Taboo for Black Men to enjoy Anal Play.

[imhavingproblems]

I always found it weird how black men talk about anal play like it's the plague, no matter if it's solo, or with their significant other. They feel like if they express it, they will be outed as "GAY" (not saying that anything is wrong with being gay, still highly taboo in the black community). I still remember my first foray into anal play. I was young and in the military. I was getting head and she slid a finger in. Thought I was gonna explode into fireworks. And over the years, graduated to letting an ex peg me while I ate another woman's puss. It was a fun and eventful evening. And now, if I feel the urge, I will pull out a 9.5 that I have in my closet, and fuck myself until I'm dripping cum from the tip of my dick, then finish myself off. If that's what you like, I don't see the issue. At the end of the day, it's all about YOU feeling good. If you're a black man, and you like your ass played with, fuck it. Enjoy what makes you feel good. And if you have a partner that likes to partake in the festivities, you've got it made. It's 2025, it's all about what you like, fuck everybody else (literally). Just thoughts running through my mind. I'm about to go sit on my toy and enjoy myself.

 

[BigButtSport]

Straight Black man here. Masculine, professional man who loves some hot anal play. I use dildos, butt plugs, beads and finger myself often. I have a 11 inch dildo that I love to ride and wreck my asshole with on the regular. Feels so good! Nothing wrong with anal play for Black men at all. I been at it for over 15 years.

 

[chrisrobin]

Its not something I've experienced with b lack guys, they have been all over me and me over them - and loving it. Experiences in the USA, Canada and Europe have all been exceedingly anal

 

[MatthewW7676]

Straight Black man here. Masculine, professional man who loves some hot anal play. I use dildos, butt plugs, beads and finger myself often. I have a 11 inch dildo that I love to ride and wreck my asshole with on the regular. Feels so good! Nothing wrong with anal play for Black men at all. I been at it for over 15 years.

Sounds hot! Love straight guys with greedy holes!

 

[theplayerking]

I love fucking black men. Their skin is so soft that it feels amazing.

 

[funboi85]

My ex-boyfriend certainly didn't feel that way lol. He was black and a total power bottom.

 

[HOU_HEADHUNTER]

Black masculinity and what it means to be a black man is highly scrutinized within the black community which is why there are so many black men on the DL. The curiosity for that kind of pleasure is there but many black straight men will never experience it due to perception and fear of being labeled gay. Black women tend to be more conservative sexually and would probably judge their partner negatively if he showed an interest in any kind of anal play. This is also a reason why black men are more likely to experiment outside of their race with women/men who will be open to providing that type of pleasure. I'm a black gay man and I've introduced a lot of bi-curious and straight identifying men to anal pleasure of some sore. Sometimes it's penetrative (finger, toy, penis) but most times it's just analingus (oral). They've always enjoyed the experience when it's done with patience and care. I wish black people could be more open-minded to different forms of pleasure without it being gay or straight. It's sex and if it's with a female then there should be no question of whether or not it's straight or gay.

 

[imhavingproblems]

I love fucking black men. Their skin is so soft that it feels amazing.

It’s all the oils and butters straight out of the shower!! LOL!!

 

[imhavingproblems]

My ex-boyfriend certainly didn't feel that way lol. He was black and a total power bottom.

Black masculinity and what it means to be a black man is highly scrutinized within the black community which is why there are so many black men on the DL. The curiosity for that kind of pleasure is there but many black straight men will never experience it due to perception and fear of being labeled gay. Black women tend to be more conservative sexually and would probably judge their partner negatively if he showed an interest in any kind of anal play. This is also a reason why black men are more likely to experiment outside of their race with women/men who will be open to providing that type of pleasure. I'm a black gay man and I've introduced a lot of bi-curious and straight identifying men to anal pleasure of some sore. Sometimes it's penetrative (finger, toy, penis) but most times it's just analingus (oral). They've always enjoyed the experience when it's done with patience and care. I wish black people could be more open-minded to different forms of pleasure without it being gay or straight. It's sex and if it's with a female then there should be no question of whether or not it's straight or gay.

Exactly!!!!

 

[icebergslm5506]

Black masculine man here. Ie enjoyed pegging for years. I’ve been pegged to shaking anal orgasms by multiple women, and I love to use my dildo solo when I get the urge. My most recent ex used to get off on licking and fingering my ass, although I don’t peg with women I’m in a relationship with

 

[BigButtSport]

Sounds hot! Love straight guys with greedy holes!

Thanks man! It's not something I talk about with my homeboys, although it'd be nice. The same way straight women talk about their kinks with each other.

I love it though. About to wreck my hole again while I watch baseball. Sorry if that's tmi.

 

[EnglishP]

Black masculine man here. Ie enjoyed pegging for years. I’ve been pegged to shaking anal orgasms by multiple women, and I love to use my dildo solo when I get the urge. My most recent ex used to get off on licking and fingering my ass, although I don’t peg with women I’m in a relationship with

Why do you draw that line?

 

[EnglishP]

I’m gay and do enjoy getting fucked, fucking etc but I have a this burning desire to be pegged by a woman

 

[icebergslm5506]

Why do you draw that line?

I feel like it would disturb the natural balance of the relationship, and also there’s a huge potential for a partner to misunderstand what a love for pegging means in terms of sexuality. I much rather enjoy it with women who are in it strictly for that activity, as I know they are enjoying it for the same reasons I am

 

[sdklfkjnwq5]

I always found it weird how black men talk about anal play like it's the plague, no matter if it's solo, or with their significant other. They feel like if they express it, they will be outed as "GAY" (not saying that anything is wrong with being gay, still highly taboo in the black community). I still remember my first foray into anal play. I was young and in the military. I was getting head and she slid a finger in. Thought I was gonna explode into fireworks. And over the years, graduated to letting an ex peg me while I ate another woman's puss. It was a fun and eventful evening. And now, if I feel the urge, I will pull out a 9.5 that I have in my closet, and fuck myself until I'm dripping cum from the tip of my dick, then finish myself off. If that's what you like, I don't see the issue. At the end of the day, it's all about YOU feeling good. If you're a black man, and you like your ass played with, fuck it. Enjoy what makes you feel good. And if you have a partner that likes to partake in the festivities, you've got it made. It's 2025, it's all about what you like, fuck everybody else (literally). Just thoughts running through my mind. I'm about to go sit on my toy and enjoy myself.

Are you black?

 

[sdklfkjnwq5]

Black masculinity and what it means to be a black man is highly scrutinized within the black community which is why there are so many black men on the DL. The curiosity for that kind of pleasure is there but many black straight men will never experience it due to perception and fear of being labeled gay. Black women tend to be more conservative sexually and would probably judge their partner negatively if he showed an interest in any kind of anal play. This is also a reason why black men are more likely to experiment outside of their race with women/men who will be open to providing that type of pleasure. I'm a black gay man and I've introduced a lot of bi-curious and straight identifying men to anal pleasure of some sore. Sometimes it's penetrative (finger, toy, penis) but most times it's just analingus (oral). They've always enjoyed the experience when it's done with patience and care. I wish black people could be more open-minded to different forms of pleasure without it being gay or straight. It's sex and if it's with a female then there should be no question of whether or not it's straight or gay.

To be honest, there is nothing unusual about straight men not being interested in their anus. There's nothing uniquely black about that. Most straight men of all colours do not do this.

 

[imhavingproblems]

I am.

 

[imhavingproblems]

Are you black?

I am, thought that was implied by the initial posting.

 

[MatthewW7676]

Thanks man! It's not something I talk about with my homeboys, although it'd be nice. The same way straight women talk about their kinks with each other.

I love it though. About to wreck my hole again while I watch baseball. Sorry if that's tmi.

Oh, no! Not TMI at all! do you have videos? that sounds awesome! nothing like hearing straight man moan and say "fuck my hole" as their pussies are being filled and wrecked! Sounds beautiful!

 

[Sexymarriedandbored22]

I always found it weird how black men talk about anal play like it's the plague, no matter if it's solo, or with their significant other. They feel like if they express it, they will be outed as "GAY" (not saying that anything is wrong with being gay, still highly taboo in the black community). I still remember my first foray into anal play. I was young and in the military. I was getting head and she slid a finger in. Thought I was gonna explode into fireworks. And over the years, graduated to letting an ex peg me while I ate another woman's puss. It was a fun and eventful evening. And now, if I feel the urge, I will pull out a 9.5 that I have in my closet, and fuck myself until I'm dripping cum from the tip of my dick, then finish myself off. If that's what you like, I don't see the issue. At the end of the day, it's all about YOU feeling good. If you're a black man, and you like your ass played with, fuck it. Enjoy what makes you feel good. And if you have a partner that likes to partake in the festivities, you've got it made. It's 2025, it's all about what you like, fuck everybody else (literally). Just thoughts running through my mind. I'm about to go sit on my toy and enjoy myself.

Hmm I’ve only been with 1 black guy and he loves when I licked his asshole. I didn’t stick my fingers in him or anything but he sure went crazy and pushed my face deep into his ass when I went down there