Soooo...

[deleted4500261]

So, 2 questions.

1) If you could post one piece of advice for the male members of LPSG, what would it be?

2) What would one thing you would love for the male members to stop doing on LPSG?

I also wanted to give a big “thank you” to @EllieP @Scarletbegonia @TinyPrincess @MickeyLee @Tight_N_Juicy @LaFemme and all of the other amazing women on LPSG. Your resilience, tolerance, humor and intelligence does not go unnoticed or unappreciated by me. For me, you bring out the best in LPSG. (I imagine I will be called an ass kisser, white knight, suck up, cuck, simp or whatever for this but, I don’t give a feck).

 

[1277255]

1) Nobody cares about your dick other than you. The thirst is real here, but is not a reflection of anyone's desire or lack of for you. Stop using it as a litmus test for your self worth.

2) That is a much longer list than one thing.

-Don't dm us with your D pick, ever.
- Don't ask questions here in this section for validation, we aren't here for that.
- Stop asking us questions and then getting pissed calling us liars when we don't give you the answer you came here for.

The list can go on, those are my tops.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

1. Remember that not everyone here is here for the same reason you may or may not be.

2. Stop starting threads asking questions in Ask A Straight Man about women because you're too scared to hear the truth.

 

[deleted4500261]

So, 2 questions.

1) If you could post one piece of advice for the male members of LPSG, what would it be?

2) What would one thing you would love for the male members to stop doing on LPSG?

I also wanted to give a big “thank you” to @EllieP @Scarletbegonia @TinyPrincess @MickeyLee @Tight_N_Juicy and all of the other amazing women on LPSG. Your resilience, tolerance, humor and intelligence does not go unnoticed or unappreciated by me. For me, you bring out the best in LPSG. (I imagine I will be called an ass kisser, white knight, suck up, cuck, simp or whatever for this but, I don’t give a feck).

How could I forget @LaFemme?

 

[Scarletbegonia]

1 Porn isn’t real. Everyone is paid to act in whatever way the director wants. Screen Cum is a mix of 50/50 cornstarch and water, btw.

for number 2, I’d like to make it positive: believe what you hear, here.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Good question pair, @Penisart4u

 

[TinyPrincess]

1. Embrace your inner personality with all its flaws

2. Stop acting - just be yourself

 

[deleted4500261]

I love these. Thank you.

 

[EllieP]

1. If you're with me then stop worrying about anyone else. I chose you, and the reasons shouldn't concern you. They're my reasons. You made it. Be happy!

2. Asking the same questions over and over and over. I answered most of them in my blog: Why I joined LPSG | LPSG.

 

[EllieP]

Oh oh oh, back to No. 2!

Don't tell us we gave you the wrong answer. Just because you don't agree with our opinion doesn't mean that yours trumps ours. We have nothing to gain by telling something that's not true. We're being honest. Trust me on that.

You asked us. You should listen to what we're saying. Yes, it sometimes doesn't agree with your narrative. That means one of us might be wrong.

 

[LaFemme]

How could I forget @LaFemme?

I just assumed I was included when you said “all other amazing women”.

1. I’d like men to know that women are just people. Likes, dislikes, quirks. Some women like to be dominated, some like to dominate. But we don’t need to be conquered. We are people.

2. I wish men would stop assuming what we want and why we’re here. Stop speaking for me, and worse calling me a liar.

 

[deleted4500261]

I just assumed I was included when you said “all other amazing women”.

1. I’d like men to know that women are just people. Likes, dislikes, quirks. Some women like to be dominated, some like to dominate. But we don’t need to be conquered. We are people.

2. I wish men would stop assuming what we want and why we’re here. Stop speaking for me, and worse calling me a liar.

My apologies for that. I had a brain fart.
Thank you for taking the time to answer.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

I have to admit, one bitchy/whiny poster called me airy fairy.
I am not. I’m a whilelightgirl.I own my new agey woo.

so, maybe stop categorizing people you barely interact with.
(And this was in safe space)

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

Another suggestion to the men: stop taking out your anger on the women in this section because you have issues with the women in your personal life.

All you're accomplishing is widening the divide between you and any potential connection with a woman in the future.

Maybe instead of piss and moan to a bunch of strangers about your frustrations, take that energy and work on YOU.

 

[EllieP]

Oh pick me again! I got another one! The ever amazing @LaFemme reminded me:

No. 1. There is no such thing as a league. And we are not out of yours. This angers me to no end! I know I've missed some pretty amazing relationships because I was placed in an imaginary league. What that actually resulted in was a hard period of self doubt and horrible self esteem. Ironically, I thought I wasn't good enough for everyone else.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Oh pick me again! I got another one! The ever amazing @LaFemme reminded me:

No. 1. There is no such thing as a league. And we are not out of yours. This angers me to no end! I know I've missed some pretty amazing relationships because I was placed in an imaginary league. What that actually resulted in was a hard period of self doubt and horrible self esteem. Ironically, I thought I wasn't good enough for everyone else.

Truth.
Add marrying up/down.

 

[deleted4500261]

I have to admit, one bitchy/whiny poster called me airy fairy.
I am not. I’m a whilelightgirl.I own my new agey woo.

so, maybe stop categorizing people you barely interact with.
(And this was in safe space)

So name calling is a plus?

 

[deleted4500261]

Another suggestion to the men: stop taking out your anger on the women in this section because you have issues with the women in your personal life.

All you're accomplishing is widening the divide between you and any potential connection with a woman in the future.

Maybe instead of piss and moan to a bunch of strangers about your frustrations, take that energy and work on YOU.

This is so on the nose. If a behavior isn’t getting the desired effect by all means do it even more and worse.

 

[deleted4500261]

Oh pick me again! I got another one! The ever amazing @LaFemme reminded me:

No. 1. There is no such thing as a league. And we are not out of yours. This angers me to no end! I know I've missed some pretty amazing relationships because I was placed in an imaginary league. What that actually resulted in was a hard period of self doubt and horrible self esteem. Ironically, I thought I wasn't good enough for everyone else.

I used to have this mentality when I was younger. I thought people were out of my league. I remember reading an interview with a supermodel in the 80s (she wasn’t in her 80s, it the 1980s...nice try @Scarletbegonia Although she may be in her 80s now.) and she mentioned that she almost never got hit on because men always assumed she was dating someone (how could someone attractive be single...come on!) or they were intimidated by her. I have seen some of my female friends do that as well with men and think they were “out of their league”. I agree, no such things.

 

[deleted4500261]

Don’t limit yourself to just two answers. Go for it. Those were the questions I happened to think of but if there are things you want to say...please, the floor is yours.