straight guy issues.
- Thread starter Pyreath
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hey..i met my first partner in the shower...he was all alone when i walked into the shower..its a shower that had 6 shower heads...he was the only one in there before i arrived...he had an erection that i was all to familiar with..size wise...and he had no issue of feeling the need to hide his erection...so..i did the same...i stroked up...and he then went into the steam room..i followed...and it was the only time i picked up a guy at a gym...
and as usual, after we boned each other ...went back to shower..dressed for work...and he put his fuckin wedding ring on..
i find out two days later...he just came back from his honeymoon...been married two weeks...i was with him for 13 yrs...i was really young, so was he...mid 20's...he was 29...and it was too bad the sex was so great...cuz he was an asshole.
and as usual, after we boned each other ...went back to shower..dressed for work...and he put his fuckin wedding ring on..
i find out two days later...he just came back from his honeymoon...been married two weeks...i was with him for 13 yrs...i was really young, so was he...mid 20's...he was 29...and it was too bad the sex was so great...cuz he was an asshole.
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Not having any Straight percentage, I can only speak from associating with guys who do have what they consider 'Straight' stats: You're Bi. Doesn't mean you're gonna run out and marry that guy...or any other guy you get a hardon over. Just means you're interested.
Act on it if you want to, but be discrete. I'd move slowly into this exploration if I were you but have fun!
Act on it if you want to, but be discrete. I'd move slowly into this exploration if I were you but have fun!
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IMO, It's not a matter of okay or not okay. It just is.
It's normal for bi or gay men; not straight men. Straight men get erections when looking at women not men.
It's probably fine. If straight guys didn't get a little turned on by another guys cock, they would only watch lesbian porn.
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What about my case guys? I like to see huge cocks but I don't get a boner or anything.... don't even get excited. I just like to see how much bigger it is than mine and think about how it would stretch a girl's pussy.
Men like dicks. Period. Unless he's a trannsexual lesbian.:biggrin1: A lot of straight men get turned on by seeing a big fuckin' dick. But, many still are not really into fucking another man. It's just reality.
Who you want to fuck, love and marry is what makes one gay or not.
dude...you are not gay...curios maybe...fuck the labels...should you adopt a gay lifestyle and move in with and share a bed with another guy...then maybe but again who cares but you...to fret over a boner...nah...even at my age i can pop a boner, un-controllable dick action is all it is....
Dear Pyreath, do read more into this than it is, its more normal than most will admit,
in spite of what a few die hards claim , no one is 100% either way but somewhere
on a scale in between.
You may be very heavily to the straight end of the scale but remember guys are
in a constant state of horniess and just about anything sets them off.
A physical stiuation in a hot steamy shower room with other guys can stimulate even
the straightest guys minor 5% gay curiousity.
Almost all the guys I have been involved with are close friends some married who a predominently straight but occasionally have a little fun with the 5% side.
Some of the single guys like the hassle free easy fun with a buddy, on the married side
some of the idiot wives either don't want physical contact after a while or refuse to
do anything other than the hurry up and get off me missionary position.
The guys don't think of it as cheating would be with other women that would be a serious threat to their marriage.
The majority of answers to your question are making more of it than it probably is.
Best wishes
CH
in spite of what a few die hards claim , no one is 100% either way but somewhere
on a scale in between.
You may be very heavily to the straight end of the scale but remember guys are
in a constant state of horniess and just about anything sets them off.
A physical stiuation in a hot steamy shower room with other guys can stimulate even
the straightest guys minor 5% gay curiousity.
Almost all the guys I have been involved with are close friends some married who a predominently straight but occasionally have a little fun with the 5% side.
Some of the single guys like the hassle free easy fun with a buddy, on the married side
some of the idiot wives either don't want physical contact after a while or refuse to
do anything other than the hurry up and get off me missionary position.
The guys don't think of it as cheating would be with other women that would be a serious threat to their marriage.
The majority of answers to your question are making more of it than it probably is.
Best wishes
CH
