Straight and Likes Gay Porn

[LVCB77]

First thread post so excuse me if I didn't post in the appropriate location or if this has been posted before (although I have only seen it touched on)

Long time straight, married man here that frequently enjoys and even prefers gay porn now. Whatever that makes me doesn't matter. I would like to hear from others who might share this taste or fetish and what specifically turns you on about it. I would love to hear about the journey and how you started and then arrived at this fetish. Here's a few questions that might spark the conversation, but feel free to expand and expound.

What are some of your experiences with straight porn versus gay porn and the differences to you?

What percentage of getting off do you experience with the various porn types (ie straight, bi, trans, or gay porn)?

If you are in a strong hetero relationship like me, how does this impact your relationship?

Is it known? If so, how do you deal with this in terms of your relationship with your partner?

If it's not known, how do you feel about this secret and how do you deal with it whether with your partner or societally?

Having a little fun with it, what are some stories or experiences you had with this preference? What are some of your go to's or specific fetishes in this space?

Lastly, although I'm mostly interested in hearing from other straight guys like me, I welcome hearing from others too. It can be gay men who enjoy straight porn or women who enjoy gay porn, or any other combination as long as you can touch on some of the aforementioned questions and it is a similar dynamic for you.

 

[Charlie Jackpot]

I think there's something in the more straight to the point and animalistic nature of gay porn - some lesbians also like it because it's about the sex. I think becaue (viagra notwithstanding) it's harder to fake arousal in gay porn.

I'm a lesbian and love getting off to gay male porn. And other lesbians do, too

 

[sl95]

I think sexuality is just a spectrum. You can fall into whatever fit into what you like, who you are. I'm gay and sometimes I watch straight porn too just because I like to look at straight men and envy the women enjoy the pleasure. So really respect you are being honest to yourself and sharing to other people here. I'm sorry that you have to hide this as a secret but I think if that make you not enjoy your life to the fullest or somehow make you feel unsatisfied then I think you should find a way to share it with someone IRL to find a solution or maybe talking to your partner, maybe slowly introduce her to the concept of sexuality spectrum before talking about yourself. I dont have a specific answer to your question sorry but I do think everyone should live the way prefer and have a satisfied sexual life as their body & mind want. Life is too short mate!
Also, if you prefer gay porn, have you envisioned yourself having sexual contact with a man? would you do it and not feel weird about it? maybe trying a threesome and have a chance to intimate with both men and women to see how it works for you? Just an idea that may help to figure who you are first before taking other steps? sorry if I offend you or your partner.

 

[LVCB77]

I think there's something in the more straight to the point and animalistic nature of gay porn - some lesbians also like it because it's about the sex. I think becaue (viagra notwithstanding) it's harder to fake arousal in gay porn.

I'm a lesbian and love getting off to gay male porn. And other lesbians do, too

This is a great point. I get the impression when watching straight porn, that there's a lot of fake arousal especially with the female participants and especially in their scenes with men. As a matter of fact, when I rarely get off to straight porn these days, it's mostly amateur or solo stuff because it seems more authentic.

With gay porn, I can see the straight to the point, animalistic nature that you mentioned. The actors often seem enthusiastic, and not over acting and embellishing. I think that the hard bodies and masculine energy being exchanged also make for a more visceral experience than straight porn, or at least for me it does.

Having been married for a long time and having no intention of cheating on my wife with another person, I think that the natural sexual deprivation from being in a long term monogamous relationship, has helped made my sexual fantasies more to the point and animalistic. For me it's not the only factor but it certainly makes the aforementioned characteristics of gay porn more appealing to me.

 

[LVCB77]

I think sexuality is just a spectrum. You can fall into whatever fit into what you like, who you are. I'm gay and sometimes I watch straight porn too just because I like to look at straight men and envy the women enjoy the pleasure. So really respect you are being honest to yourself and sharing to other people here. I'm sorry that you have to hide this as a secret but I think if that make you not enjoy your life to the fullest or somehow make you feel unsatisfied then I think you should find a way to share it with someone IRL to find a solution or maybe talking to your partner, maybe slowly introduce her to the concept of sexuality spectrum before talking about yourself. I dont have a specific answer to your question sorry but I do think everyone should live the way prefer and have a satisfied sexual life as their body & mind want. Life is too short mate!
Also, if you prefer gay porn, have you envisioned yourself having sexual contact with a man? would you do it and not feel weird about it? maybe trying a threesome and have a chance to intimate with both men and women to see how it works for you? Just an idea that may help to figure who you are first before taking other steps? sorry if I offend you or your partner.

Thanks for your post and this is exactly why I wanted to start this conversation. I was fascinated that as a gay man sometimes you enjoy straight porn and the reasons why. The interesting part to me was that it sounds like it is occasional and when you do you still like to look at the men. It doesn't sound like you are into the women other than envying them for being on the receiving end of the men. It seems that although it's straight porn your reasons for watching it still fit into your true sexuality.

For me, although I almost exclusively enjoy gay porn these days, it wasn't always like that and I still have a healthy sexual appetite for women, outside of pornography. When I watch gay porn I don't want any semblance of the straight porn dynamic. As a matter of fact, I'm not into twinks or more feminine portrayals of men as much as masculine men whether solo or together.

This is why it's so interesting to me. I wanted to ask questions on here like you hinted at, is this part and parcel of my true sexuality's suppression? In other words, is it telling me something about my true self and desires? Or is it something more shallow and superficial where I'm seeking sexual novelty and fun because I'm bored from a lifetime as a straight man and the sexual depravity from a long time monogamous relationship? Or is just a moment that addresses the sexual spectrum that you so eloquently spoke of?

That said, I love being able to hear from someone like you with an experience so different than my own and there is no offense at all! I have certainly thought about the things you mentioned in terms of acting these desires out in real life or coming clean with them to my wife or revealing them to the outside world. That might be another conversation for another day or another thread tho. I was really fascinated by the specifics of a gay porn fetish.

 

[chromecountry]

If I had to give myself label I’d say I’m straight, and I too watch gay porn. But I will add that I consider a sexuality to be a spectrum and I’d consider myself heteroflexible.

I had an internet connection when I went through puberty, so I’ve been looking at internet porn for more than half my life. Like most people I was curious at that age and checked out gay porn, but mostly stuck to straight porn.

I’m in a long term relationship with the first person I ever dated and had sex with you. OP: I admire your faithfulness to your partner, because I’ve done a lot of things in secret, whether it’s watch porn or cheat.

I never watched gay porn often, but I watch it more frequently now. Still watch straight porn a lot more, though. If I do watch gay porn I have pretty specific preferences. I like the guys to be as masculine as possible, ideally muscular, ideally big cocks. Needs to be bareback (I am a huge proponent of safe sex, but porn is for fantasy) and ideally I want it to be a flip fuck scene. I’m more attracted to the idea of guys mutually pleasuring each other than a sub bottom dom top dynamic.

My first real life experiences with cock were with mtf trans escorts, which was fun.

I’ve had 5 real life gay experiences, two from grindr, 3 at a gay sauna. All experiences fizzled out for me. I was nervous every time, and it would be thrilling at times, then I’d lose arousal. Another man has never made me cum.

Outside of porn, I’m definitely more attracted to women. I’m always checking them out, can’t say I do the same with men. Because I’m not generally attracted to men outside of specific contexts (usually pornography), LGBTQIA+ and queer culture does not resonate with me

Why have I had encounters with men? There’s a few reasons. One is that I’m often chasing new experiences, which is why I’ve gone to gangbang parties etc. another is that I’m turned on by anonymous hookups, which is much easier with men than it is with women. These last two points make me feel like I’m more attracted to the act itself than men. The saunas are pretty thrilling because I am relatively attractive and I can feel people’s gazes on me, it’s how I imagine attractive women experience male gazes in public. My cock is bigger than average and I enjoy getting attention and compliments for it. And lastly because I’m not in denial about my heteroflexibility - if a guy is attractive and hung I think I could potentially relax and enjoy myself.

Sorry if this is long winded and goes off topic at all, just thought you’d like to hear my experience.

 

[Andrej_u]

This is a great point. I get the impression when watching straight porn, that there's a lot of fake arousal especially with the female participants and especially in their scenes with men. As a matter of fact, when I rarely get off to straight porn these days, it's mostly amateur or solo stuff because it seems more authentic.

With gay porn, I can see the straight to the point, animalistic nature that you mentioned. The actors often seem enthusiastic, and not over acting and embellishing. I think that the hard bodies and masculine energy being exchanged also make for a more visceral experience than straight porn, or at least for me it does.

Having been married for a long time and having no intention of cheating on my wife with another person, I think that the natural sexual deprivation from being in a long term monogamous relationship, has helped made my sexual fantasies more to the point and animalistic. For me it's not the only factor but it certainly makes the aforementioned characteristics of gay porn more appealing to me.

I am mostly into men, but I watch straight porn too.
For me I like watching anal scenes with women. I like the closeups and how you can see these incredible, round feminine asses being at the centre of attention, and the focus on the gaping hole. This is something I like in gay porn too, but it's less common. I don't look at the dick in straight porn, or in gay porn either. I know, I'm in a website dedicated to dicks, and I don't like dick.

I also love it when they put the dick back and forth from pussy to ass and viceversa. This can happen in gay porn only if the bottom is trans (FTM). I love it, but it's soooo rare! Much more common in straight porn.

I agree that gay porn is usually more authentic, and I dislike it when women in porn are being mistreated, real or pretended.
But yeah, it resonates with me seeing you watch porn out of your normal preference, to look for a specific fantasy or attitude from the actors. I do the same with straight porn.

 

[Kcuf]

I'm gay and I actually like watching straight porn ( I watch gay porn too). I'll try to answer your questions as best as possible...

1. My experience with straight porn is watching videos that mostly focus the man's ass. Also, I like these categories: creampie, double vaginal penetration, cuckold, multiple creampie Gangbang. It must be homoerotic for me to enjoy it. Lol.

2. What's weird is that i get off more to straight porn than gay porn. I donno, it's the fantasy of watching straight people in homoerotic situations that has intrigued me for the past 5 years.

3. Not applicable (I'm a horny homosexual, LOL!!!!).

4. Uhhhhh... I don't have any real life straight fetish activities, and actually I don't care. I'm only sexually attracted to men. Having women during any sexual encounter would send my rock hard boner to sleep.

 

[LVCB77]

If I had to give myself label I’d say I’m straight, and I too watch gay porn. But I will add that I consider a sexuality to be a spectrum and I’d consider myself heteroflexible.

I had an internet connection when I went through puberty, so I’ve been looking at internet porn for more than half my life. Like most people I was curious at that age and checked out gay porn, but mostly stuck to straight porn.

I’m in a long term relationship with the first person I ever dated and had sex with you. OP: I admire your faithfulness to your partner, because I’ve done a lot of things in secret, whether it’s watch porn or cheat.

I never watched gay porn often, but I watch it more frequently now. Still watch straight porn a lot more, though. If I do watch gay porn I have pretty specific preferences. I like the guys to be as masculine as possible, ideally muscular, ideally big cocks. Needs to be bareback (I am a huge proponent of safe sex, but porn is for fantasy) and ideally I want it to be a flip fuck scene. I’m more attracted to the idea of guys mutually pleasuring each other than a sub bottom dom top dynamic.

My first real life experiences with cock were with mtf trans escorts, which was fun.

I’ve had 5 real life gay experiences, two from grindr, 3 at a gay sauna. All experiences fizzled out for me. I was nervous every time, and it would be thrilling at times, then I’d lose arousal. Another man has never made me cum.

Outside of porn, I’m definitely more attracted to women. I’m always checking them out, can’t say I do the same with men. Because I’m not generally attracted to men outside of specific contexts (usually pornography), LGBTQIA+ and queer culture does not resonate with me

Why have I had encounters with men? There’s a few reasons. One is that I’m often chasing new experiences, which is why I’ve gone to gangbang parties etc. another is that I’m turned on by anonymous hookups, which is much easier with men than it is with women. These last two points make me feel like I’m more attracted to the act itself than men. The saunas are pretty thrilling because I am relatively attractive and I can feel people’s gazes on me, it’s how I imagine attractive women experience male gazes in public. My cock is bigger than average and I enjoy getting attention and compliments for it. And lastly because I’m not in denial about my heteroflexibility - if a guy is attractive and hung I think I could potentially relax and enjoy myself.

Sorry if this is long winded and goes off topic at all, just thought you’d like to hear my experience.

Great post and not long winded or off topic at all but exactly what I looked forward to hearing when I started this conversation.

Your post resonated with me. I think I'm older than you are since I did not have the internet during my younger years which makes this all the more fascinating. My exposure to pornography was magazines and videos early on. I enjoyed and got off on exclusively straight material throughout my younger years. I didn't give it second thought about dreaming of sexy women, however in retrospect there was an inkling, in non female solo stuff, of glancing at the men and there bodies and their cocks and their cocks in action. I even remember hanging out with some guy friends when I was young and one of them stealing his older sister's playgirl magazine and all of us looking at the men and their cocks. It was more of an anatomy lesson and comparison thing (LOL), but at the same time I recall that i was secretly intrigued and turned on. That was a fleeting moment and still when it came to porn, straight porn ruled my world throughout my youth. Pre-internet, I didn't even think about the possibility of accessing gay porn, and at the very best I would unconsciously and occasionally pay attention to the men in hetero sex scenes.

Cut to now in a world where we have instant and all access to nearly everything. My loyalty and monogamy prevent me from physically cheating on my wife with other people, so I find myself living vicariously through things like porn where I can go wild and indulge my imagination. For me, that wild indulgence is gay porn after a lifetime of straight porn and sex with strictly women.

When you mentioned that you admired my faithfulness to my wife, I can reveal that I am totally secretive about my gay porn indulgence to her. I'm sure she assumes and knows about a general and occasional indulgence in porn from me but not the specifics of that porn. As a matter of fact, the times we watched porn together as a couple, it was basic straight stuff. Maybe one day, but frankly, I am not ready to reveal the details of my porn indulgence, whether that's the frequency or specifics of the porn.

Porn aside, your testimony about encounters with other men was fascinating. I have zero experience sexually with men but can possibly relate to your own feelings and outcome with them. I too, from a lifetime as straight dominant, might find myself in a similar situation if I were to be with other men sexually. Then again it could be totally different, who knows?

 

[LVCB77]

I am mostly into men, but I watch straight porn too.
For me I like watching anal scenes with women. I like the closeups and how you can see these incredible, round feminine asses being at the centre of attention, and the focus on the gaping hole. This is something I like in gay porn too, but it's less common. I don't look at the dick in straight porn, or in gay porn either. I know, I'm in a website dedicated to dicks, and I don't like dick.

I also love it when they put the dick back and forth from pussy to ass and viceversa. This can happen in gay porn only if the bottom is trans (FTM). I love it, but it's soooo rare! Much more common in straight porn.

I agree that gay porn is usually more authentic, and I dislike it when women in porn are being mistreated, real or pretended.
But yeah, it resonates with me seeing you watch porn out of your normal preference, to look for a specific fantasy or attitude from the actors. I do the same with straight porn.

That is so interesting how you are mostly into men but enjoy straight porn. Between my being mostly into women but enjoying gay porn it might show how porn is not necessarily indicative of ones actual sexual preference in real life. Then again, the specifics of that porn might be an indicator, for example your enjoying anal scenes with women or me enjoying anal scenes with men.

Speaking of, along with solo stuff, I mostly enjoy anal scenes when I watch gay porn. I like masculine, muscular men having powerful anal sex. I often skip past the foreplay and even the oral after a little while and enjoy the anal. I like to see the different positions and the powerful thrusting of a good sized cock into a tight hole. I even like it more when the cumshot is in the hole instead of pulling out, or jerking to a cum, or cumming into a mouth.

I'm the same way when it comes to straight porn as I am with gay porn. I often skip past the foreplay and the oral after a short while and want to see the fucking. With women I'm more interested in seeing their pussy get penetrated and cummed into than I am anal. Just like with gay porn I like the men in straight porn to be masculine and muscular and I actually prefer the women to be fit and athletic and in some cases a hint of masculinity, if that masculinity is of the athletic variety and not too much. I do enjoy softer feminine women in straight porn if they are younger and petite. With gay porn I don't often watch it with softer effeminate men but do sometimes enjoy it if it is a smooth petite guy with a big cock getting dominated by a masculine, muscular guy.

 

[deleted20362541]

Happily married here. 2 kids, 5 grandkids and I love watching gay porn. Have for years. Its not the guys I drool over. Just love seeing cock.

 

[techpump]

I think there's something in the more straight to the point and animalistic nature of gay porn - some lesbians also like it because it's about the sex. I think becaue (viagra notwithstanding) it's harder to fake arousal in gay porn.

I'm a lesbian and love getting off to gay male porn. And other lesbians do, too

I knew a serious lesbian and the only porn she watched was gay porn. She said lesbian porn is ALL fake, straight porn sucks, she doesn't buy all solo female vids, but you can't deny when a man cums! That's what she liked: the proof--I guess the cumshot--that the person had an O and got off.

 

[LVCB77]

I knew a serious lesbian and the only porn she watched was gay porn. She said lesbian porn is ALL fake, straight porn sucks, she doesn't buy all solo female vids, but you can't deny when a man cums! That's what she liked: the proof--I guess the cumshot--that the person had an O and got off.

That's amazing and I can relate to her! I'm the same and almost all gay porn these days. I wouldn't know real lesbian porn and whether it's all fake or not but agreed that most straight porn does suck. The male orgasm is undeniable.

 

[royal_madnessty]

I'm a straight woman but i enjoy watching bi (male) sex, like a threesome with 2 bi men and one woman. I even watch fully gay (male) sex sometimes. Not sure why i like it. Maybe because i don't really like watching women in porn, how they are treated and how they behave. Women giving men a blow job is an instant fast forward. The way women scream also makes me dry. I don't watch porn often, maybe once every few months but bi men is my favorite to go to section.

 

[Greenkai3000]

First thread post so excuse me if I didn't post in the appropriate location or if this has been posted before (although I have only seen it touched on)

Long time straight, married man here that frequently enjoys and even prefers gay porn now. Whatever that makes me doesn't matter. I would like to hear from others who might share this taste or fetish and what specifically turns you on about it. I would love to hear about the journey and how you started and then arrived at this fetish. Here's a few questions that might spark the conversation, but feel free to expand and expound.

What are some of your experiences with straight porn versus gay porn and the differences to you?

What percentage of getting off do you experience with the various porn types (ie straight, bi, trans, or gay porn)?

If you are in a strong hetero relationship like me, how does this impact your relationship?

Is it known? If so, how do you deal with this in terms of your relationship with your partner?

If it's not known, how do you feel about this secret and how do you deal with it whether with your partner or societally?

Having a little fun with it, what are some stories or experiences you had with this preference? What are some of your go to's or specific fetishes in this space?

Lastly, although I'm mostly interested in hearing from other straight guys like me, I welcome hearing from others too. It can be gay men who enjoy straight porn or women who enjoy gay porn, or any other combination as long as you can touch on some of the aforementioned questions and it is a similar dynamic for you.

I think it’s pretty awesome that you like watching guy on guy action. All guys should feel free to enjoy watching whatever mm, mmf , mf , ff , ftm action without any feeling of ‘shame’.

I personally identify myself as mostly gay. However have been with both men and women before, would still want to have sex with both, and definitely enjoy watching straight porn a lot. I really get off watching a guy go down on a girl upclose .

 

[Lovetobetouched]

Thanks for the question. I would class myself as Bi because I literally have interest in both - and notice physical attributes that spark my interest in both men and women. I’m hopelessly in love with my wife of 27 years and she turns me on by just her smell, let alone her body and the respect I have for her. But from before we met I had a series of secret dalliances with men - mostly very cock focused. Wanks and frot. Gyms and nude beaches.

my porn was never really hetero. I didn’t have access to magazines and it’s only when the internet arrived (after I was married) that I found porn. Was never a big user until recent years.

so I used this new fangled internet to find fuel for my secret cock fetish.

I’m now 90% gay porn. Like you I prefer an idealized (in my mind) idea of masculinity. Muscles, hairy chest. Effeminate and hairless or younger men are a total turn-off.

I like the things I don’t do. The blowies and arse fucks and men doing that mutually for each other. I like buddy-porn where we are all mates and lend a helping hand.

I am also a keen nudist sunbather and I love nude beaches, so anything outside, and especially in the sun and nature really turns me on. Skinny dipping pics, sauna etc. gang showers and gym. Love gym porn. But then, I love the gym in real life.

My wife knows I like porn and disapproves. She has also discovered some pictures I took of myself, and made me delete them and still brings it up as some disgusting secret fetish I must have. I am very careful not to put pics of other men in my phone or iPad etc.

She thinks I’m eccentric about the nudey-baking but doesn’t mind me washing the car in the buff or mowing the lawn nude. I used to clean our pool naked and the kids made a joke of Dad’s lunchtime swims.

I think my wife guesses something, but our sex is pretty good - when we prioritize it for each other.

however, in recent years our previously good marriage has been tough, and the fantasy of porn has become a refuge for reality.

I think porn is fantasy and needs to be something fantastical. Something that takes the imagination someplace else.

I wonder if we were more on track as a couple I would use porn less. But the reality is I love gay porn and looking at men. It pre-existed our couples issue so isn’t the problem - it’s simply the refuge.

unlike you, I have dabbled with men and find it very relaxing and transactional. Uncomplicated. It hurts me that I can’t tell my wife. But, as I said, I have a funny idea she sort of knows.

I seem to have a flirt radar with women. I’m a bit of a flirt myself and am always being told off by my wife and daughter who reckon I flirt with any pretty waitress or store attendant. I’m not even aware I am doing it. But as soon as a woman shows signals that her flirting back is more intentional and there is a chance that I would be able to take it further I instinctively shut it down. Somehow cheating with another women seems so wrong. I love my wife.

but my periodic “cheating” with a man doesn’t seem to have the same effect on me. Mostly because it’s just a release and not an emotional “affair”

either way, I am not rushing to admit it. But I hope she would understand that the bi side of me is a powerful and enduring need. I have very strict limits on what I do and those have been formed by experience of what I like. As I said it is very focused on each others dicks.

so I’m str8 90-95% of my time and very happy that way. Certainly no desire to increase that limited and occasional (but persistent and long-standing) gay side of my actual sex life. But my porn fantasy life is aligned almost entirely to the 5/-10% gay side of me.

i think it’s a way to process that I am in a happy Hetero relationship, but still have gay feelings.

that’s “bi” I guess. It’s certainly me. And the label doesn’t matter. Men and women are beautiful, as is sex.

 

[Curious65]

First thread post so excuse me if I didn't post in the appropriate location or if this has been posted before (although I have only seen it touched on)

Long time straight, married man here that frequently enjoys and even prefers gay porn now. Whatever that makes me doesn't matter. I would like to hear from others who might share this taste or fetish and what specifically turns you on about it. I would love to hear about the journey and how you started and then arrived at this fetish. Here's a few questions that might spark the conversation, but feel free to expand and expound.

What are some of your experiences with straight porn versus gay porn and the differences to you?

What percentage of getting off do you experience with the various porn types (ie straight, bi, trans, or gay porn)?

If you are in a strong hetero relationship like me, how does this impact your relationship?

Is it known? If so, how do you deal with this in terms of your relationship with your partner?

If it's not known, how do you feel about this secret and how do you deal with it whether with your partner or societally?

Having a little fun with it, what are some stories or experiences you had with this preference? What are some of your go to's or specific fetishes in this space?

Lastly, although I'm mostly interested in hearing from other straight guys like me, I welcome hearing from others too. It can be gay men who enjoy straight porn or women who enjoy gay porn, or any other combination as long as you can touch on some of the aforementioned questions and it is a similar dynamic for you.

I'm in a similar situation. I jerk almost exclusively to gay porn. There is just something about two guys sharing their bodies with each to get off that works for me. I gravitate to masculine/hunk/muscle vids and the raw man on man play that it brings. If there is some romance to the better.

Straight porn seems degrading to women. I know they are there by choice, but a beautiful woman chocking on cock and hacking up phlegm is not going to do it for me. The exception for me is romantic, tender, loving scenes where the man is there to please his girl not just to get to his cum shot. I've been enjoying mrpussylicking vids on Pornhub a lot lately - he knows how to please a lady.

No one knows my porn habits or my LPSG activity. Many times I've used gay porn as a precursor for sex with my wife. I don't consider myself gay, but there must be some bisexual tendencies...I guess. I am obsessed with all things related to cock, but have zero desire for a romantic relationship with a man. I've been trying to figure it all out my whole life.

Hope this is helpful.

 

[Lovetobetouched]

I'm in a similar situation. I jerk almost exclusively to gay porn. There is just something about two guys sharing their bodies with each to get off that works for me. I gravitate to masculine/hunk/muscle vids and the raw man on man play that it brings. If there is some romance to the better.

Straight porn seems degrading to women. I know they are there by choice, but a beautiful woman chocking on cock and hacking up phlegm is not going to do it for me. The exception for me is romantic, tender, loving scenes where the man is there to please his girl not just to get to his cum shot. I've been enjoying mrpussylicking vids on Pornhub a lot lately - he knows how to please a lady.

No one knows my porn habits or my LPSG activity. Many times I've used gay porn as a precursor for sex with my wife. I don't consider myself gay, but there must be some bisexual tendencies...I guess. I am obsessed with all things related to cock, but have zero desire for a romantic relationship with a man. I've been trying to figure it all out my whole life.

Hope this is helpful.

Spot on

 

[dave in oz]

I'm in a similar situation. I jerk almost exclusively to gay porn. There is just something about two guys sharing their bodies with each to get off that works for me. I gravitate to masculine/hunk/muscle vids and the raw man on man play that it brings. If there is some romance to the better.

Straight porn seems degrading to women. I know they are there by choice, but a beautiful woman chocking on cock and hacking up phlegm is not going to do it for me. The exception for me is romantic, tender, loving scenes where the man is there to please his girl not just to get to his cum shot. I've been enjoying mrpussylicking vids on Pornhub a lot lately - he knows how to please a lady.

No one knows my porn habits or my LPSG activity. Many times I've used gay porn as a precursor for sex with my wife. I don't consider myself gay, but there must be some bisexual tendencies...I guess. I am obsessed with all things related to cock, but have zero desire for a romantic relationship with a man. I've been trying to figure it all out my whole life.

Hope this is helpful.

Thats really interesting to read and would have just assumed you were closeted queen until that last paragraph when you clearly explained how you feel.

A straight guy who is into gay porn - totally unexpected, thanks for that.

I was going to go down a whole psych 101 path about missing out on affection from your Dad so seeing men be vulnerable with each other somehow...just tell me to shut the fuck up at any time I'm fine with that lol

In fact its probably in my best interest to do so

 

[Lovetobetouched]

Yeah. That’s a common view.

Thats really interesting to read and would have just assumed you were closeted queen until that last paragraph when you clearly explained how you feel.

A straight guy who is into gay porn - totally unexpected, thanks for that.

I was going to go down a whole psych 101 path about missing out on affection from your Dad so seeing men be vulnerable with each other somehow...just tell me to shut the fuck up at any time I'm fine with that lol

In fact its probably in my best interest to do so

Porn=sexuality. It’s not as simple as that for many of us on this thread and many of us on LPSG.

equally many gay men assume (and accuse) us as being “in denial” of our true gay identity, but that doesn’t explain lifelong interests in Heterosexual sex and homosexual sex at the time. In my case I have had sex with a man and a woman in the same day (at different times) and it all still functions ….

this is a stable pattern in my life.

That simplistic Psych 101 approach you mentioned basically = Bi-erasure.