001. I think he pretty much hits the nail on the head. Being like him - straight and of the same size - I concur with what he said.