Speedo Try On Experience

[speedoswimmer]

Me and a bodybuilding friend were trying on speedos at my place and he got hard and then I got hard and we both felt each other in the speedos. He rubbed mine a lot and ended up jerking me off. After this things got awkward. He stopped responding to my messages and when I see him at the gym he completely ignores me and even goes out of his way so we don’t meet enough to chat. What happened?

 

[prepstudinsc]

He's freaked out, give him some space and some time to come to terms with what he did.

 

[Squirrel1]

Maybe his is pissed off because he jerked you off but you didn’t jerk him off.

 

[fireman1294]

Who ended up having the bigger dick? If his was the smaller one then that will also be part of his freak out

 

[Mike hung]

Speedos aren't for me, my cock is thick and my balls are big, some always escapes or the pouch just doesn't cover.

 

[speedoswimmer]

Maybe his is pissed off because he jerked you off but you didn’t jerk him off.

I offered but he said only he can get himself off.

 

[speedoswimmer]

Who ended up having the bigger dick? If his was the smaller one then that will also be part of his freak out

Mine is a bit bigger. Do you think he liked it and was jealous?

 

[fireman1294]

Mine is a bit bigger. Do you think he liked it and was jealous?

It could be both. Jealous of your large size, and the liking it part was the shock to his system that he’s trying to work out in his head. It’s still masculine to admire a bigger cock, but most guys don’t realize it understand this and they equate it to being gay. Then that takes them down another rabbit hole they have to workout in their head.
Congrats your friend is being normal, now you need to be understanding about it.

 

[purepilot73]

Wait until he’s with a group at the gym, then go up to him and ask why he won’t speak to you with your clothes on.

 

[hzs3fg]

More than likely, he is simply freaked out by the clearly gay experience. You identify as straight; I presume he does as well.

Give him time and space. He might get over it, he might not.

 

[deleted1025121]

Mine is a bit bigger. Do you think he liked it and was jealous?

I think he probably saw you were bigger and then that combined with doing something he perceives as "gay" just freaked him out. Give him some space and in a few weeks just ask to meet up to do a bro thing like grab some beers at a sports bar or pizza place or something. Just make it clear to him you dont think of him differently cause of the situation.

 

[speedoswimmer]

He mentioned to me that he is out to some of his friends but only a small number. Maybe he realized he isn’t gay at all?

 

[hzs3fg]

He mentioned to me that he is out to some of his friends but only a small number. Maybe he realized he isn’t gay at all?

Or, maybe he feels guilty for going too far with you - a man who purports to be 90% straight.

 

[speedoswimmer]

Or, maybe he feels guilty for going too far with you - a man who purports to be 90% straight.

That’s true. We were just supposed to try on speedos. He did seem to get quite turned on by that though.

 

[lowhangers]

Me and a bodybuilding friend were trying on speedos at my place and he got hard and then I got hard and we both felt each other in the speedos. He rubbed mine a lot and ended up jerking me off. After this things got awkward. He stopped responding to my messages and when I see him at the gym he completely ignores me and even goes out of his way so we don’t meet enough to chat. What happened?

You likes woman and man 10%. He is maybe in skock off his gay experience.

 

[CUBE]

Do you have his number to text? I’d give some distance and then just try to say hi. He’s just embarrassed.

 

[Zyz]

That’s true. We were just supposed to try on speedos. He did seem to get quite turned on by that though.

Are you in Aus?

 

[speedoswimmer]

Are you in Aus?

Canada

 

[wallyj84]

I think he's intimidated by your big dick. The reveal of your big dick has totally changed the power dynamics of the relationship. Irreversibly so.

 

[deleted875903]

He mentioned to me that he is out to some of his friends but only a small number. Maybe he realized he isn’t gay at all?

Hmmm he mentions to some of his friends including you that he is out. He’s at your place trying on speedos and gets a hardon which causes you to get a hardon.

You both play with each other’s dicks and then he jerks you off. You offer to jerk him off too but he declines saying only he can make himself cum.

Not sure man. He obviously trusted you to go that far. I think if he had let you jerk him off it would have helped to clear his head in more ways then one.