Straight but i like to look at pictures of dick?

[lpsg_guy]

I consider myself straight but I enjoy looking at pictures of dicks online, and reading some yaoi mangas from time to time. I also like watching cam videos of guys jerking off but not of guys having gay sex. is this weird? I'm not sure what that makes me to be.. :S

 

[BillM]

I consider myself straight but I enjoy looking at pictures of dicks online, and reading some yaoi mangas from time to time. I also like watching cam videos of guys jerking off but not of guys having gay sex. is this weird? I'm not sure what that makes me to be.. :S

It makes you a man that likes looking at women and men for what We are and not just sex, I think most straigtht guys on this site are just like you and that is great!! Bill

 

[Phil Ayesho]

I consider myself straight but I enjoy looking at pictures of dicks online, and reading some yaoi mangas from time to time. I also like watching cam videos of guys jerking off but not of guys having gay sex. is this weird? I'm not sure what that makes me to be.. :S

What you are now is not what you will be.

Keep on indulging in looking at dicks.... and Yaoi toons... and you will, over time, find yourself watching guys sucking dick, and then guys fucking guys in the ass...

Exotic flavors spoil the palate for ordinary tastes. And MOST men, who indulge in porn, exhibit an evolving trend toward pushing their boundaries outward.

Penthouse was a porn mag that was built entirely on the fact that Playboy never showed pubic hair or women's unairbrushed genitals. And Hustler was built on what Penthouse refused to show.

like any drug- porn tickles a part of the brain that gets inured to the stimulus and craves ever stronger stimulus to get the same thrill.

So, given that you already have a penchant for dick imagery, you will likely find that as you get more comfortable, mentally, with viewing men sexually, you will seek more explicit imagery of men. You will start to fantasize about touching, then sucking dick. Occasionally at first, and then with greater frequency and excitement.

Your sexual tastes will de dictated by the appetites you indulge.


And, while this may ultimately manifest as a deep desire to ACT on these fantasies... for the vast majority of men they will simply remain a fantasy that becomes just one of a whole arsenal fantasies that you entertain from time to time, waxing then waning then waxing once more in the same way you might really really get into a certain exercise, or video game, and then lose interest in it after a while... only to come back to it later.


But keep in mind.... that its all choices you make. You decide to indulge in porn and what type. You decide to take it a step further.

you become what you choose to become.... whether you are paying attention to those choices or not.


And what does all this make you?

Just another guy.

 

[BIGBULL29]

Exotic flavors spoil the palate for ordinary tastes. And MOST men, who indulge in porn, exhibit an evolving trend toward pushing their boundaries outward.


So, given that you already have a penchant for dick imagery, you will likely find that as you get more comfortable, mentally, with viewing men sexually, you will seek more explicit imagery of men. You will start to fantasize about touching, then sucking dick. Occasionally at first, and then with greater frequency and excitement.


And, while this may ultimately manifest as a deep desire to ACT on these fantasies... for the vast majority of men they will simply remain a fantasy that becomes just one of a whole arsenal fantasies that you entertain from time to time, waxing then waning then waxing once more in the same way you might really really get into a certain exercise, or video game, and then lose interest in it after a while... only to come back to it later.

And what does all this make you?

Just another guy.

Couldn't have said it better!

Great job, Philly! You nailed it.

 

[deleted871301]

I consider myself straight but I enjoy looking at pictures of dicks online, and reading some yaoi mangas from time to time. I also like watching cam videos of guys jerking off but not of guys having gay sex. is this weird? I'm not sure what that makes me to be.. :S

Men are visually stimulated. If you enjoy looking at dick... then look at dick. If it turns you on... well... enjoy the moment. Don't label yourself. You're just a healthy man.

 

[hypolimnas]

I think men enjoy looking at cock probably more than women. They do it in private, or when they think it won't be noticed - that is in my own direct experience. Given the opportunity they'll literally do it for hours. You are very normal.

 

[sevenxfive]

Lots more guys than will admit it like looking at other guys' dicks! Go with what feels good to you. Why judge or label yourself?

 

[TommyLance]

My wife and I party with other M/F couples for swing.

These events are carefully planned and discussed.

We had one experience, however, where a M/M couple "walked in on us", and having no other room at the large party house, got an "okay nod" from us to use the room as well. My girl and I were down to our skivvies at this point, and we had to deal with our knowing them (my wife saw one of them every few months at her office), watch us make out.

Eventually we were all naked and with our own partners, when the guy who worked with my wife now and then, brought his boyfriend to our bed, and began to play with my wife's breasts. We were both in shock, but all four of us were highly turned on by that point. Five minutes later, my wife and the guy were sharing 69, to the sort of shock of his boyfriend and I.

He and I (and this was new to me in every way) began to French kiss and stroke one another. And so we were two couples, but in an unexpected way.

Since then, looking at pictures of men undressed has become exciting to me, though admittedly, I am nearly entirely straight.

Seeing another man's cock go from flaccid to erect, is an incredible turn on.

 

[wnjcwjkk]

I am also completely straight, have no desire to do anything with another guy, or look at gay porn or anything like that. So I don't believe what was said above about eventually escalating and watching gay porn.

Since I was younger, I've had an fixation on penis size, especially how women react to it. For the longest time, I used to have an insecurity about my own size, feeling like I wasn't big enough, I saw a couple huge dicks in real life that made me feel like I was smaller than most guy, but through experiences and this site, I've come to gain total confidence.

I used to jack off and fantasize about having a huge dick, wondering what it felt like to have one in between your legs, envisioning the girls reacting to it, showing it off.

So, when I see pics of other guys' packages, it is mainly out of curiosity to see how I compare, helping to build my confidence about what I'm packing, and also envisioning how a girl would react to it. I don't get turned on or anything by looking at just dicks, but I get crazy turned on seeing a girl freaking out over a big dick, stroking it, getting hammered by it, etc.

So I feel ya, and really don't think it's weird at all.

 

[Oxnard]

I consider myself straight but I enjoy looking at pictures of dicks online, and reading some yaoi mangas from time to time. I also like watching cam videos of guys jerking off but not of guys having gay sex. is this weird? I'm not sure what that makes me to be.. :S

It sounds to me like you are accurate to describe yourself as "1% gay."

 

[Joerg93]

I consider myself straight but I enjoy looking at pictures of dicks online, and reading some yaoi mangas from time to time. I also like watching cam videos of guys jerking off but not of guys having gay sex. is this weird? I'm not sure what that makes me to be.. :S

I am just like you and I wouldn't call it weird at all.

 

[tousnu]

I'm gay but, like boobs,,,,,go figure

 

[Oxnard]

I'm gay but, like boobs,,,,,go figure

That's probably an instinct that is unrelated to your homosexuality.

We finally have an explanation for why men are obsessed with boobs. Apparently some women have a mechanism that causes them to emotionally attach to someone sucking their tits (presumably to encourage emotional bonding with infants), so the instincts of male heterosexuals drive us to play with tits to try and encourage an emotional bond with our partners.

Perhaps you have that instinct or part of that instinct despite being homosexual?

 

[TommyLance]

I'm gay but, like boobs,,,,,go figure

IMO, that makes total sense. In that there is no reasoning behind what one is attracted to.
My wife and I soft swing with other couples, and I am hard as a rock seeing the other woman's wedding ring, or in one case her being pregnant (4 months). I am nearly entirely hetero, but damn, where a guy's shaft meets the corona of his penis, and it turns upward is fucking HOT. I can't explain it. I am a complete adult about swing and group nudity, but seeing another man's erection in this way causes me to think, "Fuck! I've seen you totally nude and know what you look like as a man during your most intimate moments."

So, am I weird or what?

I guess what I mean about this tousnu, is that to me there is no weirdness about any of this. Sex that turns you on is sex that turns you on. And boobs, if I were gay, I'd want to see every woman's boobs like crazy. LOL. Oh, and every man's shaft. Go figure.

 

[TommyLance]

I am also completely straight, have no desire to do anything with another guy, or look at gay porn or anything like that. So I don't believe what was said above about eventually escalating and watching gay porn.

Since I was younger, I've had an fixation on penis size, especially how women react to it. For the longest time, I used to have an insecurity about my own size, feeling like I wasn't big enough, I saw a couple huge dicks in real life that made me feel like I was smaller than most guy, but through experiences and this site, I've come to gain total confidence.

I used to jack off and fantasize about having a huge dick, wondering what it felt like to have one in between your legs, envisioning the girls reacting to it, showing it off.

So, when I see pics of other guys' packages, it is mainly out of curiosity to see how I compare, helping to build my confidence about what I'm packing, and also envisioning how a girl would react to it. I don't get turned on or anything by looking at just dicks, but I get crazy turned on seeing a girl freaking out over a big dick, stroking it, getting hammered by it, etc.

So I feel ya, and really don't think it's weird at all.

There are in fact some guys who are fixated over a woman humiliating them for NOT being hung, and they are turned on by THAT

 

[deleted925004]

What you are now is not what you will be.

Keep on indulging in looking at dicks.... and Yaoi toons... and you will, over time, find yourself watching guys sucking dick, and then guys fucking guys in the ass...

Exotic flavors spoil the palate for ordinary tastes. And MOST men, who indulge in porn, exhibit an evolving trend toward pushing their boundaries outward.

Penthouse was a porn mag that was built entirely on the fact that Playboy never showed pubic hair or women's unairbrushed genitals. And Hustler was built on what Penthouse refused to show.

like any drug- porn tickles a part of the brain that gets inured to the stimulus and craves ever stronger stimulus to get the same thrill.

So, given that you already have a penchant for dick imagery, you will likely find that as you get more comfortable, mentally, with viewing men sexually, you will seek more explicit imagery of men. You will start to fantasize about touching, then sucking dick. Occasionally at first, and then with greater frequency and excitement.

Your sexual tastes will de dictated by the appetites you indulge.


And, while this may ultimately manifest as a deep desire to ACT on these fantasies... for the vast majority of men they will simply remain a fantasy that becomes just one of a whole arsenal fantasies that you entertain from time to time, waxing then waning then waxing once more in the same way you might really really get into a certain exercise, or video game, and then lose interest in it after a while... only to come back to it later.


But keep in mind.... that its all choices you make. You decide to indulge in porn and what type. You decide to take it a step further.

you become what you choose to become.... whether you are paying attention to those choices or not.


And what does all this make you?

Just another guy.

Damn, man. You are smart as fuck lol. Like a jedi or some shit.

 

[BIGBULL29]

I think men enjoy looking at cock probably more than women. They do it in private, or when they think it won't be noticed - that is in my own direct experience. Given the opportunity they'll literally do it for hours. You are very normal.

Yes, a lot of men do it in private. It's instinctual: many are trying to size up and think themselves superior. It's a subtle pre-mating ritual.

It is gay? Well, I'm not in the minds of all the men to know all their thoughts (impossible) . And again, it depends on how you define "gay."

I compare it to "mating fights.". There is "jealousy gay", or least something going on along those lines in my mind. It's a sexy and studly act, both tough and strong: hard sniffing each others' musky nutsacks to dick down the other. A strong degree of autoeroticism involved as well.

It's normal and natural. In fact, for a man to have no interest in other men's penis sizes in his prime would be out of the norm.

 

[hypolimnas]

The first time I realised some of this about straight guys was when I was on holiday, and sharing a hot, slightly stuffy room with three guys, all definitely straight as far as I knew. I half woke up in the early morning light, there wasn't much light, but realised the tip of my cock was nudging its way out of the fly in my boxer shorts. I was on my back, sheets mostly on the floor, and I was in full view - but protected a bit by low light levels. At that stage I was only a little bit conscious, but not really able to to move much given what I had consumed the night before, and I knew I had been in a very deep sleep. Over the next couple of hours I became aware that each of the other guys had positioned themselves on their beds so that they could see my shorts, and the end of my soft cock. So while I was initially a bit weirded out by my semi soft cock hanging out a bit, I thought that rather than quickly hide my cock out of modesty, I would try and work out if anyone had noticed.

One of the guys had an alarm that went off which he quickly silenced, and resumed his position. I couldn't really open my eyes much but the light level was sufficiently low, and my head was in a shadow, so I'm really sure they didn't know I was aware of them, and I kept up my low, slightly noisy breathing pattern.

I was perplexed in my half asleep state as to what they thought about what they were looking at, and why they wanted to keep watching over quite an extended period of time. By this stage I dozed off while in the same position, and became a bit more conscious after an hour or so.

Basically they hadn't changed their positions much, or if they had, it was to get a better view as the light coming through the curtains had changed a bit. One even started reading, but in such a way he had a direct view of me by flicking his eyes across to my bed. By this stage my cock was swelling, and it was getting close to my usual hard morning bone time.

Because of the layout of the room they couldn't see each other - the bunk across from me had one guy on top, and one below. They couldn't see each other, or the other guy in the room. Because I knew quite a lot about the girls in their lives, I wondered what it was that was motivating them to watch my shorts with such concentration. While a bit of my cock was poking out, actually over the eight years, or so, that we had all known each other, we'd all seen seen each others cocks in various soft, and semi states - sports, swimming, showering, pissing, changing etc.

My half sleeping brain concluded they wanted to see if I was going to bone up, and that they were curious as to what it looked like hard, and what size it might get to. To be honest I was starting to swell up with the thought of being watched, but I was thinking they will never ever talk about something they have seen like this moment to each other, or to me - I was also thinking that while they were waking up with morning erections of their own, because of the biological imperative, and their eyes were watching me.

I ended up with a painfully rock hard cock with a moist tip sticking out of my fly for about thirty minutes in front of my staring friendly audience - then I felt my cock soften as I ended up drifting off again, and turning over. Later in the morning, I said to one of them, I hoped my snoring didn't keep them awake ("no buddy nothing like that" was the response). I also mentioned that I woke up with one of my nuts tangled up in my fly which was a bit uncomfortable. One of them shot a glance to the other, there was just a hint of a smirk on the face of the other guy. Maybe i imagined that bit. Never a word said.

 

[wnjcwjkk]

That's probably an instinct that is unrelated to your homosexuality.

We finally have an explanation for why men are obsessed with boobs. Apparently some women have a mechanism that causes them to emotionally attach to someone sucking their tits (presumably to encourage emotional bonding with infants), so the instincts of male heterosexuals drive us to play with tits to try and encourage an emotional bond with our partners.

Perhaps you have that instinct or part of that instinct despite being homosexual?

Interesting, and very logical! Can't believe I never made that connection before!

 

[wnjcwjkk]

What Hypolimnas said,


I think all guys have a bit of a fascination with what other guys are packing in relation to their own. Curiosity, maybe a bit of competitiveness.


But, straight guys can't really talk about it with each other, unless they are really open and comfortable, for fear it could come off like they are gay.

A friend of mine, when we were younger used to pull his dick out to show off, and the other guys would all glance at it, out of curiosity. It was the first dick I ever saw, it looked enormous at the time, compared to mine, which was in the early stages of development. But as we got older, and more "macho", he quit pulling it out. Now that mine is fully developed, I can't help but wonder how it compares to his (he's a couple years older). But I can't just be like "Hey dude, remember when you used to pull your dick out all the time? You haven't done that in a while..." Haha


But I think that's one thing all guys get out of porn. They don't just wanna see the girl, they also wanna see the guy, and because it's straight porn, they feel like it's okay to look.

If a dick is showing, a lot ultra hetero guys will make a big production out of looking away, "Hey everybody, I'm not looking! Other guys' dicks disgust me!" But, do they expect us to believe that when they watch porn, they make a point to not look at the guy's dick? In reality, they are thinking "Damn, look at that dick!" And probably getting a little turned on by it. Not because they wanna touch it or have gay thoughts, just because it's hot to see a chick railed by a massive dick.