Good morning,
I'll start by explaining that my wife and myself live the swing lifestyle, my wife loves exploring the dominatrix in her. In our personal sex life it's myself that's the dominant partner in the conventional way, when it comes to fun outside of our personal relationship it gives her the opportunity to be dominant over others, wearing strapons is one of the things she enjoys whether she's sharing another woman or pegging a guy. It's not something that I myself would be interested in doing and in any case she's happy with me being the dominant person in our personal life so all's good there, I do enjoy watching her enjoying herself yes and often ponder what some guys enjoy about being pegged by a big woman like my wife especially the physical size of some of those toys she uses sometimes. It's all good fun and makes life interesting.