The issue is that cantsiwithus was not open about sex as Str8_flexn87. When Str8_flexn87 would propose to cantsiwithus to do gay sexual acts - feetworship with other guys, let other men blow him, and anal sex - cantsiwithus was not open to that. They have been friends from when they were kids. Str8_flexn87 likes money and will do anything for it. He likes to live comfortably, but also he is an exhibitionist. cantsiwithus could not deal with the stuff Str8_flexn87 would want him to do. I mean Str8_flexn87 convinced cantsiwithus to move back to Florida from Georgia. They started working together in Construction and even started a company together. Those two would hang out and work out together. They ould spent the holidays at Str8_flexn87 home, etc. Then they parted ways.
Str8_flexn87 then talks to his child hood friend @slavemaster who also likes money, works in construction, does not make that much money and convinces him to create twitter, Instagram, and OF accounts and tells him that he can make a lot of money. Str8_flexn87 then takes him to his gym and basically found someone just like him.
At first I was like does Str8_flexn87's wife know what he does and did porn. Now I know she has known all along. I mean when he was doing porn he would have to fly to Phoenix, Arizona, to shoot porn and spend a few days there. What was he telling her. Honey, I'm on a business trip.
Anyway, no judging, just providing some facts. It's their lives and if they are ok with it, who are we to judge. They are not committing any crimes and he seems to enjoy the porn with men and women. You can tel he tried to cut down on the porn stuff, but he can't help it. He likes money, enjoys sex, and is not working as hard as he was when he was doing construction full time.