Now that I'm not at work on my cell phone..... KJGuy, let's face it... the truth of the matter is that no matter gay or straight, or anywhere in between, guys look. It's primal instinct. The high school, collegiate, and professional locker rooms are proof. Every guy looks; some out of simply primal observation, some more than others for the "damn, nice bro" factor or (due to unfortunate meanness) the "I'm sorry" factor, or some for the "I'm attracted to that/want to play with that" factor. In my firm opinion, even some straight guys every once in a while just get a kick out of touching another guys dick. I'm going to go out on a limb here and say a little something controversial.... Flaunt what you have; Don't necessarily "throw it in everyone's face", but if you *want* to wear certain "more revealing" things, then as long as long as it's done tastefully, there shouldn't be a damned problem with it. It's all about how you carry yourself. If you just go about "business as usual" (adjusting when necessary, but never playing with it) there is nothing wrong with it. NOW... here is why I have this opinion.... If a child has to point and ask what "that" is, that means said child is old enough to formulate reasonable questions, *which in turn means* PARENTING FAIL: If your child is old enough to formulate a reasonable question such as that, they shouldn't be needing to ask because they SHOULD HAVE ALREADY BEEN TOLD. To wit, I'd be saying something to the parent(s) that may or may not be well received. If you want to wear something more conservative *for you*, then by all means. Do NOT change reasonable clothing or responsible behavior due to an overly sensitive FOOL.