What is the percentage of straight men who find dicks erotic? How many of you would give oral if you knew it was never a chance of being exposed?
Straight but find cock erotic.
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Just go to a new city or county and open Grindr. I sucked so many hot cocks like that. I was paranoid I'd get exposed so used an alias and made up a whole persona over time lol. Now I'm more relaxed. People really don't care about exposing you. The more anonymous you act the more suspicious you look and the more intrigued the guys get. Just go suck a cock and go about your day. Guys also enjoy the no commitment or strings attached so you're good.
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I think society's notions of sexual orientation are pretty much muddled and wrong. Sexual orientation doesn't fit neatly into three little buckets (gay, bisexual, and heterosexual), and defining it as such is a fool's errand. People and sexuality are far more complicated than that. I argue that the majority of men are bisexual to one degree or another. No, I do not mean that they have sex with both men and women, nor do I mean they desire to do so. Rather, they sometimes find either of the two main genders (male and female - for the purpose of keeping this discussion focused, I'm ignoring other genders, even though my view could be expanded to include them). Men who identify as straight often claim to be "100% straight." They are by far the primary consumers of "straight" porn. But look at that straight porn from a couple of aspects. One, there's usually at least one man involved - and in recent years "gang bang" porn has become increasingly popular (lots and lots of cocks in those vids). Second, "straight" porn actors have become better looking, more buff, and have bigger cocks over the decades (there were some really unattractive and out-of-shape men in straight porn in the 1970s, IMHO).
Conventional heteronormative sex isn't just about the vagina - there's always a penis involved. The combination of those two parts is highly arousing to most men who identify as straight. It's all part of the big mixed up muddle of sex. If a guy loves watching a big fat cock pumping into a pussy, and the actor is fit and handsome, that doesn't make the guy gay in any way. It makes him like most other men who identify as straight. I've had this discussion with a few straight-identifying friends (a couple of them are close friends) who generally agree. (Full disclosure - I consider myself a Kinsey 4, so am not answering this post with respect to myself.) They have no interest in having sex with another man, or in having a romantic relationship with another man. But they admit that seeing a really nice big cock "is kind of cool." To answer the OP's question, I don't think these guys would have oral sex with a guy - they're just not aroused enough by a penis to do that.
Bottom line - I think we should encourage guys to relax. If you're in a relationship with a woman and having great sex, but now and then you get a boner when you see a hot guy or a big penis, relax. That doesn't make you gay - it just means you're like most other guys who identify as straight.
Conventional heteronormative sex isn't just about the vagina - there's always a penis involved. The combination of those two parts is highly arousing to most men who identify as straight. It's all part of the big mixed up muddle of sex. If a guy loves watching a big fat cock pumping into a pussy, and the actor is fit and handsome, that doesn't make the guy gay in any way. It makes him like most other men who identify as straight. I've had this discussion with a few straight-identifying friends (a couple of them are close friends) who generally agree. (Full disclosure - I consider myself a Kinsey 4, so am not answering this post with respect to myself.) They have no interest in having sex with another man, or in having a romantic relationship with another man. But they admit that seeing a really nice big cock "is kind of cool." To answer the OP's question, I don't think these guys would have oral sex with a guy - they're just not aroused enough by a penis to do that.
Bottom line - I think we should encourage guys to relax. If you're in a relationship with a woman and having great sex, but now and then you get a boner when you see a hot guy or a big penis, relax. That doesn't make you gay - it just means you're like most other guys who identify as straight.
so on point...i can appreciate admire bros cock ..just like can admire a beautiful stallion-bi gay str8 are modern constructs...think most men are bi/bi-curious just afraid to explore or open themselves up to the possibility..like pussy but need male bonding!!!
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