How do I deal with a 16 year olds blatent advances. Do I address them to his parents or do I confront him with another trusted adult? Help me please.
Not my kid, Family relative.
Sitting in front of me, Pulls his shorts aside, Full frontal package shot. Came into shower room asked me what it was like to have another guy suck your cock.
Not my kid, Family relative.
Sitting in front of me, Pulls his shorts aside, Full frontal package shot. Came into shower room asked me what it was like to have another guy suck your cock.
Geez, sounds like I hang out with a better class of kids. My young cousins genuinely like me and will tell me, and few other of my cousins, just about anything they won't tell their parents. We get along really well and I know they wouldn't do that to me (most can't now as they're mostly 18 or over, but I've been one of, "the cool uncles," for a long time now). You can't live in fear and particularly not when a family member needs help.
Things like this keep me coming back to LPSG.Fuck him on his 18th birthday.
Make sure you are NEVER alone with him. If you're in a room by yourself and he comes in, LEAVE!! He tells a lie, and you go to jail. Don't put yourself in that position.
And WHY was the shower room unlocked?? Doesn't sound like you're taking reasonable precautions. Did he see you naked? If he saw a tatoo or birthmark and lies that you had sex with him, he can testify to the markings (a la the Michael Jackson trial) in your private areas to bolster his claim. That would look really bad for you in front of a jury.
Don't mean to scare you but the environment of hysteria we are in about sex with underage kids (not that that isn't a serious problem) calls for caution. I know teachers now that won't hug kids when they are crying because of legal concerns. What a shame things have gotten so nuts, but they have. You are the one who has to protect yourself -- no one else will.
Good luck.